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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
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No.
Still believe honest and respect are always key.
We are alway amazed at the 'honest people' who are cheating. How is that?? |
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My views on human relationships have changed and I've learnt things that have given me new insights to human intimacy... I've not considered if any morals or principles have changed, but I guess they have... |
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Before I joined I'd have never slept with a married woman without her partner's knowledge. But I've met a number of couples at clubs where they're married to different people, and a simply lovely married lady. Now I abstain from judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely there's an argument that if you changed them, you didn't truly hold them in the first place. Morals and principles aren't exactly like opinions that can change...?"
I see whet you're coming from but such as the man who has commented that he would never play with married women but now does. I personally think that is a change of principle. |
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"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
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Hell yeah !
In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .
Loved every minute of it too  |
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"Surely there's an argument that if you changed them, you didn't truly hold them in the first place. Morals and principles aren't exactly like opinions that can change...?
I see whet you're coming from but such as the man who has commented that he would never play with married women but now does. I personally think that is a change of principle."
Absolutely changed. Probably enlightened to be honest - much less judgemental. |
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"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
Hell yeah !
In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .
Loved every minute of it too "
'Just wrong'....do tell!!!!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that most of us develop thinly thought out morals on things that we haven't really thought about and that it's only when we're really confronted on it that we're really forced to drill down into what's right and wrong in that given situation. I'm glad to say that Fab has helped me develop and change my morals on certain things over the years and I look forward to this being an ongoing process throughout the rest of my life |
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This is the old monotheist conditioning we've had drilled into us all our lives. Having sex with other people, singly or in groups isn't immoral if everyone consents. Sex is a completely natural and incredibly pleasurable human activity but the major religions all want to control and limit it, don't they?
Just do what you all want and don't feel guilty, as long as everyone involved is doing things willingly. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
To me, morals are the standards that society expects of us while principles are the personal standards we hold ourselves to.
The former I couldn’t give a flying swizzle about - they change dependant on geography and era so they certainly don’t affect me any.
The latter, I hold pretty dear and boil down to ‘do no harm’.
As long as what I do isn’t hurting anyone, then it’s alright by me. Thought that before I joined the site and still think that now.
So nope, not changed since I got here |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
Bristol East |
"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
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No, I still abide by 3 simple tests:
a) Does it feel natural?
b) Is the other person 18 or over?
c) It does not harm another person.
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
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"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
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yes i never thought id be ok with a partner meeting other men, but now i think its hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never change your rules nor morals. You had them in place for a reason, x"
Not getting at you in particular but, for me, this is the epitome of intransigence. We should all have the humility to review our moral standpoint in relation to life experience and the experience of others from time to time... if only because that's the right moral thing to do  |
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"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
Hell yeah !
In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .
Loved every minute of it too "
I guess we must be different as we wouldn’t have dreamt of doing some of this stuff before we started , and bear in mind I was 50 and my wife 30 when we began ,
I was borderline homophobic , never even met a tv and had no gay friends , wife the same .
Wouldn’t have dreamt of having a guy dressed as a woman sucking me off , or fucking a post op ts woman .
Watersports were never a thought , then we met a few people into it and love it now .
Or am I mixing morals and principles up with simple openness to try new stuff ? |
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"Since joining here, have you changed your mind on any morals or principles that you had before you joined?
Hell yeah !
In so many ways as neither of us had any ideas of swinging , what went on and so on . We’ve tried just about everything imaginable since then , and seen and experienced so many things which before joining here we would have thought were just wrong .
Loved every minute of it too
I guess we must be different as we wouldn’t have dreamt of doing some of this stuff before we started , and bear in mind I was 50 and my wife 30 when we began ,
I was borderline homophobic , never even met a tv and had no gay friends , wife the same .
Wouldn’t have dreamt of having a guy dressed as a woman sucking me off , or fucking a post op ts woman .
Watersports were never a thought , then we met a few people into it and love it now .
Or am I mixing morals and principles up with simple openness to try new stuff ? "
they probably more unsure feelings rather than morals and principals  |
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