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We were just curious, as a couple playing with another couple do men hold back from Cumming in order to give either lady as much pleasure as possible and, allow themselves to play again later in the evening or, is it a case of panda “eat shoots and leaves”.
We were really hoping for views from both men women and couples ........
does it matter if either party doesn’t cum/orgasm or is it just giving as much pleasure as possible without cumming ? |
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If they pleasure for the woman is the guy cumming then no matter how much he thinks he is satisfying her , he isn’t if he holds back is he ?
And that’s one of the reasons we rarely play with couples .
My wife is most definately a pleaser , and loves to get a guy off . If he isn’t going to cum , she isn’t going to be happy , so when we are looking to meet we make that clear on our profile . |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Speaking personally, I really enjoy giving pleasure and making it last so I try to hold of Cumming for as long as possible. Plus , as I’m no longer 18 I find once I’ve cum it takes too long to recover.  . Pete |
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I hold off as long as I can, but always cum with women partners, unless it's a 'change position / change partner' group thing.
She always wants her men to cum inside her, condom or bareback. All good fucks end with the man cumming!
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over a year ago
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"We were just curious, as a couple playing with another couple do men hold back from Cumming in order to give either lady as much pleasure as possible and, allow themselves to play again later in the evening or, is it a case of panda “eat shoots and leaves”.
We were really hoping for views from both men women and couples ........
does it matter if either party doesn’t cum/orgasm or is it just giving as much pleasure as possible without cumming ?"
We normally do 3 - 4 horny rounds, I (Mr) cum in all rounds and my lovely Mrs feels odd if her partner doesnt cum... |
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I think when couples playing it’s fine to hold off to make it a really good session - till everyone worn out and finishes then it cum everywhere(as a woman all over my tits, face or mouth or in the other girls pussy for me to lick and snowball with her) if playing with guys or in group session then them holding back is boring - and quickly get disinterested - if a group of guys involved even if other couples there and may primary thing - then it turns me on they shoot their load in my mouth or over me relatively quickly - don’t want to end up with lock jaw from sucking cock after cock all night and nothing going on cus they thinking of their I’ll grannie to look like they can hold out. Cum in my mouth, on my tits and let me get the next cock to wank, suck while I’m being fucked by partner or playing with a girl please. |
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"Always hold back for as long as you can, 3somes and 4somes are ALL about the ladies pleasure"
Yeah no pleasure sucking dick for 10hrs - soon be bored if you hadn’t exploded over my face and was clearly holding back - you’d have been replaced with next cock that looked more willing to enjoy it then hold out. |
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"Always hold back for as long as you can, 3somes and 4somes are ALL about the ladies pleasure
Yeah no pleasure sucking dick for 10hrs - soon be bored if you hadn’t exploded over my face and was clearly holding back - you’d have been replaced with next cock that looked more willing to enjoy it then hold out."
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"Always hold back for as long as you can, 3somes and 4somes are ALL about the ladies pleasure
Yeah no pleasure sucking dick for 10hrs - soon be bored if you hadn’t exploded over my face and was clearly holding back - you’d have been replaced with next cock that looked more willing to enjoy it then hold out."
who said anything about sucking dick for 10 hours? The leafy dictates what she wants and when she wants it surely |
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over a year ago
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There's something that doesn't feel right about this thread.
Perhaps it's because it comes across that the guy's a performer and has to deliver every time?
There's also the common misunderstanding that cumming is the same as pleasure ... or perhaps the female's pleasure is the most important?
Then there's the opposite, where females may fake their orgasm which presumably is also seen as some form of underperformance?
I'm not sure what, and I can't quite put my finger on it!! |
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"There's something that doesn't feel right about this thread.
Perhaps it's because it comes across that the guy's a performer and has to deliver every time?
There's also the common misunderstanding that cumming is the same as pleasure ... or perhaps the female's pleasure is the most important?
Then there's the opposite, where females may fake their orgasm which presumably is also seen as some form of underperformance?
I'm not sure what, and I can't quite put my finger on it!!"
A lot of pressure on men too perform, just my opinion x |
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"There's something that doesn't feel right about this thread.
Perhaps it's because it comes across that the guy's a performer and has to deliver every time?
There's also the common misunderstanding that cumming is the same as pleasure ... or perhaps the female's pleasure is the most important?
Then there's the opposite, where females may fake their orgasm which presumably is also seen as some form of underperformance?
I'm not sure what, and I can't quite put my finger on it!!
A lot of pressure on men too perform, just my opinion x"
And that’s why we all have profiles to show what we like or dislike . Pre meet chat is also a useful tool to determine compatibility .
As the male half here , I tend to prefer to watch , and struggle to cum on a meet , so I would be a useless meet for those who prefer full swap . I say this on our profile when we are meeting .
My wife loves cum , doesn’t care for much attention on her , and her happiness comes from the guys we meet cumming . We also say this on our actively meeting profile .
None of the guys we have met have ever felt that there any pressure on them to perform , because we meet compatible people . It’s really that simple  |
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"There's something that doesn't feel right about this thread.
Perhaps it's because it comes across that the guy's a performer and has to deliver every time?
There's also the common misunderstanding that cumming is the same as pleasure ... or perhaps the female's pleasure is the most important?
Then there's the opposite, where females may fake their orgasm which presumably is also seen as some form of underperformance?
I'm not sure what, and I can't quite put my finger on it!!
A lot of pressure on men too perform, just my opinion x
And that’s why we all have profiles to show what we like or dislike . Pre meet chat is also a useful tool to determine compatibility .
As the male half here , I tend to prefer to watch , and struggle to cum on a meet , so I would be a useless meet for those who prefer full swap . I say this on our profile when we are meeting .
My wife loves cum , doesn’t care for much attention on her , and her happiness comes from the guys we meet cumming . We also say this on our actively meeting profile .
None of the guys we have met have ever felt that there any pressure on them to perform , because we meet compatible people . It’s really that simple "
Brutally open, appreciate your honesty bud |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have fun on every meet but don’t cum very often usually only Nickey can make me come or I will have to help if they really want me to cum. It’s not through lack of enjoyment just doesn’t happen very often sometimes even with Nickey when we are alone I don’t cum not through want of trying either |
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I always try and hold back for as long as possible. I tend to cum quickly when with a new sexual partner, I don't know why but I think it's a mentality thing of getting too excited (I didn't have many sexual partners when younger so the excitement gets too much)
With regular partners I am able to go much longer, but if the girl orgasms I find it very difficult not to fill her at the same time - they seem to love it when you both cum at the same time  |
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"We were just curious, as a couple playing with another couple do men hold back from Cumming in order to give either lady as much pleasure as possible and, allow themselves to play again later in the evening or, is it a case of panda “eat shoots and leaves”.
We were really hoping for views from both men women and couples ........
does it matter if either party doesn’t cum/orgasm or is it just giving as much pleasure as possible without cumming ?"
We cum whenever we can, and that is for both of us. Seems a little pointless doing this and missing the best bit |
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"We were just curious, as a couple playing with another couple do men hold back from Cumming in order to give either lady as much pleasure as possible and, allow themselves to play again later in the evening or, is it a case of panda “eat shoots and leaves”.
We were really hoping for views from both men women and couples ........
does it matter if either party doesn’t cum/orgasm or is it just giving as much pleasure as possible without cumming ?
We cum whenever we can, and that is for both of us. Seems a little pointless doing this and missing the best bit "
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