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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people?  |
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Who cares about stretch marks it means one of two things, you was big and got small or you was small and got big. If anyone is attracted to you, then your gonna do the naughty dance. You sexy to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who cares about stretch marks it means one of two things, you was big and got small or you was small and got big. If anyone is attracted to you, then your gonna do the naughty dance. You sexy to me "
A masterpiece of concision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have matching PFPs OP 
And I’ve never had any complaints. I have loaaaaads on my thighs and ass, and two on my stomach from being pregnant and miscarrying. I took a full frontal nude and it took my weeks before I had the balls to upload it, as my stomach stretch marks are very obvious. They’re tiger stripes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don’t find them an issue what so ever. We all come with bumps and marks. It’s what makes us unique. If somebody has an issue with them I wouldn’t bother with that person. Well done OP for being confident enough to talk about them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have mine for no reason I've had them since I was about 16 and they've never gone or gotten worse, I have about 8 on my stomach which are extremely noticeable too and absolutely hate them!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have mine for no reason I've had them since I was about 16 and they've never gone or gotten worse, I have about 8 on my stomach which are extremely noticeable too and absolutely hate them!! "
I’m sure there’s lots of different creams out there you can buy that fade them. But you don’t need too - I’m sure the last thing someone will be looking at when meeting you is stretch marks. My husband only noticed my stomach ones a few weeks ago, and I’ve had them way over a year!!! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don’t think I tend to even notice them.
At the end of the day everyone’s got them for a variety of reasons.
Just got to be confident and rock what you’ve got  |
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By *el1977Man
over a year ago
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"I have mine for no reason I've had them since I was about 16 and they've never gone or gotten worse, I have about 8 on my stomach which are extremely noticeable too and absolutely hate them!! "
Can’t speak for anyone else but doesn’t bother me in the slightest... everyone has their imperfections. Try not to feel self conscious as you’re probably the only one bothered by them. And looking at your pics.... you’ve definitely got nothing to worry about - fit!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have loads of stretch marks. I couldn’t care less about them & nobody has ever had an issue with them as far as I’m aware.
Most of us are self conscious about at least one thing to do with our bodies though so I do understand.
But honestly, nobody will be noticing your stretch marks with a body like that xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have loads of stretch marks. I couldn’t care less about them & nobody has ever had an issue with them as far as I’m aware.
Most of us are self conscious about at least one thing to do with our bodies though so I do understand.
But honestly, nobody will be noticing your stretch marks with a body like that xx"
I agree... us guys ain’t perfect either so don’t worry... it is what it is ... the loveliest girls are those that are most comfortable in their own skin...never judge a book by its cover X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have them, and I love them.
I hated them for a long time, but I realised, they're my badge of honour for the children I carried, the ones I gave birth too, the ones I lost.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judging by your pics i dont think anybody would be looking at slight marks on your stomach, you have a stunning figure and you should be proud of the body you have. You look amazing and no need to be embarrassed by stretch marks at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lines show that you have lived, let your eyes crinkle, let your skin wrinkle, and if anyone doesn't appreciate a body looking like a map, tell them to hit the road!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lines show that you have lived, let your eyes crinkle, let your skin wrinkle, and if anyone doesn't appreciate a body looking like a map, tell them to hit the road!
xGx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lines show that you have lived, let your eyes crinkle, let your skin wrinkle, and if anyone doesn't appreciate a body looking like a map, tell them to hit the road!
xGx "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have loads on my stomach . Used to hate them , now I don’t even care nor notice they’re there!
Miss "
Behold the field in which I grow my fucks, and you shall see that it is barren! Embrace those tiger stripes 
I might start giving mine little nicknames lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
I have a few here and there and a c-section scar. In my experience neither has bothered anybody yet. I don't feel self conscious about them either. They're part of me.
