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Prefer regular meets or different people each time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."
For us we like to play with our friends but also like to play with new people and hopefully they become friends we can regularly play with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time.
For us we like to play with our friends but also like to play with new people and hopefully they become friends we can regularly play with"
This is quite like us we don’t mind meeting new people but also like freinds. |
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We don't meet anyone with the intention of it being a strictly 'one off' occasion but some people either do or say something during the meet that puts us off any future meets or they go a bit weird/possessive afterwards and that has the same outcome. The flip side to this is that when we do click with someone (two single guys in particular) our friendship and fun now goes back over five years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like both.
We arent looking for friendships here anyway as we have each other and the same goes for deep meaningful sex ... we have that with each other.
A mixture of both is good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to sway more towards regular but recently I'm having great fun with a few different people. Maybe having a few different FWB's on a regular basis is the answer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer regular. I like to be restrained etc, there's no way I could relax and enjoy that with a one off!"
Yea we totally get that we wouldn’t really trust someone on a first meet to restrain us too xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."
But you have to meet new people to get good regulars well for people like us fairly new to this x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."
It says to me that they are someone who thoroughly enjoys swinging, to the max. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Both really, one off can be spontaneously great fun. As L says regular meets ewith the same person you can have a few drinks with, who are on the same wavelength, who you’d go shopping with and have a fun relationship, adds that little bit more, a higher dimension really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't mind either,but we do find that regular is better as there is more of a relaxed atmosphere . One offs have all been great too though and without having that one off you never know if it will go further for future meets .
It does put us off a little if we see people with play verifications every other day as for us we like to have a bit of connection not into quick drive by fucks lol.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.
Yes it does .
It says they enjoy variety , which is in essence what swinging is all about .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone."
What does it say ?
To me it says that they are a swinger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.
And what might that be ??? "
too much spare time maybe  |
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"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."
In an ideal world we'd prefer a handful of people that we could meet up with on a semi-regular basis. Sometimes to socialise and sometimes to mmmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the way the feeling and connection builds as you meet more. The desire to please that person becomes stronger and the ability to understand what the other person wants becomes clearer and more achievable.
I would call my regular guys ‘friends’ not just fuck buddies.
I have had some spectacular one offs too though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit of both. Regulars as people have said to build up trust and naughtiness. I mean tie and restraint need time and trust.
But some other one offs for the excitement and nerves of a new meet.
Plus in order to find regulars it has to start with first meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New people for us..we rarley meet the same people twice..we like the unexpectedness of a new meet and what that brings..can not see the point of meeting the same people over and over..that's a relationship not swinging and will become boring no matter how good the sex is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular. Constantly meeting lots of different people for sex in my opinion says a lot about someone.
Yes it does .
It says they enjoy variety , which is in essence what swinging is all about .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x"
Is that not then just a relationship and not swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x
Is that not then just a relationship and not swinging "
Not at all ... I am not looking for a relationship, and we only meet every six weeks or so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Prefer repeats...definitely much hornier and sexier and hotter with a man who is getting to know you and your body. My last fwb made me multiple orgasm with just penetrative sex and a random one nighter isn't going to do that...x
Is that not then just a relationship and not swinging
Not at all ... I am not looking for a relationship, and we only meet every six weeks or so."
I see,I suppose we look at it differently with being a couple and in our own relationship together ..swinging is still a learning curve not matter how long you have been at it lol |
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"New people for us..we rarley meet the same people twice..we like the unexpectedness of a new meet and what that brings..can not see the point of meeting the same people over and over..that's a relationship not swinging and will become boring no matter how good the sex is "
We are exactly the same .
Familiarity often breeds contempt , so long term regulars not only become pointless , boring , meaningless and more like a relationship , but there’s a level of apathy and not the same respect as time and further meets go by .
New meets offer the spark and adrenaline that go with the not knowing what to expect . Invariably they are very much more in line with what we consider to be a good swinging experience . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"New people for us..we rarley meet the same people twice..we like the unexpectedness of a new meet and what that brings..can not see the point of meeting the same people over and over..that's a relationship not swinging and will become boring no matter how good the sex is
We are exactly the same .
Familiarity often breeds contempt , so long term regulars not only become pointless , boring , meaningless and more like a relationship , but there’s a level of apathy and not the same respect as time and further meets go by .
New meets offer the spark and adrenaline that go with the not knowing what to expect . Invariably they are very much more in line with what we consider to be a good swinging experience ."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So does people prefer regular fun with the same people or different people every time."
we would like to have regular meets with people we can build up a rapport with xx |
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By *elliesCouple
over a year ago
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We like to play with different people as we’re not looking to make friends on fab. It’s just that we like to keep our normal life and swinging life separate. We recently played at a club with a great bloke without even knowing his name or him knowing ours. That’s just our way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't meet anyone with the intention of it being a strictly 'one off' occasion but some people either do or say something during the meet that puts us off any future meets or they go a bit weird/possessive afterwards and that has the same outcome."
Yep! That is exactly how I am. Preference is always for regular. |
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All of our meets have been just one offs ,but with nice guys and no regrets ,if they wanted to meet again we would ,can we have both as we might have the chance of a regular meet ,but we dont want to stop the one off ones either could it work if we are all on the same page ?????/  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both have their ups and downs (no pun intended), if you get on with people socially, there there is no reason why it can’t be more than just a one off. But they do say, the more you know someone the better the sex gets!
Personally if I was with a partner, I would hope we would have a close group of friends we could socialise with as well as play. But maybe have the “new” people meetings at clubs.....
After all, strangers are friends you have just not met yet!
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.
What about pin the tail on the donkey?
You've seen right though me. Kinky "
Check your inbox and pin one on my donkey then  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.
What about pin the tail on the donkey?
You've seen right though me. Kinky
Check your inbox and pin one on my donkey then "
I thought the saying was " hung like a donkey" not pin a donkey Ryan 
I've now made a mess on my carpet Thanks for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both... I’m greedy
Regular are more satisfying and adventurous.
One-offs are naughty and sometimes needed too. "
I'm the same. I've got 2 regular but lately finding good one-offs seems impossible.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time. "
It can happen. It’s taken ages but I’ve found someone pretty cool and it’s not based on sex. Just hope it continues the way it has. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I'd just prefer someone that liked me for me nothing to do with sex and that takes time.
What about pin the tail on the donkey?
You've seen right though me. Kinky
Check your inbox and pin one on my donkey then
I thought the saying was " hung like a donkey" not pin a donkey Ryan
I've now made a mess on my carpet Thanks for that "
ee aw |
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