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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just found this video on YouTube and it makes a lot of sense.
I think it's cool that the subject of non-monogamy is becoming more mainstream.
I hope more people will learn to love themselves and others more fully without possessiveness and jealousy and without fear and coersion.
Have you seen it? What do you all think?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I should point out that there is one glaring error in the video: "Love" is not a feeling; it's a decision to give to others or order to meet their needs (including gracefully recieving gifts). There are 7 kinds of love (all with greek names) and 5 ways to express love (cf 'love languages'), but love is not a feeling.
Also, as an aside, there is a key distinction to be made between a 'feeling' which is what is alive in us now, and an 'emotion' which is a past feeling (e.g. I may feel sad now because I am emotional thinking about a happy time in the past).
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