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Cuck is one of those words that's getting chronically misused as the public realises the concept. I don't think sharing your wife stops you being a "real man" but if she humiliates you and makes you dress then... |
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I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man. |
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"I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man."
So what would make a man "not a real man"? |
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"Cuck is one of those words that's getting chronically misused as the public realises the concept. I don't think sharing your wife stops you being a "real man" but if she humiliates you and makes you dress then..."
Dunno if I’m cuck and she never humiliates me more teases before during and after
But fuck do I love seeing her being fucked well! Hell yeah |
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This is the answer I gave last time this question was asked.
This is an interesting one. To label all "Cucks" as "not real men" in such an exclusive manner, is a bit of a generalisation.
For a man to trust his significant other in such a way takes a lot of courage. Is this not a very "manly quality?"
We all have our strengths and weaknesses. But, having been involved with cuckold couples in the past, the satisfaction, pleasure and security in their relationships is usually plain to see. Don't forget, it's a mutual deviance. The cuck gets as much pleasure from the sight or thought of his significant other being satisfied by other men.
It's a complexed dynamic for sure. But ultimately, we all have kinks, which need to be fed. Another man, entrusting me, to fulfill the lustful desires of both him and his one and only, is a huge turn on. I mean.... in the end... who's serving who?
So to all you cucks who may be doubting yourselves. I salute you all. I thank you on behalf of all who have ploughed your missus' with your full consent. You decide whether you're real men or not. To me though, you're as much men as the bulls and chancers who come and go, while you remain the rock steady stalwarts for your queens and mistresses. Is that not a mans job? |
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"I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man."
perfectly said  |
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"I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man.
perfectly said "
Yes a simple answer to a simple question... wd |
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"I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man.
So what would make a man "not a real man"? "
Some man which are still immature,in my view still boys ! And a man who uses violence (not all man attention !!!) is not a man but yes animal .
My childhood friend is gay but a real man ! He is reliable ,responsible, pay his bills , takes care of his family and partner! He wash dishes,fix cars ,fix stuff around the house !
Same question for you . |
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We like what we like. Back when I was single I used to guide a "virgin to swinging" cuckold couple. There was nothing stereotypically unmanly about the guy. He was doing very well in his chosen career and also had a cage fighting background. In the real world he could very easily have "kicked my ass"
He was a real man who just happened to enjoy serving his lady and myself whenever we met up  |
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"I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man."
spot on.
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I’m a cuckold. I’m sure this is because of who I am, rather than a choice my wife would have made. Which isn’t to say she hasn’t been very happy with the outcome. I’d say we have each enjoyed the best sexual lives we are each capable of receiving and giving.
Sex involves a very small proportion of our time- though a critically important part. For the rest of the time we are I suppose an archetypically traditional married couple. I have always expected to be the breadwinner and I suppose take the main responsibility for assuring a good standard of living for my family, keeping them happy, safe and comfortable. I have been successful in doing so, and take some pride in that success. So certainly in that context I suppose what some may think of as a “ real man”
But sexually it is simply the case that men are not equal. Far more so than is the case with women and this inescapable biological fact has I think a profound effect on our ( male) psychology as we become aware, vaguely at first, of this truth.
It’s not just penis size, though that is indeed something boys understandably reflect on greatly, but consciousness of what we may for convenience term masculinity.
I think I sensed quite early that I would not be an “ alpha” Male in a sexual sense ( though I wouldn’t have known the term) and experienced the curious cuckold mixture of jealousy and sexual excitement at the thought that a future girlfriend/ wife might be unfaithful to me with men more capable than I of giving her sexual fulfilment.
As I have matured and developed it has come to me to seem an entirely reasonable solution to an otherwise potentially unhappy imbalance to embrace a cuckold marriage. In ours at least we have been able to enjoy fully all the mutual support and love which a strong marriage provides , for ourselves and our children. And almost throughout that time we have met with men who have given my wife the sexual fulfilment I believe she is entitled to and which is simply beyond my capabilities. Without that I think we would still have stayed together, but who knows? She would surely have felt a degree of frustration ( though I think millions of women do and somehow sublimate it) , and I a guilt and also a frustration at the knowledge of my inadequacy in this regard. |
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"I can't understand ? Why they not a real man ? What defines a real men ?
A gay man is a real man , a cuck is a real man, a submissive man is a real man . The sexual preferences is what turns someone on ,yet does not make them less of a man.
So what would make a man "not a real man"? Some man which are still immature,in my view still boys ! And a man who uses violence (not all man attention !!!) is not a man but yes animal .
My childhood friend is gay but a real man ! He is reliable ,responsible, pay his bills , takes care of his family and partner! He wash dishes,fix cars ,fix stuff around the house !
Same question for you ."
I'd say a man ceases to be a "real man" when his feminine behaviour outweighs his masculine behaviour.
I wouldn't call sharing your wife a feminine behaviour, but being told to cross dress is - almost by definition.
I don't agree that any use of violence makes a man an animal. Using violence for crime is anti-masculine. But our entire society rests of the threat of violence for those who won't conform on some level. I certainly wouldn't consider men in the military or security to be low in masculinity, on average. |
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"I’m a cuckold. I’m sure this is because of who I am, rather than a choice my wife would have made. Which isn’t to say she hasn’t been very happy with the outcome. I’d say we have each enjoyed the best sexual lives we are each capable of receiving and giving.
