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By *eenAmateur OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle Upon Tyne |
Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
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Personally I send 1 message if it gets deleted then they are clearly not Interested and I leave it but if I send a message and it doesn't at read then I send a quick second message in case it may have been missed with the sheer amount of messages it happens often. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
most fundamental aspects |
Can I clarify OP that you mean to ask how many messages to different people you sent, not how many to the same person? As the latter is guaranteed to result in pissed off followed by blocking.
For me, it’s not about sending out lots like some mail shot campaign. If I send a message, it’s likely to be particular to that user after reading their profile. I’m much more likely to get a reply than some random guy copying and pasting. |
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"Can I clarify OP that you mean to ask how many messages to different people you sent, not how many to the same person? As the latter is guaranteed to result in pissed off followed by blocking.
For me, it’s not about sending out lots like some mail shot campaign. If I send a message, it’s likely to be particular to that user after reading their profile. I’m much more likely to get a reply than some random guy copying and pasting. "
As above. I'll send a message if I like a profile and think I could be a match for what they are looking for. I dont send a message to the nearest 10 women or couples nearest to me just hoping to play the numbers game.
I suppose I am in a slightly different position to most guys as I have a couples profile too with my partner where its a lot easier to get replies to messages. |
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By *eenAmateur OP Man
over a year ago
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"Can I clarify OP that you mean to ask how many messages to different people you sent, not how many to the same person? As the latter is guaranteed to result in pissed off followed by blocking.
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Hahah good question and of course the answer is just the one message to each user that interests me 
I know that it is about the ones that suit you, I do that too, I don't message just about everyone and I am fully aware that not everyone will message back. I am not saying I am getting nothing and nowhere, I am just wondering what is the response rate in a normal situation, like how many messages get something back for the rest of the people?
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"Can I clarify OP that you mean to ask how many messages to different people you sent, not how many to the same person? As the latter is guaranteed to result in pissed off followed by blocking.
Hahah good question and of course the answer is just the one message to each user that interests me
I know that it is about the ones that suit you, I do that too, I don't message just about everyone and I am fully aware that not everyone will message back. I am not saying I am getting nothing and nowhere, I am just wondering what is the response rate in a normal situation, like how many messages get something back for the rest of the people?
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Last mori poll suggests that a typical response is that for single men out of 100 messages 2% would be replied to by couples out of which 50% would be a polite no thanks and another 50% would be maybe we've put you on our hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy messages us and it has a pic attached and we can tell our profile has been read and we are acknowledged as a couple and there is effort made then we will reply.
If it's a short sentence like how's your week etc,or it's from the type of person our profile says we aren't interested in or just tells us what they want to do to Mrs then they all get deleted and blocked.
Although we aren't looking for single guys at the minute so this the general reply atm  |
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By *eenAmateur OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle Upon Tyne |
"Can I clarify OP that you mean to ask how many messages to different people you sent, not how many to the same person? As the latter is guaranteed to result in pissed off followed by blocking.
Hahah good question and of course the answer is just the one message to each user that interests me
I know that it is about the ones that suit you, I do that too, I don't message just about everyone and I am fully aware that not everyone will message back. I am not saying I am getting nothing and nowhere, I am just wondering what is the response rate in a normal situation, like how many messages get something back for the rest of the people?
Last mori poll suggests that a typical response is that for single men out of 100 messages 2% would be replied to by couples out of which 50% would be a polite no thanks and another 50% would be maybe we've put you on our hotlist. "
and that is accounting for the 5% standard deviation? |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
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I will send a message if I find the members profile commentary interesting and indicates the kind of person I would like to meet and they live or work near enough to where I live or work to make it feasible and they have interests similar to mine . Do I get replies? Sometimes but many are unread or deleted but if you anticipate that then you cannot be discouraged by it. Those that do reply ,chat and meet whether we subsequently play or not are always fun people . There are other (better) ways to meet people into this lifestyle so it's better to have a mixed approach. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
The thing is OP is there is no magic catch all formula that will work for all - generically it's about a number of factors:
Having a decent well written and enticing profile as that will often be looked at before a message is even read (having looked at yours I'd say your text is good if a little generic but you'd benefit from some more pics that show off your body but not your cock - they don't have to be face pics either).
Being patient - you've only been here 5 weeks which is no time at all
Writing messages that are appealing and respectful that pick up on points in the recipients profile as well as telling something about yourself and why you think you're a good match.
Luck!! - sometimes it really is down to your message arriving at the "right" time for it to get noticed
A few clichés to roll out that may enhance your experience of Fab:
Look out for, and get along to organised socials or clubs, or even get involved in the forums/chat rooms - all good ways to get to know people and get yourself known rather than relying on sending messages "cold"
Men outnumber women/couples by a huge amount here - so you have to stand out and present the best possible version of you that you can (in messages, on the forums, yiur profile etc)
Set your expectations and sense of entitlement to low - you'll only be disappointed/frustrated otherwise.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
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I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
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By *eenAmateur OP Man
over a year ago
Newcastle Upon Tyne |
Thanks everyone, again for what it's worth, I wasn't complaining at lack of responses, I was merely asking what people see as a rate of response. It was curiosity more than anything!
