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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please..."
As maybe they aren’t interested in you |
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OP please take the time to read the site FAQs, people not replying to messages is covered in there.
Whenever I receive a message I read the sender's profile first, if I don't see anything that interests me I don't reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
As maybe they aren’t interested in you"
Bcz of my skin colour |
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"Because I'm not attracted to every man who messages me."
This
And lets face it if most guys read profiles to see what the girl is looking for rather than just message then they won’t be disappointed that they don’t get a reply |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If man has cock profile pic, delete without reading. It's more than that"
I have not that kind of pic in my profile.
I don’t like that kind of profile
But still ????? |
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
As maybe they aren’t interested in you
Bcz of my skin colour "
How can anyone reject you because of your skin colour/ethnicity/bodyshape etc when the only part of you anyone can see is your chin in a very small avatar picture?
Nobody has any idea of what you look like!
Get rid of the chip on your shoulder and make an effort with your profile - it might just yield some results |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I'm not attracted to every man who messages me.
This
And lets face it if most guys read profiles to see what the girl is looking for rather than just message then they won’t be disappointed that they don’t get a reply "
I always do read profiles
But still not any reply.
Always man do text for suck lol
Even thay do text without see my profile ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
As maybe they aren’t interested in you
Bcz of my skin colour
How can anyone reject you because of your skin colour/ethnicity/bodyshape etc when the only part of you anyone can see is your chin in a very small avatar picture?
Nobody has any idea of what you look like!
Get rid of the chip on your shoulder and make an effort with your profile - it might just yield some results "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I'm not attracted to every man who messages me.
This
And lets face it if most guys read profiles to see what the girl is looking for rather than just message then they won’t be disappointed that they don’t get a reply
I always do read profiles
But still not any reply.
Always man do text for suck lol
Even thay do text without see my profile ?? "
People can look at your profile in stealth mode. Just because someone is looking for ‘fun’ doesn’t mean it needs to be with you. They are well within their rights not to be interested in you and not to reply to you if they don’t want too. |
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I get way too many messages to answer. The vast majority of them, it's clear they haven't read my profile and may not be interested in me specifically, just any woman. Some are rude or otherwise offensive.
Of the ones where they might be talking to me as opposed to any woman, I'm not interested in all of them. We have very different interests, their profile turns me off, I don't like the sound of them, or more.
Yes, I'm looking for sex. But I'd rather go without than have just anybody who brings themselves to my attention. I have standards. |
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"Because I'm not attracted to every man who messages me.
This
And lets face it if most guys read profiles to see what the girl is looking for rather than just message then they won’t be disappointed that they don’t get a reply
I always do read profiles
But still not any reply.
Always man do text for suck lol
Even thay do text without see my profile ?? "
Block all men then ... simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do reply to men but I check profile first to see if I have any interest in them, the profiles that send cock pics with messages get an automatic deleate without reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are outnumbered and probably outgunned. Don't beat yourself up about it, all men on here start doubting themselves after a few no replies. Just remember this is not the real world. Women get to be choosey on here because they literally get bombarded with messages. Nothing against them, but they have to be because no matter who they are, a few guts will approach them. Also why the 'block' word is mentioned so much.
I have found it easier to meet people in clubs or on other dating platforms |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do reply to men but I check profile first to see if I have any interest in them, the profiles that send cock pics with messages get an automatic deleate without reply"
What kind thing you find in profile for attract ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get way too many messages to answer. The vast majority of them, it's clear they haven't read my profile and may not be interested in me specifically, just any woman. Some are rude or otherwise offensive.
Of the ones where they might be talking to me as opposed to any woman, I'm not interested in all of them. We have very different interests, their profile turns me off, I don't like the sound of them, or more.
Yes, I'm looking for sex. But I'd rather go without than have just anybody who brings themselves to my attention. I have standards. "
I find these to be the main problems.
Men have to send out so many messages in order to get a reply you end up copying and pasting messages to try and maximise your chances of meeting with someone... anyone!
Women sound arrogant and really picky because they get hammered with so many blanket messages they have to state exactly what they are looking for.
All is served with a nice side order of sexual frustration |
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I try not to sound arrogant tbh. I just find the blanket messages an imposition. One, two, five, ten, fine, whatever. It's sometimes orders of magnitude more than that. It can be considerable admin.
I want people who are interested in me, and are considerate towards me. I think that's self-respect not arrogance. |
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"Because I'm not attracted to every man who messages me.
This
And lets face it if most guys read profiles to see what the girl is looking for rather than just message then they won’t be disappointed that they don’t get a reply
I always do read profiles
But still not any reply.