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No, not in the slightest. They are just physical signs that tell a story like scars or tatoos. All of us by some point in our adultness show physical signs of our bodies history. I think these things make us more intresting. We are all play worn, non of us (Or at least very few) are in just out the packet mint condition. |
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Mine are like the AA road map of the British isles. But I can’t do a flaming thing about them. It does upset me a little that it hinders my wardrobe somewhat but other than that they’re just a scuff on the bodywork x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have matching PFPs OP
And I’ve never had any complaints. I have loaaaaads on my thighs and ass, and two on my stomach from being pregnant and miscarrying. I took a full frontal nude and it took my weeks before I had the balls to upload it, as my stomach stretch marks are very obvious. They’re tiger stripes "
Sorry for your loss x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Na scars and stretch marks are proof you have lived i dont give a toss there natures tattoos"
How are they proof you have lived? They occur during periods of rapid growth or puberty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Na scars and stretch marks are proof you have lived i dont give a toss there natures tattoos
How are they proof you have lived? They occur during periods of rapid growth or puberty. "
As its usually due to having kids on the ladys iv seen is that not living then oh i guess not |
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"Na scars and stretch marks are proof you have lived i dont give a toss there natures tattoos
How are they proof you have lived? They occur during periods of rapid growth or puberty.
As its usually due to having kids on the ladys iv seen is that not living then oh i guess not"
Even puberty is a sign of life. Some women have TERRIBLE periods. They’re fighters too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Na scars and stretch marks are proof you have lived i dont give a toss there natures tattoos
How are they proof you have lived? They occur during periods of rapid growth or puberty.
As its usually due to having kids on the ladys iv seen is that not living then oh i guess not"
It can be due to pregnancy. It can be due to eating too many pies. It can be any due to any period of rapid growth so technically yes it's a sign they are living. |
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By *rwhite30Man
over a year ago
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"I find them sexy, real woman
Even the men that have them?
Think I need to go find me some more stretch marks to make me a real woman"
I didn't mean it like that, of course you are a real woman, I meant real as in no surgery and lifts and tucks just a real woman |
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
Can I further this question and ask what are women’s thoughts on men with stretch marks? I know we’re a rarer breed but I for one have them from when I was a lot bigger and now I’m very conscious about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have mine for no reason I've had them since I was about 16 and they've never gone or gotten worse, I have about 8 on my stomach which are extremely noticeable too and absolutely hate them!! "
You can just get them from having a growth spurt in your teens where your skin can’t cope with your body developing. I’ve male and female friends with them.
They don’t bother me in the slightest and shouldn’t bother anyone I’d have thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people?
Can I further this question and ask what are women’s thoughts on men with stretch marks? I know we’re a rarer breed but I for one have them from when I was a lot bigger and now I’m very conscious about them. "
I'm the same as you, got really big in my younger days, pushing 19st and was so unfit, I didn't even know what they where, now it disgusts me every time I see them despite me being much slimmer and in decent shape most of the year when I'm training, if I didn't have loose skin is look a lot more toned, I wouldn't even walk around in front of my wife without a top on at one point and Don't know if it bothers females
But now I just see them as battle scars of the battle of the bulge haha, would be interested to get women's views though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares we are here for fun ,not to critique each other's physical appearance , your marks might not be for some, but others won't care , just like some don't like me because I'm slim ,but others like that about me .
Horses for courses , enjoy those that want fun with you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stretch marks are fabulous for me they are simply a sign your a sexy woman who has done an amazing thing in her life, she (and partner) has made a new life. Absolutely nothing to be self concious about at all xxxx |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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Stretch marks are as natural as the hair on your head. Admittedly, I worked for a beauty brand creating the perfect looking woman using CGI, little did I know then what kind of impact it would have on people today. Though I’m not solely to blame, I spend many of my working days creating work that's a little more positive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stretch marks are fabulous for me they are simply a sign your a sexy woman who has done an amazing thing in her life, she (and partner) has made a new life. Absolutely nothing to be self concious about at all xxxx"
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people?
Can I further this question and ask what are women’s thoughts on men with stretch marks? I know we’re a rarer breed but I for one have them from when I was a lot bigger and now I’m very conscious about them.
I'm the same as you, got really big in my younger days, pushing 19st and was so unfit, I didn't even know what they where, now it disgusts me every time I see them despite me being much slimmer and in decent shape most of the year when I'm training, if I didn't have loose skin is look a lot more toned, I wouldn't even walk around in front of my wife without a top on at one point and Don't know if it bothers females
Loose skin will be my next battle as I’ve still got a bit more weight to lose yet.
