We have been to quite a few, and they have all been basically the same.
Its usual to bring your own drink... and condoms lol!
People gather in rooms downstairs to chat, make friends and catch up with the gossip.
Sometimes there is some food in the form of a buffet in the kitchen, and lots of people gather there too.
Any action goes on upstairs in designated bedrooms.
Some go up out of curiosity, to have a look.
Some go to play in private (usually indicated by closed door).
And others leave the door open, which (usually) means an open invite to others.
Some remain downstairs chatting, and never venture upstairs, this is completely up to them.
In one or two occassions, in small parties, things can kick off in downstairs rooms too, and it can end up as a bit of an orgy, but this is pretty rare.
As with all swinging, people are entitled to say "no thanks" at any time.
Above all, enjoy, make friends and only do what you want to do.  |
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first and only one we went to was like an orgy... bit too full on for our first time..
So we found a nice couple who were a bit unsure like us and took them back to ours for a bit of more intimate fun! |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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Some go to play in private (usually indicated by closed door).
And others leave the door open, which (usually) means an open invite to others.
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I'm pretty sure we've been to the same parties, and I've never known anyone to take the blindest bit of notice of a closed door |
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"We have been to quite a few, and they have all been basically the same.
Its usual to bring your own drink... and condoms lol!
People gather in rooms downstairs to chat, make friends and catch up with the gossip.
Sometimes there is some food in the form of a buffet in the kitchen, and lots of people gather there too.
Any action goes on upstairs in designated bedrooms.
Some go up out of curiosity, to have a look.
Some go to play in private (usually indicated by closed door).
And others leave the door open, which (usually) means an open invite to others.
Some remain downstairs chatting, and never venture upstairs, this is completely up to them.
In one or two occassions, in small parties, things can kick off in downstairs rooms too, and it can end up as a bit of an orgy, but this is pretty rare.
As with all swinging, people are entitled to say "no thanks" at any time.
Above all, enjoy, make friends and only do what you want to do. "
I think this would pretty much sum up all of the parties we have been to.
The good thing if you are worried is the fact there is no need to play, that takes off all the pressure!
Love a good party me, you can't beat it! |
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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago
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Well we have went to our first party few weeks ago lovely ppl but just realise that the party is not our thing.Prefare just to organise meets on our own its much better.But guluck 2 you both let us know how u got on.xxxx  |
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Some go to play in private (usually indicated by closed door).
And others leave the door open, which (usually) means an open invite to others.
I'm pretty sure we've been to the same parties, and I've never known anyone to take the blindest bit of notice of a closed door "
yeah that's a shame that people don't take notice or even sometimes know the older etiquette rules - they should.
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Some go to play in private (usually indicated by closed door).
And others leave the door open, which (usually) means an open invite to others.
I'm pretty sure we've been to the same parties, and I've never known anyone to take the blindest bit of notice of a closed door "
Erm..... actually I think you could be right lol!
Ok, so the closed door SHOULD indicate a private session, but admittedly some people do still open it to peek in, and sometimes join in, but a solution is a curt "Fekk orf!" lol, usually sends people away !!! |
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I love swinging parties! You can usually involve yourself as much or as little as you want. My advice, go with the flow and see where it takes you. Enjoy! |
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i love house parties they my fave to be honest
all i have been to have been great, people tend to chat downstairs and play upstairs so its not in your face everywhere you go
ive never been to a bad one yet, been to a few where i havnt played because noones took my fancy but i dont class that as a bad party |
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i host monthly partys nr bournemouth the norm is that peeps bring a bottle and sit around downstairs chatting n drinking and you see that peeps start to get together after a while i have normally had to say well if anyones up for fun the rooms are open and peeps drift off upstairs and the fun begins during the evening peeps pop back up n down all night lol great fun all my partys have the same rules no means no and at no time is anyone under any pressure to play have fun thats my motto |
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