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The difficulty in meeting soft swingers
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I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
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over a year ago
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We have come across quite a few soft swap couples, but mainly when we were in full swap mode haha!
It's that scenario when you are looking for something specific you can never find it!
Maybe try a club xx |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
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Any chance of you popping over to our profile?
It's what we are after also xxx |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
As a soft swap couple we know your pain .also we've found most soft couples have a bi female so it's even more difficult to find a straight soft swap couple .
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"We have come across quite a few soft swap couples, but mainly when we were in full swap mode haha!
It's that scenario when you are looking for something specific you can never find it!
Maybe try a club xx "
Yes that seems to be our everyday scenario lol
We are looking to try a club after our trip to Cornwall in a couple of weeks so maybe we'll click with someone then x T |
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"Yes this would appeal to me 
In what way, as in to play alone with a couple or as a 4some with your partner? X
Either!! I dont have a parnter but maybe I could find a victim  "
If only you were closer. Couples mostly want other couples or single females for soft swing so a single guy interested in soft swing is very often viewed with suspicion or derision... |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
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Your profile looks fab. Shame you’re so far away for a casual meeting. |
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Your profile looks fab. Shame you’re so far away for a casual meeting."
And that I think is the difficulty. Finding like-minded couples who meet your criteria and where there is four way chemistry. Hence, the club scenario seeming best even if that's not your thing! |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
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Yeah after one experience with a soft swing couple I got put off. To me a bj is just foreplay and even though it was better then no having it, I had to run off and find me something more. I like to think it's an all or nothing sort of thing |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We have come across quite a few soft swap couples, but mainly when we were in full swap mode haha!
It's that scenario when you are looking for something specific you can never find it!
Maybe try a club xx
Yes that seems to be our everyday scenario lol
We are looking to try a club after our trip to Cornwall in a couple of weeks so maybe we'll click with someone then x T"
Enjoy Cornwall xx |
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over a year ago
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"As you can see from our profile, this is out thing. I'd thoroughly recommend a trip to Eureka. "
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Your profile looks fab. Shame you’re so far away for a casual meeting.
And that I think is the difficulty. Finding like-minded couples who meet your criteria and where there is four way chemistry. Hence, the club scenario seeming best even if that's not your thing!"
We have sort of given up on clubs as we look for this and hardly find it there too.
Arranged private parties are the better option..
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
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Shame you're so far, but look us up if your down west country way |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
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Any meets are difficult to sort so don’t worry to much. I would love to meet you for the same as your pictures are stunning but sadly being a single guy isn’t what you are looking for |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
Any chance of you popping over to our profile?
It's what we are after also xxx"
Would love to but blocked lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would be surprised how many are into soft swing and to us that can be more erotic then full sex. usually though folk are too far away or they do not want cuddly people but there are some out there and we have had some wonderful meets |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
Any chance of you popping over to our profile?
It's what we are after also xxx"
We would... but blocked lol, go figure? |
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"Yes this would appeal to me
In what way, as in to play alone with a couple or as a 4some with your partner? X
Either!! I dont have a parnter but maybe I could find a victim "
If you wasn't so far we would loved to had had a meet with you. |
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"I never thought it would be so difficult to click with and meet soft swing couple's, or at least those who enjoyed the odd soft play session. Yes we all know how full sex is a whole other level but for those who do not or who are not ready for that, it's a long hard road lol.
Any chance of you popping over to our profile?
It's what we are after also xxx
We would... but blocked lol, go figure? "
Pretty sure that you are not blocked from our profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We just like to watch and be watched?? X
Too old for you, but this is our thing exactly "
We would love to meet you guys.
Why is it all the people on here that share similar interests live miles away on the other side of the planet |
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"We just like to watch and be watched?? X
Too old for you, but this is our thing exactly
We would love to meet you guys.
Why is it all the people on here that share similar interests live miles away on the other side of the planet "
They call that Sods Law. |
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We're also a soft swing couple, could someone arrange to shrink the UK so all you sexy people are closed? 
We've found most fun in clubs and naturist resorts, there are some lovely people out there that make soft swing such a sexy experience and lasting memory. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only soft play with women at the moment
But the thought of soft play with a couple keeps popping up, I think we are waiting until we find that ‘click’ with the right people |
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over a year ago
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We started soft swing only and now do both soft and full swop, both are very exciting when you find the right people. We still have lots of friends who only soft swing and we really enjoy spending sexy time with them, just have to respect there boundaries |
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My GF and I are discussing joining as a couple, probably as soft swing only, certainly to begin with. My question is, I’ve seen plenty of couples that have soft swing as an interest alongside full swap, would that be as far as it goes, or would there be a desire to take it further? |
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"My GF and I are discussing joining as a couple, probably as soft swing only, certainly to begin with. My question is, I’ve seen plenty of couples that have soft swing as an interest alongside full swap, would that be as far as it goes, or would there be a desire to take it further?"
