This, although its also a flag to friends about where I’ll be. If it doesnt produce any interest for the two I have up at the moment I’ll stop doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I post meets to let people know i’m Going to a club or event. Not to actually organise a meet. I occasionally hope someone might take it as that but never the intention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a couple we've had some luck but it can be hit and miss but then we have each other regardless.

On our single accounts, as a male it's pretty pointless and as the female she got so inundated by the socially inept that she has more or less shut down her account as sorting through mail was irritating.

We mostly find people through the forums as they seem to have, on average, a better chance of being conversant to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've posted meets lots of times, and not once have I ever had a reply. As said earlier, a single guy posting a meet on here is about as successful as trying to walk to the Moon!

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

Have done every week for 3 years, only 2 meets, 1 good one who happen to be in the area, 1 d*unk so asked to leave ... Mixed results so never get our hopes up lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a few times - never get the messages you want, usually get flooded with ones worth deleting

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"How many of you actually post a meet in the meets section on here, and do you have much success?

I do but don't have much luck

With you on that .. no matter how detailed the meet is for what I’m looking for i get messages from the exact opposite

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We don't as we don't meet spontaneously. We like to chat before arranging any kind of meets.

Mrs"

So do I, hence why I place a meet 'advert' for a couple of weeks ahead, then there is plenty of time to chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Pleased it's not just me then, I was starting to get a complex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to, years ago. It got to be too much though. Ones that weren't my type, flooding my inbox and not being able to see the ones i would like to meet. It's not something i would do these days. Then again, i cant do spontaneous meets anymore. It takes planning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope never have. My meets are carefully planned events

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any ladies wanting to meet me. I may aswell advertise myself, lol. Inbox me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Nope never have. My meets are carefully planned events

As are mine.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive posted 4 in all the years ive been here and ive had 4 positive results. I think im lucky as as i have strict criteria for my meets but have changed it for meet todays.

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By *ools47Woman over a year ago

Failsworth

I have today although it is only for friends (which is why I wish you could restrict the audience), had a lovely time this morning and hopefully going to have a lovely evening as well

I'm feeling naughty today

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Actually when i say 4 successes it was with one of those when i broke my left ribs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have had a meet every time we post one. Most of our meets are spontaneous x

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By *ill74Man over a year ago

New forest area

"How many of you actually post a meet in the meets section on here, and do you have much success?

I do but don't have much luck

I have posted maybe 10 meets or so. I have had 1 meet only as a result. I have messaged people who are looking for meets, and got nowhere. I only message if I genuinely think I meet the criteria.

People talk about timewasters. But I'm not getting any meets, and I'm genuine.

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By *enshermanMan over a year ago

Durham

"How many of you actually post a meet in the meets section on here, and do you have much success?

I do but don't have much luck

I dont do bad but most meet friends I know off here x

Ps where close so fancy a meet??

Shy bairns get nowt x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not any more. I have in the past but it's not really how I operate.

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By *een_VoyeurMan over a year ago

Lanark / Surrounding

Posted probably a dozen as i travel a lot. Met two couples and a female. Drinks only with one couple though. Still count myself lucky as a single male and still after all this time have no expectations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have. For partys. And private meets.

Mixed bag really. Had some respince for private meet but they ended up being fake. We went to the address given the works.

Party slightly diffrent isnt it i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've posted when I've been travelling, successful on 2 occasions which is probably considered good first a bloke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have many times used to work just fine,but as of last couple years total waste time only get message from those that clearly don’t read profile or just time wasters

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