We had recently been the subject of someone, who kept their identity secret, advising family and friends of our swinging activities.
As we both have jobs in the public service we would prefer to remain anonymous until we know folks and feel comfortable with them
How would others deal with this as it has caused us a load of trouble.
G&A |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Just keep cool
Maybe hide veris and profile for a while
To be honest I think it will just fade away
Bottom line it's nothing to be ashamed of.
Swinging is adult fun
Non swingers have affairs and fantasies .
You know whats best i guess. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
In this case call their bluff. So what you don’t advertise it blatantly and are discreet. Your jobs shouldn’t therefore have any reason to complain it’s bringing it into disrepute.
It’s almost childish |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Hide your profile or remove pics they can't proof anything.
Where did you go to last or who did you send pics to? how did this person know?"
They must be on the scene too or at least have found you on here |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No thats the whole point they sent a series of anonymous messages to our employers.
We think it may be a guy who G turned down."
Hide your profile until this blows over
No proof is your best defense |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's sad to say but working with public and swinging doesn't go together. I am beleiver in what you do in hour own private life is your business and no one else's. But have seen first hand what getting found out can do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No thats the whole point they sent a series of anonymous messages to our employers.
We think it may be a guy who G turned down."
It's particularly cowardly to do these things anonymously.
I wonder how they knew your employers, family and friends. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"own it. so fuck your a swinger. big fuckin whoop. theres people out there breaking the law in all sorts of manners. fuck them all."
Totally agree with this so what thay soon get over and found something else to gossip about just show your not bothered if you lose friends well thay were not worth having anyway if thay are so quick to judge. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