Good question, there should be Full Swap option on Interests so those that do both make it obvious. Confusing when soft swing say safe sex option with soft swing - does that mean condoms/dams for oral or just condoms on toys? Have to be a big condom for some of them wands  . |
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"My GF and I are discussing joining as a couple, probably as soft swing only, certainly to begin with. My question is, I’ve seen plenty of couples that have soft swing as an interest alongside full swap, would that be as far as it goes, or would there be a desire to take it further?
Good question, there should be Full Swap option on Interests so those that do both make it obvious. Confusing when soft swing say safe sex option with soft swing - does that mean condoms/dams for oral or just condoms on toys? Have to be a big condom for some of them wands . "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love soft swing as much as full swap. For us its more about who we meet rather than what we get up to.
If arranged a soft swing meet we wouldn't push the other cple to go further, if they wanted to then they would have to tell us. Xx |
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"We started soft swing only and now do both soft and full swop, both are very exciting when you find the right people. We still have lots of friends who only soft swing and we really enjoy spending sexy time with them, just have to respect there boundaries "
Same here... |
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"Just wondered if any of you lucky enough to be close by have been in touch? Has it become a matchmaking thread? "
Isn't that supposed to be the point of this site?
Anyhoo, to continue the flirtatious manner of this thread, we're off to Cap D'Agde at the end of August |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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maybe profiles don’t make the ins and outs of what people do and don’t want totally clear?
We don’t want to write a list of everything we do or don’t do as it’s very fluid depending on the couple and the meet/scenario, but are open to all sorts of options.
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"maybe profiles don’t make the ins and outs of what people do and don’t want totally clear?
We don’t want to write a list of everything we do or don’t do as it’s very fluid depending on the couple and the meet/scenario, but are open to all sorts of options.
TB"
That's where the chat and the build up help give you a better idea. |
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We're soft only and we've found that meeting people in clubs is easier than online. Typically we'll just start playing together in an open room and we might attract the attention of others.
Then it's a quick 'we don't full swap but would you fancy doing xyz? ' More often than not they're up for it |
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"We're soft only and we've found that meeting people in clubs is easier than online. Typically we'll just start playing together in an open room and we might attract the attention of others.
Then it's a quick 'we don't full swap but would you fancy doing xyz? ' More often than not they're up for it "
XYZ !!!!
Gotta luuuuurve some XYZ. Much better than that overrated ABC nonsense  |
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You think its tough finding soft-swap?
We both like bi play, so finding a soft(ish) bi couples is difficult lol as I guess most bi couples are after more.
We don't rule out full, but its not a target.
We tend to find soft play is just longer fun rather fun, sort of more exploring rather than people getting to the end point then escaping!
Had a few single F meet us with just soft play which is really chilled and rather nice
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XYZ !!!!
Gotta luuuuurve some XYZ. Much better than that overrated ABC nonsense
Tell me about it! We used to be more into LMNOP but we moved on to RST after a bit of Q jumping "
Heheheh.
Alpha-bet you did  |
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Hey all we are a soft swap couple - we have had most of our luck meeting people at Chams. We have had some incredible group fun in the hot tub, couples room or a private room.
G does at with the ladies but really doesn’t have to and we are both happy to keep it straight.
Any of you softy couples fancy joining us please drop us a message.
G&Dxx |
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"Theres definitely more genuine soft swinging couples than genuine full swap couples
How do you know?"
A man pretending to be a couple wouldnt advertise soft swap would he... |
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"Theres definitely more genuine soft swinging couples than genuine full swap couples
How do you know?
A man pretending to be a couple wouldnt advertise soft swap would he..."
Very good point! |
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"Theres definitely more genuine soft swinging couples than genuine full swap couples
How do you know?
A man pretending to be a couple wouldnt advertise soft swap would he...
Very good point! "
but if its a fake, the more interests liked the more chance of getting someone to chat to them |
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"Would also quite like to arrange a girls only group playIf you do not mind, I will run this past my partner and she will contact you via our couple profile or her single woman profile. "
Please do |
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"Can I just ask what does soft swing involve or is it different for each individual xx"
For us, pretty much anything goes other than penetration. Kissing, touching licking, sucking but not penetrative sex other than with our own partners. |
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