Always man do text for suck lol
Even thay do text without see my profile ?? "
No you don't read profiles . If you'd read ours before firing off a two letter word followed by three full stops (not allowed to quote the message but I'm sure you all get my drift) you could've saved yourself all that effort you appear to be putting in, or not as the case may be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try not to sound arrogant tbh. I just find the blanket messages an imposition. One, two, five, ten, fine, whatever. It's sometimes orders of magnitude more than that. It can be considerable admin.
I want people who are interested in me, and are considerate towards me. I think that's self-respect not arrogance. "
I know what you mean. Have seen a few girls inboxed and it's rediculous! the other side of the story is: I started by writing really detailed well thought out messages specific to each person but after writing a few and getting no response, I decided to go for a happy medium of a pasted message that's edited to that person's profile. Might seem lazy but I also want the girl to be interested in me before I dedicate my time to getting to know her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
As maybe they aren’t interested in you
Bcz of my skin colour "
How do i know,i dont speak on behalf of the ladies |
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By *ill74Man
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please..."
OP just because you're a bloke, and just because there are ladies on this site, it does NOT mean you will have a meet.
Just because there's food in the house, does it mean you get dinner? No, you have to make the effort. You make the effort to make dinner, you'll have dinner to eat. |
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"I get way too many messages to answer. The vast majority of them, it's clear they haven't read my profile and may not be interested in me specifically, just any woman. Some are rude or otherwise offensive.
Of the ones where they might be talking to me as opposed to any woman, I'm not interested in all of them. We have very different interests, their profile turns me off, I don't like the sound of them, or more.
Yes, I'm looking for sex. But I'd rather go without than have just anybody who brings themselves to my attention. I have standards. "
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please..."
Are you asking why women aren't replying to you in particular or just in general? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
As maybe they aren’t interested in you
Bcz of my skin colour
How do i know,i dont speak on behalf of the ladies"
My Q. Was tips ask there intrest load starts talk shit here im not talking about you.
Well you can tell your intrest tell me about you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
Are you asking why women aren't replying to you in particular or just in general? "
Particular about me. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
Are you asking why women aren't replying to you in particular or just in general?
Particular about me. "
Ok. You come across as self entitled, you've come here expecting women to want to shag you without you putting in any effort. Swinging isn't just a quick shag in the back of your car. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
Are you asking why women aren't replying to you in particular or just in general?
Particular about me.
Ok. You come across as self entitled, you've come here expecting women to want to shag you without you putting in any effort. Swinging isn't just a quick shag in the back of your car. "
No I didn’t says that
I asked why thay are not replying for any thing even say hi. People sending them dick pics and stuff but not me but still same with me ?? |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
Are you asking why women aren't replying to you in particular or just in general?
Particular about me.
Ok. You come across as self entitled, you've come here expecting women to want to shag you without you putting in any effort. Swinging isn't just a quick shag in the back of your car.
No I didn’t says that
I asked why thay are not replying for any thing even say hi. People sending them dick pics and stuff but not me but still same with me ?? "
You probably don't get replies because a lot will look at your profile before reading your message. If they don't see anything of interest in the profile then they won't bother reading the message and/or replying.
Your profile is the first thing most people will look at, do you show them enough of yourself to get them interested in seeing more?
Men have so much competition on this site, if you don't make the effort to make a decent profile then you aren't competing and will get left out. If you can't be bothered then the women won't bother with you either.
Look at other men's profiles, especially those with lots of verifications, how does your profile compare to theirs? Pretty empty? Doesn't say a lot? Doesn't show a lot?
Show yourself off! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Q..
All girls are looking for fun
But girls are not replying when someone offered them...yyy??
Girls ans please...
Are you asking why women aren't replying to you in particular or just in general?
Particular about me.
This is good suggestion mate i will think about it..
Ok. You come across as self entitled, you've come here expecting women to want to shag you without you putting in any effort. Swinging isn't just a quick shag in the back of your car.
No I didn’t says that
I asked why thay are not replying for any thing even say hi. People sending them dick pics and stuff but not me but still same with me ??
You probably don't get replies because a lot will look at your profile before reading your message. If they don't see anything of interest in the profile then they won't bother reading the message and/or replying.
Your profile is the first thing most people will look at, do you show them enough of yourself to get them interested in seeing more?
Men have so much competition on this site, if you don't make the effort to make a decent profile then you aren't competing and will get left out. If you can't be bothered then the women won't bother with you either.
Look at other men's profiles, especially those with lots of verifications, how does your profile compare to theirs? Pretty empty? Doesn't say a lot? Doesn't show a lot?
Show yourself off! "
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