Interesting stuff, except from the Belgian dude with the six pack, fantastic pecs and nicely written profile- if I was bi you'd be on top of my list, no wonder you are getting so many a day haha
Loving the site so far, more so the community feel to it
Thanks!
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Thanks everyone, again for what it's worth, I wasn't complaining at lack of responses, I was merely asking what people see as a rate of response.
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I don't think there's a "rate of response" as such as it varies so much depending on the individuals concerned - from my experience of only ever having sent 5 or 6 "cold" messages (i.e. to someone I've not had any interaction with before) I had replies to all but one of those and would like to think it's because I took my time to send a polite and respectful note each time that did all I suggested above.
I certainly didn't take your post as a "complaint" either which is why you got the expansive (and hopefully useful) reply from me
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
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"Can I clarify OP that you mean to ask how many messages to different people you sent, not how many to the same person? As the latter is guaranteed to result in pissed off followed by blocking.
Hahah good question and of course the answer is just the one message to each user that interests me
I know that it is about the ones that suit you, I do that too, I don't message just about everyone and I am fully aware that not everyone will message back. I am not saying I am getting nothing and nowhere, I am just wondering what is the response rate in a normal situation, like how many messages get something back for the rest of the people?
Last mori poll suggests that a typical response is that for single men out of 100 messages 2% would be replied to by couples out of which 50% would be a polite no thanks and another 50% would be maybe we've put you on our hotlist.
and that is accounting for the 5% standard deviation? "
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft "
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really. |
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really. "
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too  |
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too "
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER... 
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x |
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
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I always try saying hello but sometimes its impossible as there's too many.
If i like the look I add to hotlist and will look more into. Whilst we was looking to arrange a meet I narrowed it down to 3 then I messaged them all for more info.
Most self destruct after a short time and offer me around on my own "for a drink" without my partner - so I instablock
If they like you, they will reply. Be patient x
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over a year ago
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We’re heavily filtered and our profile is a bit hostile. So we probably get about half a dozen messages a week. We’ll send a polite rejection to about half of these. So multiply our messages by 52 weeks a year and we are talking about approximately 300 messages a year. We meet 2 or 3 new guys per year (not counting people we get to know in clubs). So we meet rarely more than 1% of those who message us. Because we do repeat meets, there is no need for us to meet new people very often, which means we will be rejecting probably quite a few suitable guys. But we can’t meet everyone who is a good match.
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER...
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x"
The only problem I have right now is the inability to form words due to the fact I think I melted. I do believe you sir, are rather special.
I'm all a quiver.
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER...
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x
The only problem I have right now is the inability to form words due to the fact I think I melted. I do believe you sir, are rather special.
I'm all a quiver.
Dear men-folk. This right here is how to flirt and capture the attention."
Why my dear Peach, I'm extremely flattered...and extremely something else too, truth be told.
The only addition I would like to make to that statement is that I prefer to think of this more as a way to give your lovely self an appetiser of what you are to expect in my company?
And now my sweet let us discuss the main course... |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER...
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x
The only problem I have right now is the inability to form words due to the fact I think I melted. I do believe you sir, are rather special.
I'm all a quiver.
Dear men-folk. This right here is how to flirt and capture the attention.
Why my dear Peach, I'm extremely flattered...and extremely something else too, truth be told.
The only addition I would like to make to that statement is that I prefer to think of this more as a way to give your lovely self an appetiser of what you are to expect in my company?
And now my sweet let us discuss the main course... "
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On my single profile I'd get a reply probably about ninety percent of the time, that's not to say they weren't rejections though; in which case I'd make a note on their profile and move on.
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER...
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x
The only problem I have right now is the inability to form words due to the fact I think I melted. I do believe you sir, are rather special.
I'm all a quiver.
Dear men-folk. This right here is how to flirt and capture the attention.
Why my dear Peach, I'm extremely flattered...and extremely something else too, truth be told.
The only addition I would like to make to that statement is that I prefer to think of this more as a way to give your lovely self an appetiser of what you are to expect in my company?
And now my sweet let us discuss the main course... "
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"If we all chip in can you two just get a room already?! 
Can't speak "
I've replied on the other thread as that is the one you seem a little less speechless on..
And I'm passing a KFC now spiderwoman, if you want me to pop in and grab you one? I wouldn't have thought a lady of your diminutively trim stature would have such an appetite, I thought perhaps a zinger meal or such like would have done you really?
Still sometimes there are ways a person can acquire more of an appetite aren't there Peach?
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER...
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x
The only problem I have right now is the inability to form words due to the fact I think I melted. I do believe you sir, are rather special.
I'm all a quiver.