But now I just see them as battle scars of the battle of the bulge haha, would be interested to get women's views though "
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
I have a ton on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
OMG. You look bl**dy gorgeous. Stop worrying about it.
You are the only person worrying about stretch marks on your body.
Plenty of peeps out there worrying about stretch marks on their own bodies too, but truly you are the only person worrying about them on your own body. Noone else is, why should you.
Stop worrying, get out out and have fun.
n.b. please call me so that I can check them for you to show you they don't worry me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
The wife has some bad once’s after our first child she also had to have key hole surgery so she has scars and stretch marks. She’s proper paranoid obout them but they’ve never made a difference to me and with the amount of attention she gets when we’re in clubs it doesn’t seem to bother others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every stretch mark is a badge of honour and should be worn with pride. I have some on my thighs. I got them from building up my leg muscles as a kid when I did athletics. |
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"I find my stretch marks make me feel very self conscious i much prefer to wear an outfit that covers mine.. pfft kids haha x"
My wife is the same .
And ultimately it’s how the person with the stretch marks feels , it doesn’t matter one bit what anyone else says .
All this talk of beauty marks , you should have pride in them etc.... is complete bullshit . If the person with the marks doesn’t like them , no words from a stranger ( or a loved one come to that ) will change the way they feel about them . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
Love them it shows you have lived and following them usually leads to something really interesting x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eve has a few from carrying our children.
I honestly never even notice them.
She as a super sexy body, until she mentions them. I forget she has them.
I have a few too.. inner thigh.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have stretch marks on my lower stomach, lower back, and a few on my bum.
I’ve had them since I was about 11, and they used to bother me but now? Not at all!
They’ve never been an issue for guys I’ve been with either which used to be a worry.
Stretch marks can be for any reason from puberty, to weight loss, weight gain, pregnancy, muscle gain, muscle loss, and sometimes they just appear!
Mine have faded a lot. I used to use a derma roller on my stretch marks and a shaving scar on my leg and that helped a hell of a lot to fade them. I also use my homemade body butter which is mostly shea butter, coconut & olive oil every single day and that has not only faded them and little scars I had from a kid, but it makes my skin baby soft which I get comments on. Win win!
Embrace the tiger stripes!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Na scars and stretch marks are proof you have lived i dont give a toss there natures tattoos
How are they proof you have lived? They occur during periods of rapid growth or puberty.
As its usually due to having kids on the ladys iv seen is that not living then oh i guess not"
Majority are due to pregnancy due to the speed at which the body grows. But anyone can get them - it depends on the skin's elasticity. |
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
Who cares... Embrace your imperfections..... You got a beautiful mind right?...... and an amazing peachy ass. Lets face it. You yummy!  |
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By *40 maleMan
over a year ago
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"Do people actually care about stretch marks?
i have a tone on my stomach that I'm extremely self conscious of... I personally wouldn't consider myself fat just a bit chubby lol so is it a turn off for some and do they actually bother people? "
I can’t say it’d bother me. Beauty is more than skin deep, despite this site being what it is, a mental connection is worth more if that makes and sense x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much everyone has them, it's just how distinctive they are. But they're not a bad thing, I've never beem with a girl and been put off in any way by stretch marks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No man has ever commented on any of my wobbly bits/stretch marks when we have been intimate.
I may not have a perfect body, but I sure as hell know what to do with it (and have never had any complaints either )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got stretch marks everywhere from pregnancy and weight fluctuation - i take the view that if you don't like it, stop looking and go choose another girl. Mine have all faded to silvery colour now and really don't bother me, I can't recall any playmates mentioning them either. |
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I very much doubt others are in the least but bothered by stretch marks...as is evidenced by all these positive posts.
Many people have stretch marks. I have loads of them - stomachs, boobs, thigh even my arse. I don't even think about them generally and they do fade over time.
Try to learn to love your body...or at least accept it and most importantly, have fun.
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