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over a year ago
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Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
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Conversation is the key start point. Dont rush to be overly sexual. If she is meeting you then she must be interested so compliments and some innuendo. Just look for the signs and be polite. |
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
whatever you did don't say hi mum when you first meet , that will be game set and match |
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I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required  . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet. |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet."
Thank you for your help. Its good to know. |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know."
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women? |
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site."
No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She's a woman as any other regardless of age .
If your asking us how to interact with her maybe you shouldn't be meeting at all."
cmon you should try everything at least once |
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site.No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc "
Your on a wind up ...right ! ? |
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site.No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc
Your on a wind up ...right ! ?"
63 can you see her doing that cmon |
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site.No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc
Your on a wind up ...right ! ?63 can you see her doing that cmon "
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?"
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve. |
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site.No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc
Your on a wind up ...right ! ?63 can you see her doing that cmon
Holds head in hands ! Arghhhhhh "
Ha hey can you do it........ See |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve."
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it x |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve."
Are you serious? You must be joking....
Women are simple.... have a few drinks and make her laugh... when she is ready for more she will let you know |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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She's not much older then you. Treat her like a woman. All the sexual cues and skills you have learnt up to the age 40 will come into great use. Read her body language. How are you with other women. We don't just become a mystical thing by a certain age.
"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it xpessimist "
I call it realist |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it xpessimist "
I call it realist |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it xpessimist
I call it realist "
oh well hey all will be revealed and that will be a revelation |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it xpessimist
I call it realist oh well hey all will be revealed and that will be a revelation "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
Yes older women can get wet from flirty talk and touching. Relax and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H.
Yes older women can get wet from flirty talk and touching. Relax and enjoy "
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Are you serious? You must be joking....
Women are simple.... have a few drinks and make her laugh... when she is ready for more she will let you know "
I would think most people like just being treated as normal. Okay poor choice of word for this site. I’m mentioning this in respect to the thread title. I personally wouldn’t like to be fetishised eg A mature. |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve."
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site.No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc "
She's not going to be wheelchair bound and disabled at 61 you know. Lol, my girlfriend is close to 20 years younger than me and about half as flexible,
This thread is literally hilarious. |
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Honest question here OP; are you really the age you claim to be? Not trying to be obnoxious, I’m just a little surprised by the question given the context of your stated age. |
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"If she has old fashioned views about sex then maybe she is on the wrong site.No I'd say she's on the right site she will just struggle with some of the moves standing soixante neuf, legs behind ears etc
She's not going to be wheelchair bound and disabled at 61 you know. Lol, my girlfriend is close to 20 years younger than me and about half as flexible,
This thread is literally hilarious. "
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
If she knows you want to get in her knickers and she’s still meeting you I’d say you were halfway there! Flirt, be respectful but direct, if she’s as prim as you indicate she won’t make any first moves |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve."
Well if you have met on Fab the "respect" she will want is that you turn up on time, are clean and smell good, bring your own condoms and are good to go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks to everyone for the comments, some funny and some very helpfull and encourging.
I didnt mean to 'categorise' older, mature women as different, far from it. I love the thrill of dating and playing with an older lady. But likewise I want to treat them with respect hence seeking advice. |
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"Thanks to everyone for the comments, some funny and some very helpfull and encourging.
I didnt mean to 'categorise' older, mature women as different, far from it. I love the thrill of dating and playing with an older lady. But likewise I want to treat them with respect hence seeking advice."
I'm sure you treat all women with respect, not just the older ones |
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"Honest question here OP; are you really the age you claim to be? Not trying to be obnoxious, I’m just a little surprised by the question given the context of your stated age. "
Glad I wasn't the only one to think this.
Could be he wants to make the right impression, as it only takes the wrong word, do the wrong thing to ruin a perfectly good meet. |
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
I met a lady, not from here but just through chatting to her in a cafe, she was on the next table with a cuppa. Anyway, after a nice chat she asked if I would like to meet there again next day for a cuppa and a chat. So I did. Very nice lady to talk to but I did notice the 3rd time we met for a tea she had put a little make up on, previously she had none, and done her hair differently. I complimented her and to cut a long story short we did eventually end up having sex at her place. She had been widowed for a number of years and had decided she wanted a bit of intimacy in her life again. She was 70 years old and her pussy was soon wet, willing and wanting my cock. Over several meets with her, she wanted sex in all sorts of positions. So just because a person is at the older end of the age scale doesn't always mean to say that they're past their sell by date when it comes to having sex. |
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H.
I met a lady, not from here but just through chatting to her in a cafe, she was on the next table with a cuppa. Anyway, after a nice chat she asked if I would like to meet there again next day for a cuppa and a chat. So I did. Very nice lady to talk to but I did notice the 3rd time we met for a tea she had put a little make up on, previously she had none, and done her hair differently. I complimented her and to cut a long story short we did eventually end up having sex at her place. She had been widowed for a number of years and had decided she wanted a bit of intimacy in her life again. She was 70 years old and her pussy was soon wet, willing and wanting my cock. Over several meets with her, she wanted sex in all sorts of positions. So just because a person is at the older end of the age scale doesn't always mean to say that they're past their sell by date when it comes to having sex. "
I don't think the op thinks that because he obviously wants to have sex with this woman. There does seem to be an attitude on fab and in general that once you hit 60 sex either becomes impossible or different. I think lots of people treat it as a joke with hilarious quips about bingo halls, knitting and breaking hips and others are at a loss with how to deal with women over 60 in particular. |
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve."
I would hope you would treat all women with respect, not just older women 
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"I'm 61. Are you meeting this woman on a platonic basis or a sexual basis. Just because we're older doesn't mean that you need to approach us as if we're some sort of special case. Take your usual approach, touch her in the same way you would touch any woman. Communicate with her.
Women's bodies to alter as we grow older but not to the extent that a special instruction manual is required . Our attitudes can change too but I'm sure the lady in question will give you signals that let you know if you're getting it wrong.
I hope you both have an enjoyable meet.
Thank you for your help. Its good to know.
You're welcome.
Out of interest in what way do you think this woman is any different from younger women?
I dont think shes different. Just want to treat her with respect so trying to do some homework first. I admire older women and want to give them the respect they deserve.
Being older doesn't deserve more respect than a younger woman .
I wish you luck hunni. ..iv a feeling you might need it x"
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"Ladies I would appreciate your help!
I'm meeting up with a mature woman soon who knows I want to get in her knickers. But shes 63 and is a bit old fashioned about that sort of thing.
Can older women get wet from flirty talk and touching? Whats the best thing to say or way to touch her to turn her on?
Any ideas welcomed, thanks in advance.
H."
Of course an older woman can get wet from flirty talk and touching but it all depends on where and when. She needs to feel comfortable and relaxed with the guy before her inhibitions lower and then she will be gagging for it. |
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