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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all , Just a quick question / story . Recently i have been chatting with local couple who is into cuckold scenario where guy is a TV and likes kinky stuff well who doesn't LOL First of all after 3 days of chatting and exchanging pics of mine , they didn't want to share face pic but ware up for meeting with the guy and he has plenty on his phone, witch was completely fine . After a while i have been send a phone by Mrs to contact with Mr and meet up. We text for a while and arrange a meeting . One day before that guy cancel it becasue Mrs decided to look for something older than myself , i was cool with it just found it wired that she would decided that and this was her suggestion. I deleted his number and end of story. Week after he contact with me that Mrs has change her mind and older guys are not fro her , they wanted to meet at mine etc. we chat and i though that they are nervous a bit so i made an option to meet in local coffee shop , they love an idea we arrange a date and time. I tuned up order a coffee and was waiting for a meeting after 20 min i got a text that they have been and checked me out but Mrs thinks i am to young looking for her (I guess it's a complement)! I am finding this slightly wired as they have seen my accurate pictures, and they didn't even come to say hi.
Have you ever done something like this to someone ?, and do you think it's OK to turn up and go, a bit coward approach don't you think ? I have been in social before and we didn't take it any further for whatever reasons and it's cool therefore it's call the social!
I found it very strange especially that it was their idea and they have change them mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think that's really off of them to engage like that then not even have the decency to have a coffee with you while you were all there. of course socials don't always end up in fun but politeness and not wasting your time would have cost them nothing x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you actually speak to the lady on the phone ? Or by cam ? We’re they verified ? Was it a real couple or just a bloke living in fantasy land ? "
no i haven't spoken . Yes they have been verified with hidden verification . But i swear that i have caught the lady eye on my. I still think that they ware genuine . Just finding this a bit rude as it would not cost then nothing and social not necessary has to end with fun especially in cuckold were trust needs to be build up i think. Sometimes it takes one social sometimes it takes more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think that's really off of them to engage like that then not even have the decency to have a coffee with you while you were all there. of course socials don't always end up in fun but politeness and not wasting your time would have cost them nothing x"
I completely agree, we all adults here and politeness and honestly cost nothing ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had something like this happen to me and my ex on holiday at Gran Canaria. Just one of those events that made this holiday a disaster and put us both off swinging.
Them "yeah we saw you waiting for us but couldn't decide if it was really you"
Us "well why didn't you log into Fab then and message us?"
Them "we might be in the same neighbourhood tomorrow if you'd like to try again"
  No thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had something like this happen to me and my ex on holiday at Gran Canaria. Just one of those events that made this holiday a disaster and put us both off swinging.
Them "yeah we saw you waiting for us but couldn't decide if it was really you"
Us "well why didn't you log into Fab then and message us?"
Them "we might be in the same neighbourhood tomorrow if you'd like to try again"
No thanks "
Well i know what you saying , and thank you for your comment . I guess some people are dreamers and you're correct it's really is putting off swinging . I just don't get even if you have fantasy about something surly good think is to face it and see if this is for you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just maybe just maybe they we a real couple and the mrs was put off with you being too young for her just maybe it was pure nerves just maybe they balls it up so much that in the end they were embarrassed about the whole thing unless of course it makes it better for you to hear that everyone thinks its a guy swinging make some people do funny things and maybe the guy of the couple was trying to push his mrs into it ....if i were you id just put it down to nothing and move on or everytime you get let down your just gonna get parnoid and think its a guy messing you around |
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Happened to me yes..i was at bar in Newquay as arranged for a drink and face-fit before playing..waited around for a bit and noticed a couple get up and leave--she looked no way like the pics on their profile so i texted later to query what was going on..got message back saying i didnt turn up! Nonsense of course.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had something like this happen to me and my ex on holiday at Gran Canaria. Just one of those events that made this holiday a disaster and put us both off swinging.
Them "yeah we saw you waiting for us but couldn't decide if it was really you"
Us "well why didn't you log into Fab then and message us?"
Them "we might be in the same neighbourhood tomorrow if you'd like to try again"
No thanks
Well i know what you saying , and thank you for your comment . I guess some people are dreamers and you're correct it's really is putting off swinging . I just don't get even if you have fantasy about something surly good think is to face it and see if this is for you!"
For some couples the excitement is in imagining they'd do it. They tease each other by talking about it, watching it, even visiting a club, but they always run away giggling and into each other's arms at the thrill of what they almost did. Meanwhile the rest of us think they're a couple of timewasting tossers.
They're annoying. But they're harmless. Let them have their fun. Just learn to spot them and avoid them  |
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We always turn up for social meets but the understanding is that it is just to see if if they are like there profile says and that there is some kind of positive interaction. We also insist that we do not commit to a further meet until we have had a chance to talk about the guy or couple and that they have the opportunity to think or talk about us. If any of the party says no then it’s no. On all but one occasion this has worked well, the exception being a guy who was not that much like his profile, had little interesting to say so ther was no connection. He wanted us to go back to his place to play right away and when we refused got huffy. Despite a firm NO after the social he continued to ask for meets and ended up blocked. But we have had more than one no show at the socials and agreed fun meets, no doubt forvtgere own reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all , Just a quick question / story . Recently i have been chatting with local couple who is into cuckold scenario where guy is a TV and likes kinky stuff well who doesn't LOL First of all after 3 days of chatting and exchanging pics of mine , they didn't want to share face pic but ware up for meeting with the guy and he has plenty on his phone, witch was completely fine . After a while i have been send a phone by Mrs to contact with Mr and meet up. We text for a while and arrange a meeting . One day before that guy cancel it becasue Mrs decided to look for something older than myself , i was cool with it just found it wired that she would decided that and this was her suggestion. I deleted his number and end of story. Week after he contact with me that Mrs has change her mind and older guys are not fro her , they wanted to meet at mine etc. we chat and i though that they are nervous a bit so i made an option to meet in local coffee shop , they love an idea we arrange a date and time. I tuned up order a coffee and was waiting for a meeting after 20 min i got a text that they have been and checked me out but Mrs thinks i am to young looking for her (I guess it's a complement)! I am finding this slightly wired as they have seen my accurate pictures, and they didn't even come to say hi.
