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So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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Please take no personal offence at this. Maybe some men like the idea of being with a tv/ts more than they can handle the reality of you still having original plumbing?
There are plenty out there that have all kinds of kinks that never survive the first transfer from fantasy to reality. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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I would say theirs. I would have made an excuse and left tbh. |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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Lol WTF...how could you not perform when it comes down to sex...must be nerves...some have the balls, some dont... |
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"Please take no personal offence at this. Maybe some men like the idea of being with a tv/ts more than they can handle the reality of you still having original plumbing?
There are plenty out there that have all kinds of kinks that never survive the first transfer from fantasy to reality."
My junk is only visible if you want to see it... so it’s not that. |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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I actually think it’s a bit harsh what your saying OP. My take on your post is you want everyone to tell you it’s not your fault....followed by a string of compliments.
You do look great in your photos - no doubt! But, pictures aren’t everything and perhaps something is off kilter and the chemistry is just not right!!
It’s not the guys “fault” just because he couldn’t it up.....and as for other comments stating they’d make an excuse and quickly leave is actually a bit shitty in my opinion. I’m sure the bloke wasn’t feeling to good about themselves at that precise moment either. Guys have emotions too and if that was directed at a woman who was naff in bed the sexist brigades would be on it and crucifying the poster!!
Fact is it’s 50/50 and if you don’t do it for someone it’s just not really going to work!!! Or......if it’s happening a lot to you specifically,maybe you give a crap blowy....
Mrs G!
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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Statistical studies generally show that for every 10 sexual encounters 2 will be completely naff 6 will be ok and 2 will be off the planet in heaven.
Also as has been said sexual urges start initially in the brain so if your not turned on you don't turn hard.
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
I actually think it’s a bit harsh what your saying OP. My take on your post is you want everyone to tell you it’s not your fault....followed by a string of compliments.
You do look great in your photos - no doubt! But, pictures aren’t everything and perhaps something is off kilter and the chemistry is just not right!!
It’s not the guys “fault” just because he couldn’t it up.....and as for other comments stating they’d make an excuse and quickly leave is actually a bit shitty in my opinion. I’m sure the bloke wasn’t feeling to good about themselves at that precise moment either. Guys have emotions too and if that was directed at a woman who was naff in bed the sexist brigades would be on it and crucifying the poster!!
Fact is it’s 50/50 and if you don’t do it for someone it’s just not really going to work!!! Or......if it’s happening a lot to you specifically,maybe you give a crap blowy....
Mrs G!
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Firstly, am not after compliments. I know who/what I am and what my limitations are. We all have feelings and my motto is to treat people as I would want to be treated- with respect and with naughtiness.
And I asked him to leave because I didn’t want him to continue doing something his cock clearly wasn’t into. He chose to stay and eventually my shitty blowy did make him cum albeit from a semi.
I find that we are in a chem and extreme porn era where some guys want external influences without which they cannot perform.
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Please take no personal offence at this. Maybe some men like the idea of being with a tv/ts more than they can handle the reality of you still having original plumbing?
There are plenty out there that have all kinds of kinks that never survive the first transfer from fantasy to reality.
My junk is only visible if you want to see it... so it’s not that. "
May not matter if they see it or not, if they know it is there. They maybe thinking of what comes after the bj and not be as comfortable with it as they presumed they would be?
Not saying this is what has happened, only a possibility |
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over a year ago
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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Your local Member of Parliament's |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
Your local Member of Parliament's"
Good idea
I am going to start a petition on Change dot org and on the government petition site. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
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If it had been one guy op I'd offer a different answer..as it's happening to more than one...The common denominator is you op.. hope this helps |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
If it had been one guy op I'd offer a different answer..as it's happening to more than one...The common denominator is you op.. hope this helps "
It’s one guy. I was using plurals in the royal we sense. |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
If it had been one guy op I'd offer a different answer..as it's happening to more than one...The common denominator is you op.. hope this helps
It’s one guy. I was using plurals in the royal we sense. "
Ahhh I see , you can see how I'd be confused from the word lots of , they and them from your post would indicate more than one..
In that case try another guy if he doesn't get hard it's possibly you...if he does it's maybe the other guy but could still possibly have been you as well.
And if it had have been just the other guy my response would be..
if you didn't enjoy the meet
. block, move on 
Hope this helps. |
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"Every time this happens -put said bad boy on a table, hit 20 times with a mallet -problem sorted  "
That’s a wee bit drastic. I don’t want appear in dailymail as
Migrant descendant minces white male penis for not being able to get it up |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
If it had been one guy op I'd offer a different answer..as it's happening to more than one...The common denominator is you op.. hope this helps
It’s one guy. I was using plurals in the royal we sense. "
Had this guy been with a tv/ts before?
