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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She told me it means light hearted friendship... How can buying flowers be wrong "
Some people have a thing about the colors of the flowers. Red would mean the sender loves you, yellow - hates you, white chrysanthemums - wants you dead.
Those are the ones I've heard about
To me a flower is a nice thought regardless of color or type
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Stick to red next time,but then of course she may then think you love her. Box of chocolates instead or a bar of chocolate maybe,a box could mean you love her again. Give her a twix,you can't go wrong with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was she just passing comment and not said in a horrid way?"
This is what I'm thinking.
Men are terrible at reading women but brilliant at reading women in the wrong way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my Nan told me the same Color but different species of flowers have different meanings. My parents have a book of flowers on the shelf tells you the different meanings.
Eg yellow daffodils mean new beginnings.
But yellow tansy means I declare war.
Not sure what flower is best for here though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message?" fair point... But she doesn't drink and I don't like turning up empty handed
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ha ha its not always that simple I don't have the pleasure of picking and choosing
Sounds somewhat ungrateful! who me?
No I meant the person you gave the flowers to." thanks for the kind words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message?"
More like she's fed up and wants to end it with OP.
I've been there and everything my ex did and every time I saw him, I just felt irritated by him.
But I was still polite and said thank you and please etc. Just secretly inside I was bored with being with him. So I ended it.
Sometimes it's hard to end any kind of relationship. Some of us wants out but doesn't want to hurt the others feelings. For some it's better to be dumped then doing the dumping.
Some people kind of drop hints. One such hint is showing lack of enthusiasm for the relationship. Maybe that's what's happening here. Not saying her attitude is correct though. I can sort of understand why possibly she's being that way. |
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"Its white lilies that means death. They're the flower of choice when someone dies. "
I used to buy my Ex lilies but not because I wanted her dead (then) but she loved them my friends g’friends thought I was mad but it got me the brownie points |
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"Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message?
More like she's fed up and wants to end it with OP.
I've been there and everything my ex did and every time I saw him, I just felt irritated by him.
But I was still polite and said thank you and please etc. Just secretly inside I was bored with being with him. So I ended it.
Sometimes it's hard to end any kind of relationship. Some of us wants out but doesn't want to hurt the others feelings. For some it's better to be dumped then doing the dumping.
Some people kind of drop hints. One such hint is showing lack of enthusiasm for the relationship. Maybe that's what's happening here. Not saying her attitude is correct though. I can sort of understand why possibly she's being that way. "
How on this planet can you say that ? You haven’t got a clue who she is or their relationship !!!! |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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Yellow roses mean friendship.
Or some say you give them to a sick friend.
They're my favourite flower. Brilliant on valentine's as they're cheap as chips while Res ones go up to like £5 for one
As others have said, maybe she meant it in a light hearted way. Especially as you said you still got sex. |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"We always have sex it's are arrangement I've offered for meal out but she says leaves less time for sex "
Then I'm guessing she meant it in a light hearted way.
Also if she's on here, this may back fire. I'd be pissed if I found out the guy I was sleeping with whined about me on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try diamond ring...
Might do a trick...
I once bought a sunflower...it dod the trick...
But if she wants you she will take whatever you bring...
It's in the gesture...if not..
She a cunt!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We always have sex it's are arrangement I've offered for meal out but she says leaves less time for sex
Then I'm guessing she meant it in a light hearted way.
Also if she's on here, this may back fire. I'd be pissed if I found out the guy I was sleeping with whined about me on here. " whined about her response not her... |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
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"We always have sex it's are arrangement I've offered for meal out but she says leaves less time for sex
Then I'm guessing she meant it in a light hearted way.
Also if she's on here, this may back fire. I'd be pissed if I found out the guy I was sleeping with whined about me on here. whined about her response not her... "
Same thing. Have you bothered asking if shes genuinely annoyed or just messing around? |
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"Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message?
