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Do you judge the way you look by how others look?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Deleted it by mistake..
When someone messages you and you think they are really attractive it puts me off a little and makes me think ' Why would you want me'.
Or is it just me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know why they want me. It's why they join here in the first place.
The ones who don't want a middle aged fat woman, who doesn't wear sexy lingerie or make much of an effort to look sexy, don't message me. |
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"Deleted it by mistake..
When someone messages you and you think they are really attractive it puts me off a little and makes me think ' Why would you want me'.
Or is it just me lol"
Sounds like a self esteem issue.
I expect the people messaging you find you more attractive than you believe yourself to be. |
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I'm slowly getting out of doing it.
There are times when I wonder if they're needing a trip to the opticians when they message.
One thing that I have noticed though, those that I think that about tend to have partners that have no clue they're on here. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Although I'm extremely self-deprecating I have learned to take it as a compliment when someone tells me they find me attractive and accept that even though I think they see something I don't that I'm not the one to judge in that instance.
If we then go on to chat some more and find a connection and chemistry any self-doubt goes completely out the window  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deleted it by mistake..
When someone messages you and you think they are really attractive it puts me off a little and makes me think ' Why would you want me'.
Or is it just me lol"
Im exactly the same!
Think its a confidence issue.
I also worry attractive men might think i'm an easy ride (excuse the pun!) because im an older plus size woman! 
I'm not by the way! Lol |
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"Deleted it by mistake..
When someone messages you and you think they are really attractive it puts me off a little and makes me think ' Why would you want me'.
Or is it just me lol
Im exactly the same!
Think its a confidence issue.
I also worry attractive men might think i'm an easy ride (excuse the pun!) because im an older plus size woman!
I'm not by the way! Lol"
Why worry about what other people might be thinking when you can't possibly know? |
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