It may not have been what he was expecting?
If he had then it may just be that the chemistry wasn't there between you.
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"Viag or Kamag should sort
It won’t if they’ve over done it in the past. Tolerance builds!"
What I haven’t said is - he wanted to do Coke in my bathroom to help him. That was when my interest in him started to wane. I told him to leave as that’s not my thing. He said he wanted to stay and wouldn’t do it. I did eventually make him cum - but I don’t know - I feel should have been more assertive with him. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Viag or Kamag should sort
It won’t if they’ve over done it in the past. Tolerance builds!
What I haven’t said is - he wanted to do Coke in my bathroom to help him. That was when my interest in him started to wane. I told him to leave as that’s not my thing. He said he wanted to stay and wouldn’t do it. I did eventually make him cum - but I don’t know - I feel should have been more assertive with him. "
I'm assuming you were hosting the meet? That's pretty bad. I would have kicked him out. But I know sometimes that is very difficult. An old fab friend of mine was essentially assaulted when she decided it was a no.(can't use the R word on here) The guy said he had paid for the hotel already and barred the door. She went through with it to get it over with and didn't report as she was married at the time.  |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
If it had been one guy op I'd offer a different answer..as it's happening to more than one...The common denominator is you op.. hope this helps
It’s one guy. I was using plurals in the royal we sense.
Had this guy been with a tv/ts before?
It may not have been what he was expecting?
If he had then it may just be that the chemistry wasn't there between you.
Just move on "
No idea if I was his first. I didn’t ask that - rarely do. He is verified but no verifications are public. The meet has happened - I am trying to unpick what I could have done differently.
When you agree to meet someone, you invest a part of you and it’s disheartening. Plus there is an overuse of chems and chilling intoxicants in the last year I find. Maybe he was on some muscle build or fat loss tablet - clem for examples lowers sexual excitement from what I read. |
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"Viag or Kamag should sort
It won’t if they’ve over done it in the past. Tolerance builds!
What I haven’t said is - he wanted to do Coke in my bathroom to help him. That was when my interest in him started to wane. I told him to leave as that’s not my thing. He said he wanted to stay and wouldn’t do it. I did eventually make him cum - but I don’t know - I feel should have been more assertive with him.
I'm assuming you were hosting the meet? That's pretty bad. I would have kicked him out. But I know sometimes that is very difficult. An old fab friend of mine was essentially assaulted when she decided it was a no.(can't use the R word on here) The guy said he had paid for the hotel already and barred the door. She went through with it to get it over with and didn't report as she was married at the time. "
I always prefer to host. That way, I have some control over my security. He wasn’t aggressive or abusive - as a cd you already have enough insecurities - it’s just festering in my mind. I need to switch off and go back to work |
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"Viag or Kamag should sort
It won’t if they’ve over done it in the past. Tolerance builds!
What I haven’t said is - he wanted to do Coke in my bathroom to help him. That was when my interest in him started to wane. I told him to leave as that’s not my thing. He said he wanted to stay and wouldn’t do it. I did eventually make him cum - but I don’t know - I feel should have been more assertive with him. "
I’d be pretty certain he’d had some before he arrived. That’s explain a lot!
Coke really maximises desire, but doesn’t help ability in the slightest!! |
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"So lots of horny men recently messaging wanting a meet. But when it comes to the action, they can’t get it up.
Whose responsibility is to get them hard if after 30 min of sucking it’s just a semi?
I actually think it’s a bit harsh what your saying OP. My take on your post is you want everyone to tell you it’s not your fault....followed by a string of compliments.
You do look great in your photos - no doubt! But, pictures aren’t everything and perhaps something is off kilter and the chemistry is just not right!!
It’s not the guys “fault” just because he couldn’t it up.....and as for other comments stating they’d make an excuse and quickly leave is actually a bit shitty in my opinion. I’m sure the bloke wasn’t feeling to good about themselves at that precise moment either. Guys have emotions too and if that was directed at a woman who was naff in bed the sexist brigades would be on it and crucifying the poster!!
Fact is it’s 50/50 and if you don’t do it for someone it’s just not really going to work!!! Or......if it’s happening a lot to you specifically,maybe you give a crap blowy....
Mrs G!
Firstly, am not after compliments. I know who/what I am and what my limitations are. We all have feelings and my motto is to treat people as I would want to be treated- with respect and with naughtiness.
And I asked him to leave because I didn’t want him to continue doing something his cock clearly wasn’t into. He chose to stay and eventually my shitty blowy did make him cum albeit from a semi.
I find that we are in a chem and extreme porn era where some guys want external influences without which they cannot perform.
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If he came with a semi, sounds like he doesnt get fully erect too often. |
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