More like she's fed up and wants to end it with OP.
I've been there and everything my ex did and every time I saw him, I just felt irritated by him.
But I was still polite and said thank you and please etc. Just secretly inside I was bored with being with him. So I ended it.
Sometimes it's hard to end any kind of relationship. Some of us wants out but doesn't want to hurt the others feelings. For some it's better to be dumped then doing the dumping.
Some people kind of drop hints. One such hint is showing lack of enthusiasm for the relationship. Maybe that's what's happening here. Not saying her attitude is correct though. I can sort of understand why possibly she's being that way. "
I was thinking it meant she wants more than you're offering - fed up with being an FWB.
On the other hand, are you sure she didn't ask for a specific colour? Maybe last time you were together she said she loved blue flowers, but you forgot and got yellow! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message?
More like she's fed up and wants to end it with OP.
I've been there and everything my ex did and every time I saw him, I just felt irritated by him.
But I was still polite and said thank you and please etc. Just secretly inside I was bored with being with him. So I ended it.
Sometimes it's hard to end any kind of relationship. Some of us wants out but doesn't want to hurt the others feelings. For some it's better to be dumped then doing the dumping.
Some people kind of drop hints. One such hint is showing lack of enthusiasm for the relationship. Maybe that's what's happening here. Not saying her attitude is correct though. I can sort of understand why possibly she's being that way.
I was thinking it meant she wants more than you're offering - fed up with being an FWB.
On the other hand, are you sure she didn't ask for a specific colour? Maybe last time you were together she said she loved blue flowers, but you forgot and got yellow!" nothing like that.. Every thing has a meaning to her a sub text |
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"Sounds like she wants more from you than lighthearted friendship, but if you are nothing more than fuck buddies then maybe getting flowers of any kind is sending the wrong kinda message?
More like she's fed up and wants to end it with OP.
I've been there and everything my ex did and every time I saw him, I just felt irritated by him.
But I was still polite and said thank you and please etc. Just secretly inside I was bored with being with him. So I ended it.
Sometimes it's hard to end any kind of relationship. Some of us wants out but doesn't want to hurt the others feelings. For some it's better to be dumped then doing the dumping.
Some people kind of drop hints. One such hint is showing lack of enthusiasm for the relationship. Maybe that's what's happening here. Not saying her attitude is correct though. I can sort of understand why possibly she's being that way.
I was thinking it meant she wants more than you're offering - fed up with being an FWB.
On the other hand, are you sure she didn't ask for a specific colour? Maybe last time you were together she said she loved blue flowers, but you forgot and got yellow! nothing like that.. Every thing has a meaning to her a sub text "
There's subtext to everything, whether the actors know it or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We always have sex it's are arrangement I've offered for meal out but she says leaves less time for sex
Then I'm guessing she meant it in a light hearted way.
Also if she's on here, this may back fire. I'd be pissed if I found out the guy I was sleeping with whined about me on here. whined about her response not her...
Same thing. Have you bothered asking if shes genuinely annoyed or just messing around? " I was thoughtless and there in the garden |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet my regular fwb... Bought flowers... Yellow... Was told that the colour ment I don't care... Lol anyone else had such an experience " maybe she was having an off day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet my regular fwb... Bought flowers... Yellow... Was told that the colour ment I don't care... Lol anyone else had such an experience "
I find diamonds always work |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet my regular fwb... Bought flowers... Yellow... Was told that the colour ment I don't care... Lol anyone else had such an experience
I find diamonds always work " yes they work well in my angle grinder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet my regular fwb... Bought flowers... Yellow... Was told that the colour ment I don't care... Lol anyone else had such an experience
I find diamonds always work "
I'll look forward to some more of them then..
Your beloved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet my regular fwb... Bought flowers... Yellow... Was told that the colour ment I don't care... Lol anyone else had such an experience "
"Language of flowers" yellow is friendship - exactly right for FWB?
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