So don’t get me wrong I have no issue with men sending me messages can be flattering I guess
But don’t send a message and then on your profile it states looking for girls or couples
If you can’t be true to youself who can you be true too
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Would you be open to meeting them if their profile said were open to doing so?
Nope because if I was my profile would reflect that wouldn’t it  however thank you for your comment "
Fair enough - just checking |
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"Would you be open to meeting them if their profile said were open to doing so?
Nope because if I was my profile would reflect that wouldn’t it however thank you for your comment
Fair enough - just checking"
Nothing wrong in checking and your profile is very honest  |
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over a year ago
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"So don’t get me wrong I have no issue with men sending me messages can be flattering I guess
But don’t send a message and then on your profile it states looking for girls or couples
If you can’t be true to youself who can you be true too
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"If you can’t be true to youself who can you be true too
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Happens to others too OP.
I get loads of messages from guys who don't say they are into TV/TS and their profile portrays them to be fully straight (only Friends and verification from "Women") yet they message me asking for sex. Is this "Fab Straight" I read so much about? LOL |
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"If you can’t be true to youself who can you be true too
Happens to others too OP.
I get loads of messages from guys who don't say they are into TV/TS and their profile portrays them to be fully straight (only Friends and verification from "Women") yet they message me asking for sex. Is this "Fab Straight" I read so much about? LOL"
I don’t doubt it doesn’t happen but just wondered why  |
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I get a fair few guys who message trying their luck. Flattering, but when I say I'm not into guys some go crazy with abuse. I'm not just here to talk to woman but I talk to guys on a different aspect (no flirting) |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I don’t doubt it doesn’t happen but just wondered why "
These "straight" men explained "if (real) Women know I am not fully straight, they would reject me."
To which I reply "if such narrow minded women float your boat then stick to them and good luck to you. I'm not going to be your DLS (Dirty Little Secret). |
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"I don’t doubt it doesn’t happen but just wondered why
These "straight" men explained "if (real) Women know I am not fully straight, they would reject me."
To which I reply "if such narrow minded women float your boat then stick to them and good luck to you. I'm not going to be your DLS (Dirty Little Secret)."
Agreed |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I don’t doubt it doesn’t happen but just wondered why
These "straight" men explained "if (real) Women know I am not fully straight, they would reject me."
To which I reply "if such narrow minded women float your boat then stick to them and good luck to you. I'm not going to be your DLS (Dirty Little Secret)."
Yep and what they don't realise is they're shooting themselves in the foot anyway - for every profile that won't me bi men, there's one that's looking for them so it's balanced anyway |
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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Yep and what they don't realise is they're shooting themselves in the foot anyway - for every profile that won't me bi men, there's one that's looking for them so it's balanced anyway"
Agree. I say to them, "take a look at some of the REAL Men on my verification" - openly Bi and themselves with verifications from many different people. They don't get rejected - quite the opposite... |
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"I get a fair few guys who message trying their luck. Flattering, but when I say I'm not into guys some go crazy with abuse. I'm not just here to talk to woman but I talk to guys on a different aspect (no flirting) "
You know wheres the harm a guys says no its cool worth a try and i find it complement and if its no its ok |
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"I don’t doubt it doesn’t happen but just wondered why
These "straight" men explained "if (real) Women know I am not fully straight, they would reject me."
To which I reply "if such narrow minded women float your boat then stick to them and good luck to you. I'm not going to be your DLS (Dirty Little Secret)."
We get messaged by ‘straight’ guys all the time confessing their secret bisexuality as we’re only seeking bi couples or bi singles. I now find it insulting as they are either lying about being bi to get in my knickers or lying about being straight on their profile. If you can’t be honest on a swingers site what you’re looking for then we’re not the couple for you! These Fab straight guys now get sent off with a similar message to yourself and then blocked   Amelia x |
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"We get messaged by ‘straight’ guys all the time confessing their secret bisexuality as we’re only seeking bi couples or bi singles. I now find it insulting as they are either lying about being bi to get in my knickers or lying about being straight on their profile. If you can’t be honest on a swingers site what you’re looking for then we’re not the couple for you! These Fab straight guys now get sent off with a similar message to yourself and then blocked Amelia x"
Completely agree with this. It got so bad we now only meet single guys in clubs in Bi nights. We've blocked single guys from messaging us. |
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We get messaged by ‘straight’ guys all the time confessing their secret bisexuality as we’re only seeking bi couples or bi singles. I now find it insulting as they are either lying about being bi to get in my knickers or lying about being straight on their profile. If you can’t be honest on a swingers site what you’re looking for then we’re not the couple for you! These Fab straight guys now get sent off with a similar message to yourself and then blocked Amelia x"
I can strongly agree with what you say - I used to be looking for men as well, though my Profile clearly said that I didn't want to meet Straight people. But I kept getting the same problem as you...
So now I've stopped looking for men altogether, much less hassle....
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I don't get many messages from women.. I usually always start the conversations.. I get a lot of gay men and tvs looking.. I've blocked men from messaging and it's usually the only flattery I get lol |
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Most of the messages I get, and indeed fabs on my pictures, are from men. As long as no-one is rude I don’t mind but it would be nice to get more attention from females/couples ?? |
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Carter generally reads our mail and yes we get lots of fab straight guys messaging us.
Thing is if you're not out our on your profile we have no way of knowing if we will be sexually compatible so you're not going to be a contender are you? |
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"I don't get many messages from women.. I usually always start the conversations.. I get a lot of gay men and tvs looking.. I've blocked men from messaging and it's usually the only flattery I get lol"
Unrelated to the thread but just wanted to say your username is ace; made me chuckle!  |
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I get loads of emails from gay men(despite my profile stating that I'm straight!) but I haven't blocked them. Seems a bit rude Plus I occasionally have a bit of a chinwag with kindred male souls from the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've got no problem talking to straight guys who PM me, but I'd feel like a bit of a cunt if I started talking to a dude who was bi or gay through PM's because I don't want them to get the wrong idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We get bi guys messaging us but then get loads of abuse when we politely turn them down. It's not because we're narrow or small minded or judgmental like accused. We respect their preferences and expect them to do the same with us. |
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