Dear men-folk. This right here is how to flirt and capture the attention.
Why my dear Peach, I'm extremely flattered...and extremely something else too, truth be told.
The only addition I would like to make to that statement is that I prefer to think of this more as a way to give your lovely self an appetiser of what you are to expect in my company?
And now my sweet let us discuss the main course...
I'm guessing it isn't pizza. "
A pizza you by the sounds of it |
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"Hey guys
Just a simple question, I know that most ladies/couples are ridiculously inundated with messages and at the end of the day it is a numbers game, as long as you make sure to send a personalised message that shows you care, but how many messages do guys send before they get one back? Maybe I am doing something wrong in my profile but most of the times they don't even get read so I was wondering what the statistics are like. Any idea?
Thanks!
I prefer a different approach tbh. As I'm different to most single male profiles in that I tend to find those that appeal to me like a single woman does? I get about 12-20 messages a day which is still an easy amount to deal with, yet more than enough for me to choose those that I find appealing from and have many delicious encounters with!
In fact it might sound silly, but I don't mail or wink women or couples first any more with the odd exception for a forum post they've put that I'm interested in usually (think the last time I did was about 8 months ago) preferring instead to just reply to those that contact me? It sounds crazy as a strategy for a man, but it works very well for me as I get more than enough approaches and also reason that women and couples have enough of an avalanche of mail to deal with without my adding to it ha?
Plus this way I know already that we both appeal to each other and I have plenty of fun using this method instead, again as weird as it sounds for a chap?
The overwhelming majority of replies I send in return to their initial contact get further replies back, but I do tend to put a lot of thought into them?
It's the jaw line. It's so beautiful I could weep. Oooft
My dear lady this is high praise indeed, from one with such perfect cheekbones...I could happily rain kisses upon them and your eyelids, which thinking about it would extend to kissing your tears away if you were actually weeping!
Incidently to the OP I'm not Belgian; I'm originally from the northeast of England, but merely came back from working over there for about a month and a half?
But you taking note of that shows that you actually read profiles (even ones of my gargantuan length) which you are to be commended for Sir! All too often on Fab this doesn't happen really.
Oh my goodness I've only just seen this....
My vagina is weeping now too
Why my dear Peach, such a frank admission has an extremely uplifting effect upon me if I'm honest!
And if your pretty vagina were to weep, then I'd consider it my utmost duty to kiss it's "tears" away too...In fact moreso I'd rather like to diligently lap away with my tongue at any amazingly sinful little trickles that escape as I do so... For truly in tasting a desirable lady's arousal do I get the truest taste of HER...
Yes, cards on the table, Peach. I want to put my head between your gorgeous creamy thighs. I trust this isn't a problem? x
The only problem I have right now is the inability to form words due to the fact I think I melted. I do believe you sir, are rather special.
I'm all a quiver.
Dear men-folk. This right here is how to flirt and capture the attention.
Why my dear Peach, I'm extremely flattered...and extremely something else too, truth be told.
The only addition I would like to make to that statement is that I prefer to think of this more as a way to give your lovely self an appetiser of what you are to expect in my company?
And now my sweet let us discuss the main course...
I'm guessing it isn't pizza.
A pizza you by the sounds of it "
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"If we all chip in can you two just get a room already?!
Can't speak
I've replied on the other thread as that is the one you seem a little less speechless on..
And I'm passing a KFC now spiderwoman, if you want me to pop in and grab you one? I wouldn't have thought a lady of your diminutively trim stature would have such an appetite, I thought perhaps a zinger meal or such like would have done you really?
Still sometimes there are ways a person can acquire more of an appetite aren't there Peach?
x"
Indeed there are, I'm certainly getting hungrier by the hour and my tummy isn't rumbling |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"If we all chip in can you two just get a room already?!
Can't speak
I've replied on the other thread as that is the one you seem a little less speechless on..
And I'm passing a KFC now spiderwoman, if you want me to pop in and grab you one? I wouldn't have thought a lady of your diminutively trim stature would have such an appetite, I thought perhaps a zinger meal or such like would have done you really?
Still sometimes there are ways a person can acquire more of an appetite aren't there Peach?
x"
Ive never had a kfc so have no idea what you're talking about. |
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"If we all chip in can you two just get a room already?!
Can't speak
I've replied on the other thread as that is the one you seem a little less speechless on..
And I'm passing a KFC now spiderwoman, if you want me to pop in and grab you one? I wouldn't have thought a lady of your diminutively trim stature would have such an appetite, I thought perhaps a zinger meal or such like would have done you really?
Still sometimes there are ways a person can acquire more of an appetite aren't there Peach?
x
Ive never had a kfc so have no idea what you're talking about. "
Trust me to make a joke with one of the few ladies on Fab that was born on the moon! Surely you must have seen the bloody things advertised somewhere? I'll leave it to someone else to explain as it instantly loses any limited humour it had in the first place if I do so...  |
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