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What's the perfect swinging couple?
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By *ipi2001 OP Couple
over a year ago
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We interested to know what are the features of the perfect swinging couple. Acoording to us the members of the couple should be at the same level. We noticed that its very difficult to meet couples where the members want the same things. Different opinions are welcome |
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over a year ago
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"We interested to know what are the features of the perfect swinging couple. Acoording to us the members of the couple should be at the same level. We noticed that its very difficult to meet couples where the members want the same things. Different opinions are welcome"
4 people involved very difficult to get 4 personalities to gel in all departments of this lifestyle  |
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"We interested to know what are the features of the perfect swinging couple. Acoording to us the members of the couple should be at the same level. We noticed that its very difficult to meet couples where the members want the same things. Different opinions are welcome"
Indeed a balanced 4 way attraction is frustratingly rare. Along side the attraction, we also want couples who:
Have at least 1 sexual health test and year,
Enjoy the social side as well as sexy time,
Don't engage in high risk behaviour,
Are available weekends,
We generally still with the same couples for a long time, our record is 3 years.
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"We interested to know what are the features of the perfect swinging couple. Acoording to us the members of the couple should be at the same level. We noticed that its very difficult to meet couples where the members want the same things. Different opinions are welcome
Indeed a balanced 4 way attraction is frustratingly rare. Along side the attraction, we also want couples who:
Have at least 1 sexual health test and year,
Enjoy the social side as well as sexy time,
Don't engage in high risk behaviour,
Are available weekends,
We generally still with the same couples for a long time, our record is 3 years.
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And not vegans either |
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We are new to swinging as a couple so going at an easy pace whilst we find what works for us. So a couple that understands that and remembers what it was like for them when first starting out is important to me.
We also met a couple that we had good vibes from as we all got along great and fancied each other only for when it came to us taking play to the next level, they ended up having a huge row and there was a lot of drama between them. So I find it vital that the couple know how to communicate with each other and understand each other so that if something doesn't feel right it is sorted before it gets to that point. |
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over a year ago
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"We interested to know what are the features of the perfect swinging couple. Acoording to us the members of the couple should be at the same level. We noticed that its very difficult to meet couples where the members want the same things. Different opinions are welcome"
someone near me and interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A couple that are on the same wavelength and will make time for a social to see if there’s a connection!
It’s not about the bloke all the time and the woman just there because if not he’ll leave her!
A couple that are bothered about everyone involved not just there to shoot their load to speak etc etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said there is no such thing as perfect, except for us of course.....;-) but for us it's about 2 people who are doing this swinging lifestyle for themselves, not just to please the other. They have to be happy and comfortable with each other and not have any jealousy issues. They have to both enjoy the same kind of sex and be able to talk with each other and have a sense of humour.
Couples who have the above are incredibly difficult to find unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I count myself extremely lucky as we've found our perfect couple.
We all swing because we enjoy it, not because anyone is doing it to please anyone.
We share very similar kinks so meets are working to both our needs.
We all find each other attractive and happily all play together.
We get on so well we meet socially as well. They've become very good friends in a short space of time.
We share similar tastes in what we like, don't like, and in stamina.
It is hard to find, but when you do find that couple you click in every way with, then meets just get better and better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of the 6 stunning couples I’ve met in the last month, I’d say the ones that messaged me first were definitely the perfect swingers. That was also a very good dream. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to find another couple who are just as odd as you are - or normal if you like!
Where both are involved because they want to be.
A couple who are generous with their complements, wine cellar and private yacht.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As others have said there is no such thing as perfect, except for us of course.....;-) but for us it's about 2 people who are doing this swinging lifestyle for themselves, not just to please the other. They have to be happy and comfortable with each other and not have any jealousy issues. They have to both enjoy the same kind of sex and be able to talk with each other and have a sense of humour.
Couples who have the above are incredibly difficult to find unfortunately."
A lot like this for us as well. We are taking things steady and so like to chat and work out if we like each other, we are pretty new and so appreciate this more than the direct propositions! The ideal couple would be one we find common ground with first and would be willing to take things steady. L in particular needs some social interaction to feel attraction. Hence our preference for a club meet as we have generally found clubs quite relaxed and sociable with. Xx |
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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago
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"As others have said there is no such thing as perfect, except for us of course.....;-) but for us it's about 2 people who are doing this swinging lifestyle for themselves, not just to please the other. They have to be happy and comfortable with each other and not have any jealousy issues. They have to both enjoy the same kind of sex and be able to talk with each other and have a sense of humour.
Couples who have the above are incredibly difficult to find unfortunately."
This is Us. We both like to Swing and we both WANT to Swing. We have a very strong relationship. Have a great sex life between us both but we also love our naughty secret.
It’s basically amazing. We’re so so lucky.
We are also friendly happy people who like the non sexual side of Swinging if that makes sense? Xx |
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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago
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"We interested to know what are the features of the perfect swinging couple. Acoording to us the members of the couple should be at the same level. We noticed that its very difficult to meet couples where the members want the same things. Different opinions are welcome"
The perfect swinging couple would place boundaries but be flexible if the mood takes them wifey should always come first when it comes to pleasure and hubby should let guys play but always ensure wifey is safe and having fun (spouse knows best) x |
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This is us! We have found though it's not as common as one thinks. Might have helped that we originally met on adult friend finder so have always been open and honest about sex and explore
" but for us it's about 2 people who are doing this swinging lifestyle for themselves, not just to please the other. They have to be happy and comfortable with each other and not have any jealousy issues. They have to both enjoy the same kind of sex and be able to talk with each other and have a sense of humour.
Couples who have the above are incredibly difficult to find unfortunately."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I count myself extremely lucky as we've found our perfect couple.
We all swing because we enjoy it, not because anyone is doing it to please anyone.
We share very similar kinks so meets are working to both our needs.
We all find each other attractive and happily all play together.
We get on so well we meet socially as well. They've become very good friends in a short space of time.
We share similar tastes in what we like, don't like, and in stamina.
It is hard to find, but when you do find that couple you click in every way with, then meets just get better and better "
But your a single lady not a couple. Just checked your profile out nice pics too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I count myself extremely lucky as we've found our perfect couple.
We all swing because we enjoy it, not because anyone is doing it to please anyone.
We share very similar kinks so meets are working to both our needs.
We all find each other attractive and happily all play together.
We get on so well we meet socially as well. They've become very good friends in a short space of time.
We share similar tastes in what we like, don't like, and in stamina.
It is hard to find, but when you do find that couple you click in every way with, then meets just get better and better
But your a single lady not a couple. Just checked your profile out nice pics too "
I also have a couples profile, where obviously both myself and my husband are on.
Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me?
A couple that both seek satisfaction from the added involvement from me.
Perhaps initially me meeting with the wife and her talking to him as we get on with playing, before him then joining us for a fmm.
His satisfaction is as important as the wife’s, in my opinion, as if you are meeting with a couple then it’s not just about me and the wife.
Obviously largely depends on their aims on what they seek from an encounter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me a couple that loves single guys, the woman's hot and loves me and the guy just loves to watch and film me pleasure his wife I mean that's perfection is it not? |
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