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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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I'm not one for posting ranting messages in forums as I think the site should be fun.
However, I've been a member here, in one profile or another, since almost the start of the site, and so feel I have a lot of experience on here.
When did the the type of user start joining that asks people to bring money, booze or "other items" to meets?
I don't think this is what swinging is about, and certainly not so in your face in the status or profile.
Do the genuine swingers think this is just a thing to be ignored or does it have the potential to damage the site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m generally a relaxed guy but it annoys me too.
One couple messaged me out of the blue last week “come to ours now *inserted address*, bring c0c4ine and a bottle of vodka. Otherwise we will turn you away”
Now I’m not a prude in the slightest (though I don’t do drugs myself). But the combination of being a beg, and also being arrogant enough to assume they can command me to do anything really irritated me. They were average looking as fuck too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m generally a relaxed guy but it annoys me too.
One couple messaged me out of the blue last week “come to ours now *inserted address*, bring c0c4ine and a bottle of vodka. Otherwise we will turn you away”
Now I’m not a prude in the slightest (though I don’t do drugs myself). But the combination of being a beg, and also being arrogant enough to assume they can command me to do anything really irritated me. They were average looking as fuck too."
So such behaviour is acceptable in the beautiful?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people local to me generally put a status up to that effect asking for one thing or another.
It’s off putting and exceptionally tacky.
Just get a bloody job people and buy your own shit!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not one for posting ranting messages in forums as I think the site should be fun.
However, I've been a member here, in one profile or another, since almost the start of the site, and so feel I have a lot of experience on here.
When did the the type of user start joining that asks people to bring money, booze or "other items" to meets?
I don't think this is what swinging is about, and certainly not so in your face in the status or profile.
Do the genuine swingers think this is just a thing to be ignored or does it have the potential to damage the site?"
I was asked one time to book the hotel, so I chose a hotel I could afford and he turned his nose up at it, he wanted something in the £150 a night area, she was ok with my selection  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you OP the site has been damaged from its origins to now. I’m a veteran on/off for 10 years and this is the worst I’ve seen it with the asking (begging even) for money, drugs or alcohol in return for ????
We will not change or restrict the users coming and going on here so we just have to put on our big people pants and get on with satisfying our own agenda and avoiding the scammers, the desperately and the beggars  |
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"I agree with you OP the site has been damaged from its origins to now. I’m a veteran on/off for 10 years and this is the worst I’ve seen it with the asking (begging even) for money, drugs or alcohol in return for ????
We will not change or restrict the users coming and going on here so we just have to put on our big people pants and get on with satisfying our own agenda and avoiding the scammers, the desperately and the beggars "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get equally annoyed when I’m offered a gift or money to meet up.
There are other sites specifically for that!
I always report x "
Can I offer you a box |
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By *emel9 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I agree with you OP the site has been damaged from its origins to now. I’m a veteran on/off for 10 years and this is the worst I’ve seen it with the asking (begging even) for money, drugs or alcohol in return for ????
We will not change or restrict the users coming and going on here so we just have to put on our big people pants and get on with satisfying our own agenda and avoiding the scammers, the desperately and the beggars "
agree it's sad..it was always such an honest site..I just think maybe more admin checks...they check photos after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree with you OP the site has been damaged from its origins to now. I’m a veteran on/off for 10 years and this is the worst I’ve seen it with the asking (begging even) for money, drugs or alcohol in return for ????
We will not change or restrict the users coming and going on here so we just have to put on our big people pants and get on with satisfying our own agenda and avoiding the scammers, the desperately and the beggars
agree it's sad..it was always such an honest site..I just think maybe more admin checks...they check photos after all."
In the seven plus years I've been around I've noticed a massive difference in the attitude and expectations... But not enough for it to annoy me... I just use it as a filter.
I'm not sure what further admin checks you think would make a difference though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get equally annoyed when I’m offered a gift or money to meet up.
There are other sites specifically for that!
I always report x "
Aww now I never get offered anything - note to self - must try harder  |
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