Isn’t it strange, some women think guys don’t like big girls or girls that have fat, saggy or just large bodies/bums or boobs.
I adore big girls, I’ a medium build guy and have a real taste for bigger girls.
Why is it some bigger girls just don’t have the confidence or think guys wouldn’t like their bodies.
I for one love/adore bigger girls and am not afraid to say so.
Girls if you are on the bigger/larger side be proud as there are guys like me that adore you xxx
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It's not so much about thinking the guys won't like their bodies.... it's the fact you don't like your own body.
When I was fat, and I was FAT I hated looking in the mirror. I was ashamed and disappointed in myself for getting so big and not taking measures to stop the spiral.
I never wanted to lose weight to impress anyone apart from myself.
The opinions of random strangers, some of them hurt yes, being shouted at "FAT CUNT" from a moving car, but ultimately, the only person I cared about being happy with my body was me. |
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"It's not so much about thinking the guys won't like their bodies.... it's the fact you don't like your own body.
When I was fat, and I was FAT I hated looking in the mirror. I was ashamed and disappointed in myself for getting so big and not taking measures to stop the spiral.
I never wanted to lose weight to impress anyone apart from myself.
The opinions of random strangers, some of them hurt yes, being shouted at "FAT CUNT" from a moving car, but ultimately, the only person I cared about being happy with my body was me. "
Well said. I hate people thinking they need to lose weight to fit in with what society thinks.
However if they are losing weight because they want to that should be supported.
Fat shaming doesnt just happen to women either and it shouldnt be acceptable no matter who they are they are still a person at the end of the day.
You look amazing btw but then you mey well have done when you were larger too.
I know as a fat guy its harder to get meets as i dont live up the thr modern christian gray standards of many women. I am trying to lose weight but thats more due to having sleep apnea than anything else. |
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I agree with Princess Peach, it’s more about not liking your body & if you don’t like your body you are not going to have the confidence.
I’m a size 22, more a size 18/20 below now and I preferred myself at a size 14 and fully intend to get back down to that, I’ve lost weight and I’m liking it already. However I do have the confidence, I can look in the mirror and know I look good, but I can look better!
I’ve been called all the names under the sun both on here from bitter members I’ve politely rejected to in the street, or via social media and it honestly doesn’t bother me, it’s angers and saddens me though when I see it done to other people.
I’m a pretty strong person and the words of someone else have never bothered me since I was teased in school, so being called a “fat bitch” like I was today just makes me laugh and I’ll reply with “10/10 for observation hun” but I know everyone isn’t like me! |
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