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One offs just fck or fck friends
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering if were the minority or majority. We prefer longer friendships with regular people which builds the connection rather than meet fck and leave dates. In a conversation with fab friends, who have been swinging much longer than us got me thinking to ask this question, the other male said it was getting really hard to find 4 people who all got on and wanted the same things and it seemed much easier to get the fck and leave dates these days. So the straw pole question is
Fck and leave or friends who fck?
Thanks fab people x |
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I've done the fuck and leave in the past, some I enjoyed, a few I didn't, but I didn't like them empty and used feeling that I got a few days afterwards.
Now I have a few friends who I fuck. The sex is awesome and the friendship makes the huge difference. Plus when I go to a club I know I have a friend who is there with me to watch my back and keep me safe. If I have a fantasy ''fuck n go stranger type sex' then I can have that with a friend who is happy to either sit and watch or join in. |
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"I've done the fuck and leave in the past, some I enjoyed, a few I didn't, but I didn't like them empty and used feeling that I got a few days afterwards.
Now I have a few friends who I fuck. The sex is awesome and the friendship makes the huge difference. Plus when I go to a club I know I have a friend who is there with me to watch my back and keep me safe. If I have a fantasy ''fuck n go stranger type sex' then I can have that with a friend who is happy to either sit and watch or join in."
Indeed that's a good point. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I only ever do the friends I fuck I can't do it any other way and would rather go without than fuck a random person "
Us too we find the excitement is in the developing of the relationship finding and ongoing exploration of others. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We much prefer the friendship route.
Mrs P just can’t get excited at the thought of a stranger touching her- yet a man or woman has mentally stimulated her through laughter and everything else that comes with friendship is another thing... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Each to their own but I can’t do fuck and go as I feel a bit worthless after I prefer to meet one guy and enjoy each other once it’s over go separate ways no drama x |
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I'm very lucky as my best mate is also my Fbuddy. We are like a couple but don't live together. In fact 250 bloody miles away from eachother !! We're not looking for a relationship/love interest at all with other people but we've had FFM and FFFM which was amazing. She has everything I need in a best mate and vice versa. We facetime every night in bed and get up to naughtiness...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like a healthy mix of both.
The fck and go is that at clubs or arranged before hand, which seems to be most people's experience.
I don't go to clubs so always arranged in advanced. "
Thanks for the input. |
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"We much prefer the friendship route.
Mrs P just can’t get excited at the thought of a stranger touching her- yet a man or woman has mentally stimulated her through laughter and everything else that comes with friendship is another thing..."
Our view also nice to know were not weird  |
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"Each to their own but I can’t do fuck and go as I feel a bit worthless after I prefer to meet one guy and enjoy each other once it’s over go separate ways no drama x"
Interesting so you prefer longer times together and regular people to connect to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering if were the minority or majority. We prefer longer friendships with regular people which builds the connection rather than meet fck and leave dates. In a conversation with fab friends, who have been swinging much longer than us got me thinking to ask this question, the other male said it was getting really hard to find 4 people who all got on and wanted the same things and it seemed much easier to get the fck and leave dates these days. So the straw pole question is
Fck and leave or friends who fck?
Thanks fab people x "
Would it have really been that much harder to type a few u’s  |
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"I'm very lucky as my best mate is also my Fbuddy. We are like a couple but don't live together. In fact 250 bloody miles away from eachother !! We're not looking for a relationship/love interest at all with other people but we've had FFM and FFFM which was amazing. She has everything I need in a best mate and vice versa. We facetime every night in bed and get up to naughtiness... "
Sounds you both have the perfect relationship for each other. We've found lots of FB's looking to connect which we are ok with, don't judge others. Happy fabbing with the wonders of technology |
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"I was wondering if were the minority or majority. We prefer longer friendships with regular people which builds the connection rather than meet fck and leave dates. In a conversation with fab friends, who have been swinging much longer than us got me thinking to ask this question, the other male said it was getting really hard to find 4 people who all got on and wanted the same things and it seemed much easier to get the fck and leave dates these days. So the straw pole question is
Fck and leave or friends who fck?
Thanks fab people x
Would it have really been that much harder to type a few u’s "
Lol uuuuuuuuuuuuu just for you x |
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"I've done the fuck and leave in the past, some I enjoyed, a few I didn't, but I didn't like them empty and used feeling that I got a few days afterwards."
I've never had one, but I imagine that's how they'd leave me feeling. If I ever had a one night stand or fuck and leave meet I get the feeling I wouldn't enjoy it as much as being with a friend.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering if were the minority or majority. We prefer longer friendships with regular people which builds the connection rather than meet fck and leave dates. In a conversation with fab friends, who have been swinging much longer than us got me thinking to ask this question, the other male said it was getting really hard to find 4 people who all got on and wanted the same things and it seemed much easier to get the fck and leave dates these days. So the straw pole question is
Fck and leave or friends who fck?
Thanks fab people x
Would it have really been that much harder to type a few u’s
Lol uuuuuuuuuuuuu just for you x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fuck and go for me.
I am lucky, I have loads of non-swinging friends and a full social life so just want sex. That's the reason i am here. I do however know some reliable fab guys i am always happy to fuck again.  |
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