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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not judging them, it's thier business but it's a no go from me.
I like to make a real friendship connection with any potential meets because I'm looking for ones than one offs.
I know that means I'm a no go for some men, and that's fine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We wouldn’t meet a married man or women that was playing away. Cheaters are not attractive
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You meet people in clubs. How do you know they aren't 'cheaters'? |
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"We wouldn’t meet a married man or women that was playing away. Cheaters are not attractive
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How can you be sure though -do they smell/ taste different?  "
Yep you can smell that worried look a mile off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads are always men oriented. I think the number of married women cheating on here is vastly underestimated from my conversations with some of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married & playing solo,my wife knows & is ok about it. I used to have a fb who was married & playing behind her husband's back,we were always discreet & as far as I know her husband never knew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
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No. Nobody will ever meet a married man on here. They do not succeed on this website. We have too many morals!!!!!!!!! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
No. Nobody will ever meet a married man on here. They do not succeed on this website. We have too many morals!!!!!!!!!"
Sounds like you're speaking for the whole of Fab!!
OP some do, some don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
No. Nobody will ever meet a married man on here. They do not succeed on this website. We have too many morals!!!!!!!!!
Sounds like you're speaking for the whole of Fab!!
OP some do, some don't. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads are always men oriented. I think the number of married women cheating on here is vastly underestimated from my conversations with some of them."
Definitely  |
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If i have the choice(everyone isn't always honest, shock horror) then it's a no for me. Nothing to do with how discreet they are, how hot they are or anything like that(This applies to both male and female). Just the fact that I am on a swingers site doesn't mean I let my morals slip, morally it's not ok IMO. Each to their own though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
No. Nobody will ever meet a married man on here. They do not succeed on this website. We have too many morals!!!!!!!!!
Sounds like you're speaking for the whole of Fab!!
OP some do, some don't. "
I'd assume tongue in cheek. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
No. Nobody will ever meet a married man on here. They do not succeed on this website. We have too many morals!!!!!!!!!
Sounds like you're speaking for the whole of Fab!!
OP some do, some don't.
I'd assume tongue in cheek."
Not that much into rimming, personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i have the choice(everyone isn't always honest, shock horror) then it's a no for me. Nothing to do with how discreet they are, how hot they are or anything like that(This applies to both male and female). Just the fact that I am on a swingers site doesn't mean I let my morals slip, morally it's not ok IMO. Each to their own though. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half! "
Having to wait around for when they are available.... Frustrating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i have the choice(everyone isn't always honest, shock horror) then it's a no for me. Nothing to do with how discreet they are, how hot they are or anything like that(This applies to both male and female). Just the fact that I am on a swingers site doesn't mean I let my morals slip, morally it's not ok IMO. Each to their own though. "
This. Obviously I can only go on what I'm told. I choose NOT to sleep with married men but I can't be held responsible for someone else's lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don’t ask these personal questions of the people I meet....
My only concern is that they are clean and respect my boundaries when we are playing.... |
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By *lexGMan
over a year ago
Camberley |
Married man here. Have full permission from my wife to play. She has her own profile and we have a joint profile too.
I appreciate that some people won't meet married men and that's their choice, but I have no issues on time or place or how long I need to be out for. It I stay overnight, then it's no problem for the wife, she'll go and see her guy and stay over too. |
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I don’t mind. Their problem not mine. I’m here for fun and friendship. I’m married. Hubby is on here. We know what each other does and it’s a shame that cos he states he’s married and in here with my knowledge and consent people still avoid him. I think too many people forget this is a swingers site not a dating site and pass him by cos they want a relationship. The men don’t seem to mind that I’m married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half! "
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Why ever not, hadnt they heard of cash  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half! .
Why ever not, hadnt they heard of cash "
God knows but it's happened way too often, I've always been the one to book the hotel just stupidly presumed they'd pay half and that has rarely happened. Besides I prefer to decide where and when |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half!
Having to wait around for when they are available.... Frustrating! "
Definitely and being let down last min because wife's off work or something x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half!
Having to wait around for when they are available.... Frustrating!
Definitely and being let down last min because wife's off work or something x "
Couples and single men can let people down every bit as much as married men. I'm talking from experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s irrelevant to me what someone’s marital status is. All I want is to meet someone on my wavelength, who’s into what I am and understands my needs - the majority of attached men tick all those boxes...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half!
Having to wait around for when they are available.... Frustrating!
Definitely and being let down last min because wife's off work or something x "
I’ve never had to wait around for a married man because of their partner,it’s usually work schedules that don’t align.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half!
