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"Enjoy Using it On him..Great way to Make some one "Earn" there release....
Any Couples on Fab like using chastity for Fun or punishment??
Who Enjoys using in there relationship??  "
We do but not to earn release. Release happens very rarely more inclined to describe cage use as permanent now |
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"Enjoy Using it On him..Great way to Make some one "Earn" there release....
Any Couples on Fab like using chastity for Fun or punishment??
Who Enjoys using in there relationship?? "
Definitely, the benefits are huge |
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over a year ago
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"can be great fun and teasing the person just to add to the pressure.
If you ever need someone to practice on then please let me know, I even come with my own cage "
wasnt aware i needed pratice |
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I have used chastity for years, to role play with my female partner or just abstain from sex for a while.
As a reference Using it when seeing guys is a whole different dynamic and some guys love the power it gives them over me.... It good fun and can add lots of intensity to play  |
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"I have used chastity for years, to role play with my female partner or just abstain from sex for a while.
As a reference Using it when seeing guys is a whole different dynamic and some guys love the power it gives them over me.... It good fun and can add lots of intensity to play "
I (him) would have to agree, some guys love the fact I’m caged on meets  |
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"can be great fun and teasing the person just to add to the pressure.
If you ever need someone to practice on then please let me know, I even come with my own cage
wasnt aware i needed pratice"
Ok then, maybe just trying a new man in the situation! X |
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Cuck here.
We do, though I probably need to be locked more to keep me in check. I’m normally locked when Miss Ellie playsbor if I’m going to be home alone for any period to stop any misbehaving on my part.
We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
Pic of me caged in our profile. |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
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This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck.. |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck.. "
Miss Ellie always wears the key round her neck too for all to see |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck..
Miss Ellie always wears the key round her neck too for all to see"
Domme wears the key either around neck or on anklet (she finds it irritates) Sissy often wears her ‘caged cock’ t shirts! |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck.. "
I love that outlook, so jealous of you in some ways.... I think my mrs would be better served keeping me in check so i don't upstage her   |
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I use chastity with my partner. She loves teasing me whilst wearing it. We have not really used it as it should be.
She tells me to put it on and pleasure her, she has sat on me soaking wet and cum just from me being caged! It throbs and is a unusual but nice feeling.
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"We have fun with this kind of play, and she loves to tease me when we do this.
Never met another swinger that's has an interest though."
Lucky cuck, she’s a total goddess |
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"Enjoy Using it On him..Great way to Make some one "Earn" there release....
Any Couples on Fab like using chastity for Fun or punishment??
Who Enjoys using in there relationship?? "
fuck no  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What tasks do keyholders make the chaste sub do? Would be interested in ideas.
I’m sometime made to wear Mistress’ panties, given a lift of chores to complete, be her chauffeur |
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"What tasks do keyholders make the chaste sub do? Would be interested in ideas.
I’m sometime made to wear Mistress’ panties, given a lift of chores to complete, be her chauffeur "
Since we married 3 and a half years ago I have been in chastity probably 90% of the time the 10% being earlier on sue to poor fitting devices etc. Since then I haven’t been allowed to wear men’s underwear at all, they have now been destroyed. I have chores which are just expected such as cooking,cleaning, the garden, etc and am sometimes left more specific instructions for extras. |
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By *ave biMan
over a year ago
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Similar , cooking ,cleaning , booking hotels for her ,I've a few regular bulls I have arrange her meets with . Plus all the usual cuck stuff .
Ps any of you real chaste guys get threatened with an orgasm as a punishment , anyone get a real down after cumming ( esp accidently ) after a long long period of chastity ? |
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"Similar , cooking ,cleaning , booking hotels for her ,I've a few regular bulls I have arrange her meets with . Plus all the usual cuck stuff .
Ps any of you real chaste guys get threatened with an orgasm as a punishment , anyone get a real down after cumming ( esp accidently ) after a long long period of chastity ?"
Never threatened with one ... I’ve been released and cum once this year and yes the feeling afterwards isn’t nice. Probably takes me a week to return to my contented submission |
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"Enjoy Using it On him..Great way to Make some one "Earn" there release....
Any Couples on Fab like using chastity for Fun or punishment??
Who Enjoys using in there relationship??
Sounds hard, to bear.
We do but not to earn release. Release happens very rarely more inclined to describe cag
e use as permanent now "
Sounds hard, to bear |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck.. "
Wearing key like that is extremely hot. Real Dominance. |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck.. "
Wearing key like that is extremely hot. Real Dominance. |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck..
Miss Ellie always wears the key round her neck too for all to see
Domme wears the key either around neck or on anklet (she finds it irritates) Sissy often wears her ‘caged cock’ t shirts! "
Wearing the key is erotic. With the t-shirt is that only in private and clubs? |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck..
Wearing key like that is extremely hot. Real Dominance."
Better when its left at home or in the locker |
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over a year ago
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"Bought 2 now can't get them around the base do they come in bigger size than 50 mm if so where.iam not big but 50mm is not big enough thanks"
U should be able to google search |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck..
