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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put bi curious and got bombarded with blocks wanting to blow me and dick pics a plenty.. I now know what it's like for the poor ladies on here  soon changed back.to straight |
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"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. "
what about the choice of the other person not wanting anyone bi curious?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put bi curious and got bombarded with blocks wanting to blow me and dick pics a plenty.. I now know what it's like for the poor ladies on here soon changed back.to straight"
Similar happened to me lol! I’ve kept bicurious on my profile though and just blocked single guys. I figured that if I’m open to meeting TV/TS, I couldn’t claim to be entirely straight! That’s just me though. Everyone is entitled to put down whatever they choose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yet still message me looking for some fun, What's all that about.
Why lie on your profile, jyst be honest
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omg well its pretty obvious why and honesty never pays cmon you know that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get the complaints about being pestered by guys, especially when you say no single guys on your profile..... but seriously... what do you think women and couples have to put up with every day by comparison..... for all you fellow bi, bi curious, situationaly bi, bi lite and diet bi guys out there . Just get out of the effing closet and at least be honest with yourself and your fellow fabbers.... you might miss a few meets from people who don't like Bi guys but you might win a few ever better ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the complaints about being pestered by guys, especially when you say no single guys on your profile..... but seriously... what do you think women and couples have to put up with every day by comparison..... for all you fellow bi, bi curious, situationaly bi, bi lite and diet bi guys out there . Just get out of the effing closet and at least be honest with yourself and your fellow fabbers.... you might miss a few meets from people who don't like Bi guys but you might win a few ever better ones!"
Pretty strong views you have there! Plenty of women have bicurious on their profiles and don’t see themselves as bisexual. Do you have a problem with them not “coming out of the closet” too? |
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I think the sexuality labels this website provides could be improved but as labels go, people usually want to know such information so by saying you’re straight but aren’t, isn’t really fair to those who don’t want bi, for example. I do appreciate though that people can identify as they wish. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
As I always say when threads like this come about - the guys that label themselves as straight (to get round the preferences of the "won't meet bi guys" people) but are really bi should realise that by doing so they are actually closing just as many doors as they are opening - as people looking for bi guys either won't be able to find them, or (like me) won't meet them because they have lied.
As for not wanting to get pestered by other men - as an openly bi guy who would welcome well worded messages from other guys, I don't get that many messages for it to be a problem - and if it really is a problem for anyone just set the no single men filter  |
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Well I e got straight but also have meet men, I like a cock play, but dont do anal, so that's me straight, not curious to fuck a guy just like cocks, dont we all, so that's me play with guys but straight as I'm not curious or gay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the complaints about being pestered by guys, especially when you say no single guys on your profile..... but seriously... what do you think women and couples have to put up with every day by comparison..... for all you fellow bi, bi curious, situationaly bi, bi lite and diet bi guys out there . Just get out of the effing closet and at least be honest with yourself and your fellow fabbers.... you might miss a few meets from people who don't like Bi guys but you might win a few ever better ones!
Pretty strong views you have there! Plenty of women have bicurious on their profiles and don’t see themselves as bisexual. Do you have a problem with them not “coming out of the closet” too?"
My feelings apply all ways, so no different for women would who say they are str8 but aren't.....
I agree completely with those who say the sexuality labels on the site are inadequate, so my view is admit to being bi or bicurious, but then use your profile to describe how you view and interpret your own sexuality, so that your potential partners have an honest choice from the start....
I mean seriously my profile is the Anti-Unicorn I state on there that I'm a 40yr old, hairy, circumcised, married, bi bloke. That ticks most peoples no boxes before I start.
But at least the few people I have chatted with know who and what I am, and where I stand. And I don't have to begin by backtracking and defending untruths and omissions....
Don't mean to be preachy but wouldn't it be nice if this was the one place we could be honest about ourselves? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Well I e got straight but also have meet men, I like a cock play, but dont do anal, so that's me straight, not curious to fuck a guy just like cocks, dont we all, so that's me play with guys but straight as I'm not curious or gay"
If you play with cocks you are at least bi-curious - just because you don't fuck or get fucked by guys doesn't change that - in fact there are plenty of gay guys who don't indulge in anal play of any kind.
How you choose to label yourself is of course your choice entirely but per my previous post you're potentially shooting yourself in the foot by hiding your true sexuality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the complaints about being pestered by guys, especially when you say no single guys on your profile..... but seriously... what do you think women and couples have to put up with every day by comparison..... for all you fellow bi, bi curious, situationaly bi, bi lite and diet bi guys out there . Just get out of the effing closet and at least be honest with yourself and your fellow fabbers.... you might miss a few meets from people who don't like Bi guys but you might win a few ever better ones!
Pretty strong views you have there! Plenty of women have bicurious on their profiles and don’t see themselves as bisexual. Do you have a problem with them not “coming out of the closet” too?
My feelings apply all ways, so no different for women would who say they are str8 but aren't.....
I agree completely with those who say the sexuality labels on the site are inadequate, so my view is admit to being bi or bicurious, but then use your profile to describe how you view and interpret your own sexuality, so that your potential partners have an honest choice from the start....
I mean seriously my profile is the Anti-Unicorn I state on there that I'm a 40yr old, hairy, circumcised, married, bi bloke. That ticks most peoples no boxes before I start.
But at least the few people I have chatted with know who and what I am, and where I stand. And I don't have to begin by backtracking and defending untruths and omissions....
Don't mean to be preachy but wouldn't it be nice if this was the one place we could be honest about ourselves? "
I agree with everything you’ve said. My only issue was I felt you were kind of having a dig earlier at those choosing to use the term bi-curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. what about the choice of the other person not wanting anyone bi curious?"
If they are that bothered then perhaps they should ask the question. |
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"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. what about the choice of the other person not wanting anyone bi curious?
If they are that bothered then perhaps they should ask the question."
the point is they shouldn't have to... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I e got straight but also have meet men, I like a cock play, but dont do anal, so that's me straight, not curious to fuck a guy just like cocks, dont we all, so that's me play with guys but straight as I'm not curious or gay"
If you you’re a straight man then I’m definitely faster than Usein Bolt anytime with any money on it. |
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Alas others judge bi men pretty harshly on here. Especially women.
I get plenty of chaps apply to attend my Pan People party with straight on their profile. I'm only interested in people who are open and comfortable with who they are. So it cuts both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some men think that others will be put off if they say they are bi/bi curious, so prefer to 'label' themselves as straight. Their profile, their choice. what about the choice of the other person not wanting anyone bi curious?
If they are that bothered then perhaps they should ask the question.the point is they shouldn't have to..."
If it's something people are extremely bothered about though then they should as it is them that find it an issue. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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I’m not worried about how guys label themselves - I’m not going sue them under the Trades Descriptions Act! I’ve had some great meets with guys who describe themselves as straight and some have become good buddies. |
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"Alas others judge bi men pretty harshly on here. Especially women.
I get plenty of chaps apply to attend my Pan People party with straight on their profile. I'm only interested in people who are open and comfortable with who they are. So it cuts both ways."
I'd love to be able to attend one of these days  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I e got straight but also have meet men, I like a cock play, but dont do anal, so that's me straight, not curious to fuck a guy just like cocks, dont we all, so that's me play with guys but straight as I'm not curious or gay
If you play with cocks you are at least bi-curious - just because you don't fuck or get fucked by guys doesn't change that - in fact there are plenty of gay guys who don't indulge in anal play of any kind.
How you choose to label yourself is of course your choice entirely but per my previous post you're potentially shooting yourself in the foot by hiding your true sexuality "
It's not hidden now as it's for all to see here lol  |
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