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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aaarrgh!!!
Just had confirmation that our 2nd planned social in as many weeks has pulled out & won’t be going!
Yes I know it could be worse & they both could of been No Shows.... but I’m still pissed off!
Still looking for our 1st one & its Slut I feel sorry for & protective towards! She gets very nervous leading up to them - and then obv deflated & disapointed with a pull out.
Yes they may have legit excuses - but Grrrrrrrrr! All the same!
We are quite particular on Fab
Then we transfer to Kik for 3 way group chats to see how things flow
Then arrange a social
Are lots of single guys on here just for cheap titilation or ego boosts.... or are we just that bad at this???
We were contemplating a club as our 1st venture - but then with getting Kik decided we would try & get a social or 2 arranged - - - - maybe we should re think about starting the ball rolling via a club visit...
Thoughts?? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Aaarrgh!!!
Just had confirmation that our 2nd planned social in as many weeks has pulled out & won’t be going!
Yes I know it could be worse & they both could of been No Shows.... but I’m still pissed off!
Still looking for our 1st one & its Slut I feel sorry for & protective towards! She gets very nervous leading up to them - and then obv deflated & disapointed with a pull out.
Yes they may have legit excuses - but Grrrrrrrrr! All the same!
We are quite particular on Fab
Then we transfer to Kik for 3 way group chats to see how things flow
Then arrange a social
Are lots of single guys on here just for cheap titilation or ego boosts.... or are we just that bad at this???
We were contemplating a club as our 1st venture - but then with getting Kik decided we would try & get a social or 2 arranged - - - - maybe we should re think about starting the ball rolling via a club visit...
Thoughts??"
Clubs and organised group socials seem to be the way that fab is heading now. Seems almost impossible to arrange things privately now because of cancellations, ghosting no shows etc. |
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We've had two people pull out of a social. We knew the guy was playing us in one instance and just let him have enough rope to hang himself. In the second they called us and said they couldn't make it.
Other than that we've had a lot of successful social meets.
I don't know what we do differently to others though. |
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Only one out of seven planned socials in the last three weeks has actually happened.Five guys did cancel with plenty of notice but it's still a little disappointing.We do sometimes visit a club but do prefer to meet and play privately. |
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By *_and_LCouple
over a year ago
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I do feel that the site has changed from when I was first on 10 years ago. A larger number of people seem to be here with no intention to meet - or they lose their nerve. By no means all of course but more from my own experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had 6 socials arranged recently 4 were cancelled at short notice.
I must confess I’ve also had to cancel (giving almost 2 weeks notice).
I think it’s just the way the site is going now. I’ve seen things change and I haven’t even been here a year |
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"Aaarrgh!!!
Just had confirmation that our 2nd planned social in as many weeks has pulled out & won’t be going!
Yes I know it could be worse & they both could of been No Shows.... but I’m still pissed off!
Still looking for our 1st one & its Slut I feel sorry for & protective towards! She gets very nervous leading up to them - and then obv deflated & disapointed with a pull out.
Yes they may have legit excuses - but Grrrrrrrrr! All the same!
We are quite particular on Fab
Then we transfer to Kik for 3 way group chats to see how things flow
Then arrange a social
Are lots of single guys on here just for cheap titilation or ego boosts.... or are we just that bad at this???
We were contemplating a club as our 1st venture - but then with getting Kik decided we would try & get a social or 2 arranged - - - - maybe we should re think about starting the ball rolling via a club visit...
Thoughts??"
My thoughts are simple .
Way too much messing about for a social . |
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