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over a year ago
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As many know I'm involved in a new swingers club that opens very soon....
Now I'm trying to convince the boss that we need a few things..
So here is your chance... What nights would you like to see...
So far I've obviously got a greedy girls evening I want to put on..
Once a month a bukkake party...
Bi night obviously
Would like to host a fetish night but I've been told that when swinging clubs do fetish nights its not always that good ... So anyone with ideas on how you would like a night like that please let me know...
One other idea I have is as its a towel club.. that maybe one night we have it where its clothed if you like..
Please please give me ideas... And let me know what you would like to see..
I'm not being paid to work here.. but have been involved since day one.
Cali x |
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Fet nights do work in swingers clubs if u advertise them properly...lifestylers tend to look down on swingers,whereas many swingers love incorporating aspects of BDSM into their sex...the dungeon at clubf( the best dungeon i have ever visited) is packed on party nights and newbies love it.
Do consider trying it.
The townhouse*which also has great fet nights) does newbie and over 50s nights,both seem good ideas to me
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Thanks.. Well Being as I am always on here.. its good for me to get what people really want..
I think all the ideas are good ones.. 
I have been told that if I think I can get people in that I can open on a night that we are not currently using for themed nights.. and I really want to go on making it a good night for all...
I am getting nervous now though lol ....
I have suggest free membership with entry for the first month but thing is its not my club... and I have to remember that its meant to make money.. As if it were mine.. I would have a party and invite lots of friends lol
I like the cougar night too.. and the blackandwhite idea.. all going in my little book..
Jemima.. if I do a fetish night I will be calling on all my friends to help me make it be done right.. Reminds me.. meant to be looking for more restraints for the dungeon.. not on fab haha
(easily distracted)
Cali x |
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Couples night is going to be every Friday..
and ohh a nude night.. Me thinks I am running out of days..
One thing... At the moment its only going to open Thurs- Sat from about 8pm.....
I am saying that people want to be able to come down in the days .. and even open one day a week from say 12 would be good...
am I talking rubbish..
and actually swing is on the list of things to include..
We are opening with about 1/3 of the available space done.. it looks like a complete club. but we have a lot of room to expand.. and even have an outdoor area that isnt over looked and could be used for a "safe" dogging spot if needed..
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i realllllllllllllllllllllllllly think clubs should have a webcam room...even if its not sexually based, ppl can live feed to others how the club is etcetc
masks by the cam if needed
of course shag if u like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As many know I'm involved in a new swingers club that opens very soon....
Now I'm trying to convince the boss that we need a few things..
So here is your chance... What nights would you like to see...
So far I've obviously got a greedy girls evening I want to put on..
Once a month a bukkake party...
Bi night obviously
Would like to host a fetish night but I've been told that when swinging clubs do fetish nights its not always that good ... So anyone with ideas on how you would like a night like that please let me know...
One other idea I have is as its a towel club.. that maybe one night we have it where its clothed if you like..
Please please give me ideas... And let me know what you would like to see..
I'm not being paid to work here.. but have been involved since day one.
Cali x "
Hi Cali,
I think if you cater for all during the fetish night then it could be a success. For instance; have rooms for the more experienced in fetish and rooms for those that would prefer a softer tie and tease.
You could perhaps be the first club that does 'Demo's' like they do at the BBB. Nothing wrong with a bit of educating in the lifestyle and the different kinks.
There are a few other ALT dating/meeting websites you could promote the club as well as specialist magazines.
Rather than panning the whole idea of a fetish night why look to do it once a fortnight or once month till word spreads. This should give you time to concentrate on other themed nights and when you do fetish nights you will then have more time to make it fantastic. I knew a normal commercial nightclub which used to do fetish night once a month and it was really popular.
Wish you all the best with the opening. x
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i'm guessing it will have a good size dungeon with good varied equipment so would love to be kept informed of this new club as we have only found one that was any good and used to travel a few hours to enjoy so one a bit closer to us would be fabulous
what is the dress code going to be?
personally i think one of the reasons chams is so sucsessfull is because of its dress code its rather leveling |
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Actually the dungeon is not as big as I had hoped but the whole club can and will be expanded over time....
Dress code is going to be same as chams although got towel robes for those that want them...
I will feel over dressed lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually the dungeon is not as big as I had hoped but the whole club can and will be expanded over time....
Dress code is going to be same as chams although got towel robes for those that want them...
I will feel over dressed lol
Cali "
hmmm shame about the dungeon but then your not big may be my mmmm lovely and roomy lol
good to hear bout dress code might just give it a go then check it out
will pester you for more info if thats ok hunny
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thats fine.. hoping the club listing should be up this week as have done all that was asked now.. and sent admin a message..
I just have to see what Master dresses me in for Opening night.. and hope people turn up or I will look very silly lol
Cali x |
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Well tonight is the night...
Single guys really do need to ring the club message me.. as its restricted entry for single guys...
Be good to see lots of people down tonight.. club is now showing on the club listing.
Cali x |
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It's on the club listings now.. and xotixxtreme is name.
I don't know about single male entry being high as It's set similar to most.. however single men are only let in at a ratio... So as with other places its best to ring first.. only exceptions is greedy girls night..
We had a good but quiet first night and no one I recognised...
Cali x
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If you want numbers then please
DO A FREE SLEEP-OVER......
PLEASE
Doesn't matter about the rules after 4am or whatever, let people crash out, give them a coffee and a bacon butty, then send them on their way in the morning.
Soooo many clubs are low on numbers, and this we think is the reason why..
we think this because we ask people, and this is what they say !!!
Good luck with your club...
XXXXXXXXXXXXXx
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Just had a look, looks good £40 for single guys does seam a little high I do like the idea of a viewable lockable room though. Is that just for couples or is that for singles too. And will you be getting a jacuzzi and what are the changing room facilities like. I do like chams but the only thing is attention to detail never any soap in the toilets. |
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