Have you ever done something like this to someone ?, and do you think it's OK to turn up and go, a bit coward approach don't you think ? I have been in social before and we didn't take it any further for whatever reasons and it's cool therefore it's call the social!
I found it very strange especially that it was their idea and they have change them mind."
Yup single bloke weird fantasist theres plenty of them
As a couple also into cuckold etc we would hv just met for coffee anyway no messing about the vari could have been from his other account or from cam.
Always varify on cam or phone before meeting anyone will cut a lot of fakes out |
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Time wasters are the Bain of this site and the last feature in general I guess.
I’m sure we’ve all had them - but I just don’t understand what their motivation is?
If I’m chatting yo someone then I’m genuine and will meet if it seems right for all - sadly not everyone is totally genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"just maybe just maybe they we a real couple and the mrs was put off with you being too young for her just maybe it was pure nerves just maybe they balls it up so much that in the end they were embarrassed about the whole thing unless of course it makes it better for you to hear that everyone thinks its a guy swinging make some people do funny things and maybe the guy of the couple was trying to push his mrs into it ....if i were you id just put it down to nothing and move on or everytime you get let down your just gonna get parnoid and think its a guy messing you around "
Thank you for advice and maybe you right , I am thinking the similar thing to be honest maybe we get too exited and push it but how many times your Mr told you let's give it a go and if it won't work out then we'll walk away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We always turn up for social meets but the understanding is that it is just to see if if they are like there profile says and that there is some kind of positive interaction. We also insist that we do not commit to a further meet until we have had a chance to talk about the guy or couple and that they have the opportunity to think or talk about us. If any of the party says no then it’s no. On all but one occasion this has worked well, the exception being a guy who was not that much like his profile, had little interesting to say so ther was no connection. He wanted us to go back to his place to play right away and when we refused got huffy. Despite a firm NO after the social he continued to ask for meets and ended up blocked. But we have had more than one no show at the socials and agreed fun meets, no doubt forvtgere own reasons."
I must admit that this is a correct to do it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like some tosser pulling your strings "
Normally i would not care, but something inside is telling me that they are real couple, just been interested if other couples or people are scared to have a coffee seems like a normal and human thing to do . When you go in the meet you can spot a lady who is checking you out and then leaving with her hubby taking her coffee as take a way, i am sure it was them :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest, I wouldn't have got as far as the coffee shop. I know people are nervous and all that, but they either want to play or you don't.
Tell them to find someone else to fuck around and get their kicks from. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So you’re too young for her ?
I would simply message them back and say ‘ if you were the couple I saw when I was waiting for you , you’re way too old for me anyway ‘ , and block them .  "
Yep apparently so "young looking " to be exact witch i took as complement LOL she is 42 and i am 32 she new it from the start.. i must say that i feel pity for them rather angry at them or something so i will not block them as i doubt it they will bother me anymore |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be honest, I wouldn't have got as far as the coffee shop. I know people are nervous and all that, but they either want to play or you don't.
Tell them to find someone else to fuck around and get their kicks from."
I completely agree ! but it was very close to my place and coffee was lovely |
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"So you’re too young for her ?
I would simply message them back and say ‘ if you were the couple I saw when I was waiting for you , you’re way too old for me anyway ‘ , and block them .
Yep apparently so "young looking " to be exact witch i took as complement LOL she is 42 and i am 32 she new it from the start.. i must say that i feel pity for them rather angry at them or something so i will not block them as i doubt it they will bother me anymore "
A refreshingly good attitude  |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"just maybe just maybe they we a real couple and the mrs was put off with you being too young for her just maybe it was pure nerves just maybe they balls it up so much that in the end they were embarrassed about the whole thing unless of course it makes it better for you to hear that everyone thinks its a guy swinging make some people do funny things and maybe the guy of the couple was trying to push his mrs into it ....if i were you id just put it down to nothing and move on or everytime you get let down your just gonna get parnoid and think its a guy messing you around "
Some very good advice...
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
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"Did you actually speak to the lady on the phone ? Or by cam ? We’re they verified ? Was it a real couple or just a bloke living in fantasy land ?
no i haven't spoken . Yes they have been verified with hidden verification . But i swear that i have caught the lady eye on my. I still think that they ware genuine . Just finding this a bit rude as it would not cost then nothing and social not necessary has to end with fun especially in cuckold were trust needs to be build up i think. Sometimes it takes one social sometimes it takes more."
Start living in the real world lol. They are clearly fake |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im 100% sure it was just a guy."
Why everyone is so negative all of the sudden ? don't you think that maybe people maybe get nervous or something. I have been swinging for some time now and i can spot a guy who is pretending to be a couple in the other hand final verification is a meeting so you might be right but 100% it might be a little bit to high , have faith |
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