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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"FFS get a grip, whatever type of D/s relationship you want, it's about communication and compatibility!
What say you others?"
Any "Dom/me" who expects a sub to "prove" themselves worthy is of no interest to me - the ONLY thing a Dom/me and or sub should have to prove to one another is, as you say, a connection and chemistry and a like-minded approach to the dynamic that will compliment one another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry  "
I hope it goes well x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I remember the first Dom I had, was 16 & a smidge naive but the moment he said he wanted me to be his slave and locked in a cage pretty much 24/7 I pretty much told him to fuck off "
I am not submissive per se, and therefore am appalled at the vacancies, the collectors, being told to prove my worth, all because they think if a woman states she is submissive, they have expectations.
They seem to forget we're people in our own right and have other traits. I am sub with the right Dom, not any Dom.
They need to "grow up", by that they need to obtain emotional intelligence and realise that being sub isn't our dominant trait  .
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"I have a social meet with a Dom this week that could be long term ..... he is not expecting anything from me ... just an initial meet to see if there is connection and chemistry
I hope it goes well x"
Fingers crossed .... thanks ... seems to have all the qualities needed |
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"Doms who want to give trials 
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes ."
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol "
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience  |
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience "
Definitely! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely! "
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well |
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely!
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well "
Bonuses and overtime are a must lol and compo for injuries |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely!
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well "
Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely!
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well
Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme? "
The cane for underperforming and spanking for doing well  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely!
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well
Bonuses and overtime are a must lol and compo for injuries "
Does a Master's mark count? |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely!
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well
Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme?
The cane for underperforming and spanking for doing well "
And obligatory team building days, natch.
I nearly spat my coffee out laughing when a Dom kindly offered to ‘take me under his guidance so I could become the best version of me possible’.
I already am, mate...you need better than playing on insecurities if you want me on my knees |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Doms who want to give trials
Again being a sub sounds like a job. Soon there'll be degrees for it, and professional codes .
I’ll happily have a trial as a sub if they pay me haha we need a union benefits lol
A tiered salary for qualifications and experience
Definitely!
What about bonuses and overtime?
I'm really selling this rather well
Perhaps it could be performance linked - maybe with a half year and annual appraisal scheme?
The cane for underperforming and spanking for doing well
And obligatory team building days, natch.
I nearly spat my coffee out laughing when a Dom kindly offered to ‘take me under his guidance so I could become the best version of me possible’.
I already am, mate...you need better than playing on insecurities if you want me on my knees "
I've heard that thrown about too. |
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