"Cuddling, kissing and snuggling are all part of being intimate with someone for me  "
Same here! Obviously a meet with a couple is a different dynamic though! Then it tends to be sensual with the female - passionate fucking with the Male! Little cuddling involved though!
When I meet a single Male, however, each meet tends to be a ‘mini relationship ‘ - all the good stuff, none of the aggro afterwards!  Lots of affection, giggles, sensual kissing, chatting and, of course, great sex! ?? |
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over a year ago
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Feels weird cuddling - but that could be because I’m married! I do enjoy cuddling though 
I used to cuddle my FB, but we usually had chats after fucking about how tragic our lives were, and it would be a ‘Oh come here you’ sypmathetic cuddle. Used to play with my hair too - only meet that did that! |
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As a cheating wife (judge away, I’ve heard it all before) it’s the one thing I save for hubby, but on rare rare very rare occasions, when there has been a very special connection, I have been known to have a brief cuddle |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's part of a meet usually, don't think I've met any men where some kind of cuddles don't happen  "
I had fun with a man who sat with his arms folded afterwards....hmmmm.....then was disappointed when I didn't meet him again. |
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"Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle "
Love overnighters filled with sex and spooning |
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"Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle
Love overnighters filled with sex and spooning"
Felt nice and not rushed or on the clock so to speak |
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"Love them, the last couple of meets I've had have been overnighters, couldn't go to sleep (when we did eventually) without having a cuddle
Love overnighters filled with sex and spooning
Felt nice and not rushed or on the clock so to speak "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"
Love one be it social or during an intence session or after just to lay together recovering |
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"I think you naturally cuddle afterwards if you've enjoyed the sex!
Not with me, sex could be really good and I still wouldn’t want a cuddle "
Yep I agree. I get my cuddles at home. Guess that's the difference between swingers and singles. |
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"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?
Love one be it social or during an intence session or after just to lay together recovering "
You don't do cuddles....your hands are too busy wandering  |
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"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?
Love one be it social or during an intence session or after just to lay together recovering
You don't do cuddles....your hands are too busy wandering "
I resemble that statement got to make the most of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you naturally cuddle afterwards if you've enjoyed the sex!
Not with me, sex could be really good and I still wouldn’t want a cuddle
Yep I agree. I get my cuddles at home. Guess that's the difference between swingers and singles. "
no. Even as a single I'd find it weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple that play together always, no we dont cuddle....i guess thats a hard one be it a couple play meet or single, unless its with each other its a tad too personal. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I absolutely love cuddles.. but used to worry I was being too intimate... I wouldn’t anymore and just snuggle right up!!
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Know what you mean - I usually ask before I do as I know not everyone likes it |
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"I absolutely love cuddles.. but used to worry I was being too intimate... I wouldn’t anymore and just snuggle right up!!
Know what you mean - I usually ask before I do as I know not everyone likes it "
I would always ask first and always have but if I was told yes then I would just cuddle and make the most of it hehe... where as before I wouldn’t cuddle for too long! |
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Playing as a couple with another couple I would find it a bit of a tricky situation and I think, well I know I want to leave that to be something just hubby and I share. If I was a singleton though I would love it!! I love a cuddle!! Head on a mans chest and running my fingers all over his torso!! Delish |
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Oddly enough I have only met two women who didn’t want to cuddle and the sex wasn’t very enjoyable with them whereas I have had many long nights of fucking, cuddling, falling asleep, waking and fucking some more then watching the dawn come up as my fb gently snores and pushes her arse towards me to take once again....lovely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to cuddle on a meet!
The only thing is if it’s after sex I end up unintentionally falling asleep. And me sleeping isn’t cute, mouth wide open! Hahaha. |
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"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"
Im into it, as long as i have my ear played with too... dead relaxing lol  |
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"Cuddling, kissing and snuggling are all part of being intimate with someone for me
Same here! Obviously a meet with a couple is a different dynamic though! Then it tends to be sensual with the female - passionate fucking with the Male! Little cuddling involved though!
When I meet a single Male, however, each meet tends to be a ‘mini relationship ‘ - all the good stuff, none of the aggro afterwards! Lots of affection, giggles, sensual kissing, chatting and, of course, great sex! ??"
awwww a mini relationship ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A meet without cuddles feels too clinical and pretty much assures I won't meet them again....even worse when they go to shake hands afterwards  makes it feel like a business transaction.
I don't need kisses or anything heavy but at least they can give me a cwtch and tell me they've enjoyed it....bonus points if they tell me I'm pretty |
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"A meet without cuddles feels too clinical and pretty much assures I won't meet them again....even worse when they go to shake hands afterwards makes it feel like a business transaction.
I don't need kisses or anything heavy but at least they can give me a cwtch and tell me they've enjoyed it....bonus points if they tell me I'm pretty "
I guess this is why I stick to club meets... as I like to be able to just get up and go after. I am in a bit of an odd place though after coming out of an intimate relationship where I actually enjoyed stuff I'd never wanted to before. Such as kissing him and cuddling up. Stuff with previous relationships I'd not done.
So wondering if I will find it different now. Not actually played yet fully so don't know |
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"Playing as a couple with another couple I would find it a bit of a tricky situation and I think, well I know I want to leave that to be something just hubby and I share. If I was a singleton though I would love it!! I love a cuddle!! Head on a mans chest and running my fingers all over his torso!! Delish "
I understand that in a couples situation. |
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"Do you cuddle on a meet and does it matter to you whether you do or don't have a cuddle?"
Being kinky I have always used cuddles as after care.... why shouldn’t there be after care after sex too?
Also I’m a cuddle/hug whore! |
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