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Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? |
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"Maybe because some women like to dress, like me. That gives a lot more oppportunity to have different pics.
I agree you’re right, but I’m intrigued why you being a straight guy are put off ?"
I'm not put off but quite like
artistic couple shots. I was just curious why the majority seemed female heavy... |
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I'm not the ratio police but I do think it's counter productive when there are no (Or at least half good) pictures of the male half. After all this is not Cilla Blacks blind date and I suspect this if off putting to a lot of people.
Imagine me saying to my other half 'I've seen this great couple, the female is just what floats my boat'. So she says 'Oh, what's the bloke look like? Me, 'I don't know, you don't care do you, you'll sleep with anyone won't you as long as I find the female hot'. Not entirely sure if it works like that last time I checked. Apparently there needs to be mutral attraction for all parties. |
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over a year ago
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Yes this annoys me as someone who is looking to potentially meet a couple find it really off putting when there are no pics of the male. If a joint profile should be pics of both in my opinion |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "
Yeah I don’t get that either, ours are pretty evenly split |
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There's quite a few of me (along with quite a few other guys and their cocks) but the ratio is probably a bit skewed as it's generally me that takes the pics. We don't do blind dates (or even blind messaging) so pics on a profile or first message are essential for us to start the ball rolling. |
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Mr BOF often sees a couple and thinks the lady is really hot, only to find there are no pics and sometimes even no text about the gent. Needless to say I’m not really interested so we move on. It’s a shame.
I have to say Mr BOF isn’t keen on photos so I understand why the balance might be out, but no pics at all? |
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It's just me that physically plays so only my pics, but I joined as a couple,as he would be in the room during certain cuckold scenarios.
I didn't want to get a singles profile as it doesn't represent my situation. |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "
Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?
Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round "
Consider this your first then  |
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Anita often grumbles about this too. She often needs to ask couples who've messaged us to send pics of the bloke.
Generally though, men are much more interested in perving women's photos than women are men's. We gave photo's of us both, but the ones of me are much less likely to be fabbed than those of Anita. Ultimately, women are much nicer to look at than men.
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?
Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round "
We're the other way round 
Your 6 years of search is over 
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We like to think we've got a good balance too but she's just better at taking photos of herself, and the likes ratio certainly proves more people want to see the woman than the man. |
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"It's just me that physically plays so only my pics, but I joined as a couple,as he would be in the room during certain cuckold scenarios.
I didn't want to get a singles profile as it doesn't represent my situation."
This is also us, apart from the cuckolding, it's more mmmf play for us. So only bait that's needed is moi  
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think there are a few reasons OP - the most obvious being there's a greater range of pics available for women to take - just a simple change of underwear can make the same picture different - whereas there's a limit to the number of poses a guy can take before pics start getting "samey".
Some couples profiles are only looking for single men so don't see the need to post pics of the guy (especially where the male half is straight).
I agree though it's always good to see pics of both halves, and ideally a few where both are in the pic |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "
Although most photos are of my gorgeous wife, we do add a few of myself too. Its only fair and its important other couples see us in different pics etc. I like it ( when im not having a 'fat' day   |
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By *randMrsPCouple
over a year ago
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"Because Mrs P is way hotter than me!
Having just looked through your photos ( purely for investigative purposes in relation to this thread ) we agree with your comment! "
I'll take that as a compliment! Lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On most of the ones I've looked at they are only looking for a bi woman for the woman to play with, and the husband doesn't get involved.
I assume they don't think the male's physical appearance is important.
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"Because Mrs P is way hotter than me!
Having just looked through your photos ( purely for investigative purposes in relation to this thread ) we agree with your comment! "
The majority of us men are punching and got lucky |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?
Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round
We're the other way round
Your 6 years of search is over
Mrs"
We've found very profiles where it isn't both running it.We certainly do.
Our pics are about 50/50...which probably explains our hit rate ! |
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"We try to have a few of hubby but he’s not very photogenic "
Lol....harsh!!
But you have a point ...the ladies are the fairer sex....looking at the Fabs on our pics, it's hers that get the thumbs up!!
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"It's just me that physically plays so only my pics, but I joined as a couple,as he would be in the room during certain cuckold scenarios.
I didn't want to get a singles profile as it doesn't represent my situation."
The same here at the moment!! as Mr is on the subs bench with his recovery from Prostate Cancer,so we still have our joint profile and clearly state this on there,I also have a singles profile & meet solo(which again~ is clearly stated) xx |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?
Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round
Consider this your first then "
and this his second!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s one thing we notice whenever checking out a new profile, if there are zero photos of the man which is often the case then we generally don’t respond. I can understand there being more photos of the lady, there are only so many photos you can put up of a man before they all start to look the same but to have none at all just strikes me as odd and makes me think there’s something wrong. |
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Could also throw criticism of the "single" male profiles with no pics of the male but several of an "unknown" cock entering an attractive female (often unprotected) lol and by the way our profile has couple of pics with us both in it! and in private we have several pics of Bruno to show anyone we actually intend to meet  |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps?
Just a hunch but it would probably suggest the man controls the profile and arranging of all meets. In 6 years on fab I have yet to come across a couple where it’s the other way round
Consider this your first then
and this his second! "
3rd |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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We try to keep an even mix of the two of us either separately or together.
If the male of the couple isn't represented, then we just stay clear. We'll presume (rightly or wrongly) that he looks like Shreks ugly brother, and since we're shallow and there needs to be a physical attraction we'll move onto the next profile.
Same goes with a single male profile when there's only his cock in the pics but 90% of the pic is of a woman.
We'll stay clear of those ones too (although there's nothing like a bit of veri checking to find out who she might be) Your profile should be showing you off, not someone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always tell Mr to get more pics of him, he just hates photos of himself, ive sneakily put one on of him though. He doesnt think hes hot but i know he is, just very modest |
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"I always tell Mr to get more pics of him, he just hates photos of himself, ive sneakily put one on of him though. He doesnt think hes hot but i know he is, just very modest "
I like your man is like that. Hes clearly gorgeous but so relaxed he doesnt even notice, that in itself is attractive |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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This comes up on a weekly basis and the answers are always the same. I will repeat my answer in case anyone is interested in hearing it yet again:
Profiles are advertisements for the people who post them. If the ratio of female to male pics works for them then there is no reason for them to change it. If you see an "advertisement" that doesn't work for you just move on and find one that does. It's a similar story with dick pics. Some don't like them, some (including me) do. If a guy wants to advertise himself with them then who are we to ask why, or complain. |
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"This comes up on a weekly basis and the answers are always the same. I will repeat my answer in case anyone is interested in hearing it yet again:
Profiles are advertisements for the people who post them. If the ratio of female to male pics works for them then there is no reason for them to change it. If you see an "advertisement" that doesn't work for you just move on and find one that does. It's a similar story with dick pics. Some don't like them, some (including me) do. If a guy wants to advertise himself with them then who are we to ask why, or complain. "
We concur. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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On our Couple profile ,I got fed up of this.
If a couple want to meet couples,there should be pics of both.I understand if it's just the lady that plays ,otherwise no reason why there can't be pics of both people.
I just don't engage with profiles like that ,as I won't chat just to find out he isn't for me ages down the line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a mix, not 50/50 but what we think is enough.
To be honest, with the consensus on cock pics, we find it easier doing female pics. Male pictures take a bit more effort and thought. Any advice or ideas would be greatly recieved
We like to see a small variety of both sex on a profile, at least. |
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"I'm not the ratio police but I do think it's counter productive when there are no (Or at least half good) pictures of the male half. After all this is not Cilla Blacks blind date and I suspect this if off putting to a lot of people.
Imagine me saying to my other half 'I've seen this great couple, the female is just what floats my boat'. So she says 'Oh, what's the bloke look like? Me, 'I don't know, you don't care do you, you'll sleep with anyone won't you as long as I find the female hot'. Not entirely sure if it works like that last time I checked. Apparently there needs to be mutral attraction for all parties."
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I always say if I cannot see the male then forget it, we're not interested. Its very important both of us are attracted to the couple. No way would I take one for the team just because Mr is attracted to the female. *mrs |
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"This comes up on a weekly basis and the answers are always the same. I will repeat my answer in case anyone is interested in hearing it yet again:
Profiles are advertisements for the people who post them. If the ratio of female to male pics works for them then there is no reason for them to change it. If you see an "advertisement" that doesn't work for you just move on and find one that does. It's a similar story with dick pics. Some don't like them, some (including me) do. If a guy wants to advertise himself with them then who are we to ask why, or complain. "
Agreed but the trouble it is clear on our profile that I want to see the male half and couples without the Mr showing still message us  *mrs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ours is because it's only really the female playing, when we are chatting to a couple we'd send a face pic of the husband just so they know what he looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe because the guy of the couple isn’t very attractive? The view of the female is to get more attention but when they see who she’s with tends to sway the deal as such |
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"Maybe I'm missing something do forgive me if I am...why are the majority of the pictures on couples' profiles the female half.....it seems strange esp when the make make half often doesn't appear at my all....thoughts peeps? "
It’s to ‘advertise’ the female. It makes me wonder if it’s the males idea!
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