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Social First

By *ubble Man OP Man over a year ago

Sheppey

Social first..... I know this site is about the naughty side of life and living out certain fantasies but I think a nice social is just as important.

I believe that if you meet up first albeit for a coffee, drink or a nice meal then it’s a great way to break the ice and see if you click.

It maybe that you do connect but don’t move onto the next stage until a further meet or you may feel that comfortable, that you know what, let’s do this.

What do you think??

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

Our life leaves little time for playing so we refuse to waste it on a social.

As adults we know who we would be happy meeting and playing with so we meet and play

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Each to there own as the saying goes but we absolutely want a social first. Yes we might play on the night later but want to get to know the people first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always have a social first. Find it's the best way to stop any awkwardness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My first meet is always a coffee social. If people don't want that, we're just not compatible.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always have a social first, to check them out obviously. It depends on a few factors as to whether we meet again.

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By *olliPineCouple over a year ago

swingers clubs

That's why we like to meet at clubs.

You can be sociable and have naughty fun times in the same place if all goes well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer socials simply because there have been too many times ive met an individual or couple, only to find they look nothing like their profile.

If i dont fancy you, i dont play. It really is that simple.

Then they give me shit for wasting their time

lol. WTF!!!

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By *ffanotdykeCouple over a year ago

Telford

Definitely has to be a social meeting first unless its a chance meeting in a club. You usually know within 45 mins whether it going to work or not but the social aspect softens the blow if its a none starter

We have to have some point of reference prior to the dirty deed otherwise its pretty soulless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely has to be a social meeting first unless its a chance meeting in a club. You usually know within 45 mins whether it going to work or not but the social aspect softens the blow if its a none starter

We have to have some point of reference prior to the dirty deed otherwise its pretty soulless."

precisely

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