Having to wait around for when they are available.... Frustrating!
Definitely and being let down last min because wife's off work or something x
Couples and single men can let people down every bit as much as married men. I'm talking from experience."
True, I've found married/attached men tend to do it more last minute tho x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet married men but it's too much hassle can't meet at certain places, can't pay their part of hotel bill, they seem to want to pick where and what time but don't want to pay for half! "
Ide pay for all of it. Im married |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Married man here. Have full permission from my wife to play. She has her own profile and we have a joint profile too.
I appreciate that some people won't meet married men and that's their choice, but I have no issues on time or place or how long I need to be out for. It I stay overnight, then it's no problem for the wife, she'll go and see her guy and stay over too. "
Ahh but this is different, because you both know. X
I think I may be making an assumption that the majority of married men are playing without the wife's knowledge x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Married man here. Have full permission from my wife to play. She has her own profile and we have a joint profile too.
I appreciate that some people won't meet married men and that's their choice, but I have no issues on time or place or how long I need to be out for. It I stay overnight, then it's no problem for the wife, she'll go and see her guy and stay over too.
Ahh but this is different, because you both know. X
I think I may be making an assumption that the majority of married men are playing without the wife's knowledge x"
The majority of married men on here are quite simply cheating. |
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For me it makes a difference if their partner knows or not last year I got a frantic call saying there was a possibility their missus was about to call and could I please say we met in a pub!!!!! ..... Er no!!! Actually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can’t pay for a hotel! Bloody cheapskates!
Or is it the fear of being found out by the missus checking the Statements?"
We’re not in the 1950’s! Why does the man have to pay for everything..
There’s such a thing as cash....: |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im married and yes people wont meet me. Thats fine and i respect this but 50% of men on here are married and lye to you about it but you meet them. Ide perfure to meet the ones owning up. What else are the lying ones covering up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can’t pay for a hotel! Bloody cheapskates!
Or is it the fear of being found out by the missus checking the Statements?"
Probably the latter but I just can't be arsed with all the faffing it's too long x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im married and yes people wont meet me. Thats fine and i respect this but 50% of men on here are married and lye to you about it but you meet them. Ide perfure to meet the ones owning up. What else are the lying ones covering up."
Yes this is true and lots of married profiles on here are women too |
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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago
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"Not married myself but always wondered if couples/women meet the married men playing away on here? If you do does it make it more of a thrill? Or are they a no no for you?
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I know this isn't exactly what you asked but if a married women aproached me and wanted to play I would only do it if I talked to her partner and if he wants to play as well that's fine, but if he is OK with her playing alone I'm game, I would never in a million years sleep with a married women behind her partners back it just doesn't sit well with me  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
I play with married guys and never had an issue with them. Been seeing one for nearly two years and another for 6 months.
More fun as sometimes it’s quite spontaneous. Even managed a dinner and an overnight stay when one guy was on a course. Being married can add to the thrill but it’s fun because they fulfill my needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Married man here. Have full permission from my wife to play. She has her own profile and we have a joint profile too.
I appreciate that some people won't meet married men and that's their choice, but I have no issues on time or place or how long I need to be out for. It I stay overnight, then it's no problem for the wife, she'll go and see her guy and stay over too.
Ahh but this is different, because you both know. X
I think I may be making an assumption that the majority of married men are playing without the wife's knowledge x
The majority of married men on here are quite simply cheating."
Really. And does that apply only to married men?
And before you ask....I Really am single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So here’s our perspective on this. We are both married (to each other) and would be gutted if either of us betrayed the other. We are very open about everything. That said (as hypocritical as this may sound) other people’s relationships are their relationships and it is they who should live with the guilt. So yes we would meet married based on the fact that they know what their relationship is and have to deal with that themselves. Hope that makes sense. X |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"So here’s our perspective on this. We are both married (to each other) and would be gutted if either of us betrayed the other. We are very open about everything. That said (as hypocritical as this may sound) other people’s relationships are their relationships and it is they who should live with the guilt. So yes we would meet married based on the fact that they know what their relationship is and have to deal with that themselves. Hope that makes sense. X "
Makes a whole lot of sense to me. This life style causes many of us to deceive the ones we love and we must live with that and the consequences that it may bring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I won't knowingly meet married guys. Then again, I tend not to ask my meets too many personal questions. I've met many guys on here who've turned out to be married. I tend to not meet them afain. I've had several bad experiences in the past with wives contacting me. I simply don't need the hassle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These threads are always men oriented. I think the number of married women cheating on here is vastly underestimated from my conversations with some of them."
This. Total double standards. |
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