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How to let someone know you’re swingers without offending (if they turn out Vanilla)
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Hi guys
Suggestions on how do you lot go about hinting (to another couple, single fem or single guy) that you are up for fun with them but don’t want to offend them if they are not into it.
Scenario...
Married couple Jack & Jill are on holiday. They get talking to Two really nice single guys. They get on that well that they swap mobile numbers so all 4 of them can split the cost of an airport transfer at the end of the holiday. Nothing sexual as yet. A couple of days later whilst playing together Jack tells Jill he’d love to invite the guy(s) to join them for fun. Jill agrees. So, how would you go about hinting?
Things to consider...
The guys are so nice it appears unlikely that they would make a move initially. At the end of the day they may not even be interested.
Jack & Jill don’t really want to hint by text just in case the guys are not interested.
Jack & Jill don’t want to suggest it for the reasons above.
Anklets etc are out of the question as they are on holiday.
They are already 1 week into a 2 week holiday so something needs to happen soon.
What would you do guys & girls?
Of course, this is just a hypothetical question  |
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If it’s two men, just ask them to join you and your wife for sex. If they yes ten all good. If they say “fucking hell thats disgusting” just shrug it off and say “the wife was up for it but don’t fret cos we’re swingers and there’s loads of cock gagging for it” |
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By *oresexMan
over a year ago
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You are on holiday, it's not like you really know them socially, or will ever see them again, don't over think it, the usual rules don't apply, just tell them what you would like to do with them and move on if they are not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not just come straight out with it and say what you mean?
If they say they are not into it just say ''no problem''. If they get offended at that then they are probably a bit TOO sensitive and easily offended. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just ask them.... not sure why people seem to have issues with honest communication. What is the worst that could happen, they say no and J&J have to pay the whole taxi transfer cost. |
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Pretend to get a text when all sat together
Mr. ‘Whos that’?
Mrs. ‘Oh just from the swingers club telling us about the party next Saturday’.
Then ask if they ever go?!
If they look disgusted just move the conversation on and ask who’s round it is. |
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We have met swingers at UK naturist sites by saying "do you go to other clubs?" They can take this as naturist clubs and if they say "Happy Valley Naturist Club" then we reply "We go to Chameleons." That either gets the reply "Oh, so you're swingers, we are too!" or "Not heard of that" in which case we just say it's an indoor naturist club.
Agree, if you are on an overseas holiday just say "Do you swing?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Suppose we’re all of a similar mind so would appreciate a more direct question, but I get the possible sensitivity of asking...that said, some great suggestions above.
I don’t think you’ll go far wrong by just asking if they’d fancy going to your room for a ‘drink’, you’ll soon get a feel, no pun intended, about how comfortable they are soon enough...
Out of interest, did you notice them looking or checking yourselves out? |
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