Wearing key like that is extremely hot. Real Dominance.
Better when its left at home or in the locker"
True but the key around the neck might not be the key to the device he is wearing! |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck..
Wearing key like that is extremely hot. Real Dominance.
Better when its left at home or in the locker
True but the key around the neck might not be the key to the device he is wearing! "
excatly. |
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We also use it when out and I’m taking Miss Ellie shopping, nothing like being caged and made to treat Miss in the hope of release.
This.. we love that.. and all those pretty feet in summer sandals..
MrsM will always wear the keys around her neck..
Miss Ellie always wears the key round her neck too for all to see
Domme wears the key either around neck or on anklet (she finds it irritates) Sissy often wears her ‘caged cock’ t shirts!
Wearing the key is erotic. With the t-shirt is that only in private and clubs?"
No it’s in public!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don’t live together he is just a friend I happen to fuck xx I’m quite happily married and sub to hubby x
Ahh I get you there so much fun enjoy "
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Oh we do x |
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It's an integral part of our swinging.
MJ recently took over my sex life & decides who I meet. One of our things is for MJ to arrange a guy for me to pleasure & then deliver me to his address to be used as a toy.
Other times I will be made to give oral pleasure to the guys she meets then leave the room so I can't watch.
Her latest plan is for her to go into a viewing room with a guy whilst I'm behind the window, but on my knees. I'm to suck the guys who are watching her play.
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
Sussex/Surrey |
I have two (CB3000) which is really uncomfortable for any period of time and a full metal cage which isn’t discreet under clothing. Any recommendations for one which is comfortable and discreet to wear? |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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"I have two (CB3000) which is really uncomfortable for any period of time and a full metal cage which isn’t discreet under clothing. Any recommendations for one which is comfortable and discreet to wear? "
Check out steelworxx
Its a German manufacturer that's builds his cages to your measurement's. |
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"I have two (CB3000) which is really uncomfortable for any period of time and a full metal cage which isn’t discreet under clothing. Any recommendations for one which is comfortable and discreet to wear? "
Auction site holy trainer is very good |
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"I have two (CB3000) which is really uncomfortable for any period of time and a full metal cage which isn’t discreet under clothing. Any recommendations for one which is comfortable and discreet to wear? "
As previous replies.. Holy Trainer is compact and reasonably comfortable. I found boxer shorts rather than a tight trunk helped.. |
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Sara is currently wearing one she got from Wish.
It's a steel model with a very short cage section. She says it's quite comfortable IF you buy the right diameter ring.
Less than £15 posted (from china) so may be worth the punt. |
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"Love it as an occasional kink
But so many who are in to this seem Bi??
Possibly  "
From trying chastity I’ve found that the exclusion of the penis whilst chaste increases sensitivity in other areas, also the added frustration means that it adds a level of lust and desperation which makes subs (or those chaste) even more submissive and open to anything that will quench the thirst for orgasm or gratification. |
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"Love it as an occasional kink
But so many who are in to this seem Bi??"
I think there is a high correlation between chastity play and other forms of play that potentially involve bisexual activity. But it’s not always the case. One of the fascinating things about chastity is it is a common aspect to so many different groups of fetishes |
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"Love it as an occasional kink
But so many who are in to this seem Bi??
Possibly
From trying chastity I’ve found that the exclusion of the penis whilst chaste increases sensitivity in other areas, also the added frustration means that it adds a level of lust and desperation which makes subs (or those chaste) even more submissive and open to anything that will quench the thirst for orgasm or gratification."
Agreed! |
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"Love it as an occasional kink
But so many who are in to this seem Bi??
Possibly
From trying chastity I’ve found that the exclusion of the penis whilst chaste increases sensitivity in other areas, also the added frustration means that it adds a level of lust and desperation which makes subs (or those chaste) even more submissive and open to anything that will quench the thirst for orgasm or gratification.
Agreed! "
Yeah i agree too 
I enjoy the intense feelings and thirst for sexual play but it can be very non productive so be careful lol |
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"Sara is currently wearing one she got from Wish.
It's a steel model with a very short cage section. She says it's quite comfortable IF you buy the right diameter ring.
Less than £15 posted (from china) so may be worth the punt."
I just bought one it’s great £9 quite impressed with it, with a padlock. Although it is the small one (length) need to buy a lingerie one buy have seen one for £11 including shipping |
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over a year ago
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I am in permanent (apart from cleaning and shaving)chastity at the request of my partner as part of our FLR relationship.
I am only allowed to orgasm through pegging which is something I thought I would never be able to do but have to say it's a whole new ball game.
She says she doesn't miss my cock and loves who much attention I give and look after her needs. She loves the whole power shift and wants to take things to the next level with me, whatever that will be.
I have used the micro cages but they aren't great for long term because of the low grade metal.
I am currently in a Vice mini which is super light and very comfortable , only thing it misses is a security screw instead of a padlock.
I wouldn't go back to life without it now as it has become normalised now and I don't think she would let me anyway haha |
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"Love it as an occasional kink
But so many who are in to this seem Bi??
