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Wtf!!! How damn narrow mindedp
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
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I was blocked by a woman in here, who I was chatting very nicely with, getting along really well, until she asked to see my private pics because "I like to see what I'm going to get lol" So, I obliged her, by sending her a friend invite so that she could view my hidden pics. "Are you sure that's your cock? There's no mention of it in your veris?" says she, before blocking me 
There's a lot of odd people in here mate, don't stress over them, just move on as there's plenty of great people too   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That’s really shitty!
But don’t get worked up, they probably expected you to sound “ghetto” or speak “street slang” and was shocked when you didn’t!
I’ve had it happen to me before, not on here, and I was just shocked!
Some of the things people come out with amaze me! |
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"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
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It'll be a bloke in a string vest and half a cheese sandwich in his beard wanking over his laptop.
He'll see this and love how it's got to you,
Maintain a Glass half full attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
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Hey its just people, they are just so suspicious  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks peepz, I won't lie it did get under my skin for a few minutes but am cool now, unfortunately there are no shortages of such people, let's hope the good ones shine, like you guys, thanks again  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like?? "
I'd defo like to know now lol
Maybe we could make this a game guess if this person is really the nationality they claim lol |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like??
I'd defo like to know now lol
Maybe we could make this a game guess if this person is really the nationality they claim lol"
I(he) get this a lot, op. I don't sound 'black' either, apparently. 'You're the whitest black man we know' has been said but most people sound just like me from around where I live regardless of skin tone.
Ignore it, op, probably seeking a stereo type for their fantasies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yo rooood bwoyyyy yoo jus isna black nuff init! Ya shud da laid ya jiggity jiggity rap shit down on da bitches ass. Word! 
I suspect she was expecting something a bit like that. Such a shame when real life doesn't live up to stereotypical bullshit isn't it?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol |
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"Yo rooood bwoyyyy yoo jus isna black nuff init! Ya shud da laid ya jiggity jiggity rap shit down on da bitches ass. Word!
I suspect she was expecting something a bit like that. Such a shame when real life doesn't live up to stereotypical bullshit isn't it? "
HAHAH this cracked me up, is this another language? what is a jiggity? I'm Jamaican heritage and never heard of this thing you call jiggity hahahaha but it really made me laugh out loud. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wtf is a black man meant to sound like??
I'd defo like to know now lol
Maybe we could make this a game guess if this person is really the nationality they claim lol
I(he) get this a lot, op. I don't sound 'black' either, apparently. 'You're the whitest black man we know' has been said but most people sound just like me from around where I live regardless of skin tone.
Ignore it, op, probably seeking a stereo type for their fantasies. "
I get the you’re not really black thing a lot.....
If it’s someone I don’t like I reply with “ Well let me fuck your sister then , tell your parents I’m not really black “
If it’s someone I like I reply with “ Well tell that to the cop with his gun drawn, the next time I get pulled over driving “
They will never bring it up again.... |
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"
Shame she didn't give you the chance to say; "Is it 'coz I is white?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"
Omg please don’t. I love well spoken men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yo rooood bwoyyyy yoo jus isna black nuff init! Ya shud da laid ya jiggity jiggity rap shit down on da bitches ass. Word!
I suspect she was expecting something a bit like that. Such a shame when real life doesn't live up to stereotypical bullshit isn't it?
HAHAH this cracked me up, is this another language? what is a jiggity? I'm Jamaican heritage and never heard of this thing you call jiggity hahahaha but it really made me laugh out loud."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol
Shame she didn't give you the chance to say; "Is it 'coz I is white?" "
Omg that would have been hilarious, so wish I could of now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"
Honestly I don’t know you , but don’t believe the hype....
The idiots you see that talk street and wear their jeans below their knees are not true black people...
They are just urban people......
We have 3 doctors in my family... 1 is a surgeon , 30 nurses, 1 banker who is a director of a Fortune 500 company , 8 teachers , 3 are professors , numerous business owners.
What they all have in common is they were raised middle class and upper middle class.
You will never see these black people on tv because we are the true minority. We are just paying our bills and trying to give our children a better life. We don’t have time to protest or be outraged because we are working.....
Being urban is not a race thing it’s a socioeconomic thing...
You dress like your cohorts around you... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol
Honestly I don’t know you , but don’t believe the hype....
The idiots you see that talk street and wear their jeans below their knees are not true black people...
They are just urban people......
We have 3 doctors in my family... 1 is a surgeon , 30 nurses, 1 banker who is a director of a Fortune 500 company , 8 teachers , 3 are professors , numerous business owners.
What they all have in common is they were raised middle class and upper middle class.
You will never see these black people on tv because we are the true minority. We are just paying our bills and trying to give our children a better life. We don’t have time to protest or be outraged because we are working.....
Being urban is not a race thing it’s a socioeconomic thing...
You dress like your cohorts around you..."
Don't you worry, am not about to change myself for the worse to please someone else's expectations of me, if you want me to become a better person then you're for me if you want me to pick up my stereotypical idiot when I leave you behind.
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"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
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It probably not just me but i don't really get the fetishisation of black men (and women), not sounding "black enough" is a strong indicator that you dodged a bullet mate xxx |
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol
Shame she didn't give you the chance to say; "Is it 'coz I is white?"
Omg that would have been hilarious, so wish I could of now lol "
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"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
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To be fair, your verifications don't state you are a black guy.
To help this poor woman out, all the future verifications we give out will have the line "Genuine black guy" add to them...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well if wanted the Jamaican thin i would of happily given it to her as that's where my family from lol
Hahaha yeah am gonna start talking street and wear my jeans down by my knees lol"
Stop being posh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
To be fair, your verifications don't state you are a black guy.
To help this poor woman out, all the future verifications we give out will have the line "Genuine black guy" add to them... "
Going to have to get a genuine black guy stamp of approval on my profile now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's just bonkers!!
I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol
Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do  "
I thought you were going to tell a joke then. Chinese man with an Irish accent walks into a bar |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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"That's just bonkers!!
I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol
Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do
I thought you were going to tell a joke then. Chinese man with an Irish accent walks into a bar "
HaHa sorry to disappoint x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it me or is it extremely narrow-minded and stupid, to call someone a liar and block them because he (me) don't sound like "a black man" over the phone?!
So how am I meant to sound then?! I was born in London and lived here everyday of my life, so guess what, I sound like me, a man that so happens to be black.
What also pissed me off is not only have I been called a liar, some of those people that has left me genuine verifications are liars too now, women whom I've sat down and had drinks with face to face.
Because I don't sound like a black man, what the actual fuck!!!
Can't believe some people can be this way in 2018 but you know what, am the lucky one I've missed that bullet!!
At least I give people the opportunity to be themselves I'm not a stereotype.
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Sounds like you’ve had a lucky escape to be honest, she sounds like an idiot..... or maybe what you Londoners call a ‘Lump of school’ .... Sorry Googled that slang |
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"That's just bonkers!!
I worked with a Chinese man with an Irish accent, I wonder what they would make of him lol
Just laugh about it and move on, all you can do
I thought you were going to tell a joke then. Chinese man with an Irish accent walks into a bar "
There is a half Chinese man that comes to our local club with a very strong Irish accent, a lot of people do a double take when they first met him and it is hilarious to watch. |
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the way you wrote that thread I thought you were ginger 