Sex involves a very small proportion of our time- though a critically important part. For the rest of the time we are I suppose an archetypically traditional married couple. I have always expected to be the breadwinner and I suppose take the main responsibility for assuring a good standard of living for my family, keeping them happy, safe and comfortable. I have been successful in doing so, and take some pride in that success. So certainly in that context I suppose what some may think of as a “ real man”
But sexually it is simply the case that men are not equal. Far more so than is the case with women and this inescapable biological fact has I think a profound effect on our ( male) psychology as we become aware, vaguely at first, of this truth.
It’s not just penis size, though that is indeed something boys understandably reflect on greatly, but consciousness of what we may for convenience term masculinity.
I think I sensed quite early that I would not be an “ alpha” Male in a sexual sense ( though I wouldn’t have known the term) and experienced the curious cuckold mixture of jealousy and sexual excitement at the thought that a future girlfriend/ wife might be unfaithful to me with men more capable than I of giving her sexual fulfilment.
As I have matured and developed it has come to me to seem an entirely reasonable solution to an otherwise potentially unhappy imbalance to embrace a cuckold marriage. In ours at least we have been able to enjoy fully all the mutual support and love which a strong marriage provides , for ourselves and our children. And almost throughout that time we have met with men who have given my wife the sexual fulfilment I believe she is entitled to and which is simply beyond my capabilities. Without that I think we would still have stayed together, but who knows? She would surely have felt a degree of frustration ( though I think millions of women do and somehow sublimate it) , and I a guilt and also a frustration at the knowledge of my inadequacy in this regard. "
Exactly this! The best explanation of how it feels to be a cuckold I’ve come across on here! |
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"Depends on how you define cuck, it should be about the complete pleasure of your hotwife in my view  "
A very complex question, but i agree with the above. It takes huge emotional strength to accept that your loved one is having pleasure with, and enjoying the company of someone else. There's nothing 'unmanly' about it. Accepting she's enjoying that kind of variety in her life adds spice and a new dimention to your own relationship together, IF your relationship is strong,
Most men would want their wife/partner to be happy, content and have things to look forward to in life, so why not sexually. Obviously the cuck derives sexual pleasure knowing his wife/partner is enjoying a good and varied sex life, so it's a win win situation once you get your head around it.
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I’m always wary of being praised for my unselfishness in being a compliant cuckold. It’s what I want as well as knowing it’s what makes my wife feel better. Indeed I’ve come across cucks who seem oblivious to their wives feelings- the horniest wives perhaps don’t always want to fuck around!
Mine certainly has had spells where it just doesn’t feel right for her, and that should be respected. She’s going through such a period now, and maybe she won’t play again- but I hope she will, as I know that when she does play she is generally happier and less stressed. One thing surely all we men must have learned is that women’s sexuality is generally a bit more complicated than ours! All we can do is support and gently encourage. But I don’t want to sound too virtuous: not only is her cuckolding me the most exciting sexual experience for myself- I benefit from her contented demeanour for days following! |
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Let’s stop the nonsense and clarify a few things....
A cuck is a real man... he is a husband, Father and provider. That is his role in life.
Now sexually.......he is submissive to his master and cuckoldress....
Please don’t confuse a person in thier real life to thier proclivities in the bedroom....
The cucks I own are really Great guys... because they entrust me with the person they love the most..
I have a lot of respect for them
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Chaste cuckold slave husband here.
I have no idea what a "real man" is and I don't really care. I don't think gender based stereotyping or constructs of real man or real woman are helpful in most situations. Not everyone is the same and exerting pressure on people to conform with social norms does more harm than good. In fact, I see it as a form of oppression.
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"Let’s stop the nonsense and clarify a few things....
A cuck is a real man... he is a husband, Father and provider. That is his role in life.
Now sexually.......he is submissive to his master and cuckoldress....
Please don’t confuse a person in thier real life to thier proclivities in the bedroom....
The cucks I own are really Great guys... because they entrust me with the person they love the most..
I have a lot of respect for them
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Out of interest, roughly what % want you or their wife to humiliate them in some way? |
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"Been cuckold for 5 years - dress too - are cuckolds real men - what everyone think ?
Imo yes - of course they’re ‘real men’ - though not men I’d be sexually interested in! "
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"Let’s stop the nonsense and clarify a few things....
A cuck is a real man... he is a husband, Father and provider. That is his role in life.
Now sexually.......he is submissive to his master and cuckoldress....
Please don’t confuse a person in thier real life to thier proclivities in the bedroom....
The cucks I own are really Great guys... because they entrust me with the person they love the most..
I have a lot of respect for them
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Well said Sir! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Let’s stop the nonsense and clarify a few things....
A cuck is a real man... he is a husband, Father and provider. That is his role in life.
Now sexually.......he is submissive to his master and cuckoldress....
Please don’t confuse a person in thier real life to thier proclivities in the bedroom....
The cucks I own are really Great guys... because they entrust me with the person they love the most..
I have a lot of respect for them
Out of interest, roughly what % want you or their wife to humiliate them in some way? "
I have only trained 5 cucks...... that is a small sample size but all wanted to be humiliated....
All wore chastity cages and 2 I made cross dress....
My favorite thing to do is go to Dinner with my cuck and his wife.... and when the waitress comes to pick up the bill , I make the wife hand the cuck her panties....
The looks on their faces is priceless.... |
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