Possibly
From trying chastity I’ve found that the exclusion of the penis whilst chaste increases sensitivity in other areas, also the added frustration means that it adds a level of lust and desperation which makes subs (or those chaste) even more submissive and open to anything that will quench the thirst for orgasm or gratification."
Can certainly relate to this |
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"Love it as an occasional kink
But so many who are in to this seem Bi??
Possibly
From trying chastity I’ve found that the exclusion of the penis whilst chaste increases sensitivity in other areas, also the added frustration means that it adds a level of lust and desperation which makes subs (or those chaste) even more submissive and open to anything that will quench the thirst for orgasm or gratification.
Can certainly relate to this "
So last night was a play night ..... which involved me shaving legs etc then dressing in the sluttiest of three dresses that arrived on Friday full make up hair and heels we then spent an hour or so in separate rooms on cam in chat here while she teased me, some humiliation, chatting with men and talking together about their cocks and bodies. Then Domme told me to get on my knees and onto our fuck machine while others watched.
As I was being fucked by the machine she talked more about the guy who she’s going to cuckold me with ( first time) and sent me some pics he’d shared with her. She came up into the bedroom donned her gloves and then proceeded to fist fuck me including using both hands. During her fucking me I had multiple anal orgasms one of which produced some cum but nothing close to ejaculation. When we were done we kissed and cuddled for a while, I badly wanted to be inside her but wasn’t allowed ....
my cage has been on now, except for removal when she had my cock tattooed and once for an hour or two while she allowed me to fuck her, since October (that was a couple of days but it stands out in my head as a proper release from chastity).
So after a hard play session, with all the build up anticipation then a good hard fucking, without ejaculation I feel as horny and submissive this morning as I did before. Domme has no plans to release me and shared with me last night that she intends to spend the first night with her lover in a nice hotel, in lingerie that I’ll have bought for her to wear for him, and that should he be as good as she hopes then she’ll make him regular so won’t need to release me again.
This morning I am more in love with her than ever! Many won’t understand this but chastity and denial is in no way a punishment for me. |
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This morning I am more in love with her than ever! Many won’t understand this but chastity and denial is in no way a punishment for me. "
I'm finding this, its not a negative, instead a commitment to a mindset of putting another / others first whilst being kept in a state of mind that is very erotic. |
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Sounds hot..Im good 2 him..Let him have a day out every now and then...Will make sure he is tied wyen unlocking 2 prevent him from playing..really like the idea he cant touch until he is told..Been locked up for 6 days now..twice removed to clean and quick tease.2 more days then have 2 days off for us both..Going to make him earn the key first.. |
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"Sounds hot..Im good 2 him..Let him have a day out every now and then...Will make sure he is tied wyen unlocking 2 prevent him from playing..really like the idea he cant touch until he is told..Been locked up for 6 days now..twice removed to clean and quick tease.2 more days then have 2 days off for us both..Going to make him earn the key first.. "
That’s a good way to train him well. Any bad behaviour or disobedience should add a day-no excuses or arguments. It can be a bit annoying of course if you actually want penetrative sex yourself and don’t wish to cuckold him! But he should be developing his oral skills of course so that you can be satisfied while he remains frustrated. |
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His Oral Skills are fantastic..Do like keeping him blindfolded when licking for hours..When i want to be penetrated i grab a toy..then i let him watch from the cage in the corner when getting naughty.. |
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"His Oral Skills are fantastic..Do like keeping him blindfolded when licking for hours..When i want to be penetrated i grab a toy..then i let him watch from the cage in the corner when getting naughty.. "
Such a lucky sub |
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Holly trainer....Really it is cb6oo is good..plastic is more comfortable than metal however the rubber ones are even more comfortable but not very secure..
Trail.and error..We have 7 devices now so we like to mix it up.As long as he's locked dont mind witch one we go with |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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Went for the Holy Trainer V2 in the end, wearing it now for the first time. Bit of a struggle to get it on but guess it takes practice. Instantly better than the CB6000 though, even though it’s only been an hour. Will persevere and see how it goes. |
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It’s called a Trainer for a reason!
I find plenty of moisturiser helps. That tends to stop chaffing on my balls and also allows you to slide you shaft in easily..
And the more you wear it the more you like it and need it! |
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"I quite enjoy the idea of it. Not met anyone willing to let me have their key though.
I’d enjoy tormenting the cock before releasing it."
It’s lots of fun, not for everyone no doubt but we love it |
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"It’s called a Trainer for a reason!
I find plenty of moisturiser helps. That tends to stop chaffing on my balls and also allows you to slide you shaft in easily..
And the more you wear it the more you like it and need it! "
I like it which is good because I’m permanently locked ..... very comfortable but you never forget it’s there.... easyJet to forget what’s in it |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
Dublin and London |
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This morning I am more in love with her than ever! Many won’t understand this but chastity and denial is in no way a punishment for me.
I'm finding this, its not a negative, instead a commitment to a mindset of putting another / others first whilst being kept in a state of mind that is very erotic. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm new to chastity but I love the idea of someone else having the key. I'm going to Chams Monday afternoon, does anyone want the key so I'm not tempted to unlock it myself? |
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