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By *litterbabe OP Woman
over a year ago
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If you see somebody who you are attracted to in a non lifestyle venue, if they are wearing your wedding ring does that make you feel that they are sexually unapproachable, or unobtainable.
Does it make you think that they are already in a committed monogamous relationship, and any more than social interaction with you would constitute an affair?
Or do you feel possibly they could be into the lifestyle and it is not disrespectful approach regardless?
Wearing a wedding ring be a red flag to you, if they approached you and made a move?
In a situation like that, I would be quite open about my lifestyle choices,if it was possible to somehow add that into the conversation, so I would be clear that I don't engage in anything that is constituted as deceitful.
How do you manage a situation like that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a widow and still wear my wedding ring but I take it off now before I go on vanilla nights out as I get far more male attention without than when I am wearing it."
Ring or no ring I think I’d have to say hi if we were in the same place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd assume that in the vast majority of cases a wedding ring means that person is in a monogamous relationship as far as at least one partner was concerned. "
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"I'd assume that in the vast majority of cases a wedding ring means that person is in a monogamous relationship as far as at least one partner was concerned. "
Yep this.
A wedding ring to me means they are off limits and I would expect people to treat mine the same way.
Just because me n hubby aren't monogamous doesn't mean I can chat up/flirt with anyone and think that it's ok to do so. |
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"If you see somebody who you are attracted to in a non lifestyle venue, if they are wearing your wedding ring does that make you feel that they are sexually unapproachable, or unobtainable.
Does it make you think that they are already in a committed monogamous relationship, and any more than social interaction with you would constitute an affair?
Or do you feel possibly they could be into the lifestyle and it is not disrespectful approach regardless?
Wearing a wedding ring be a red flag to you, if they approached you and made a move?
In a situation like that, I would be quite open about my lifestyle choices,if it was possible to somehow add that into the conversation, so I would be clear that I don't engage in anything that is constituted as deceitful.
How do you manage a situation like that?"
"Wearing your wedding ring"?
Then its certainly off limits for me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would still talk to her if she had a wedding ring on. I would be less flirty and more friendly. I just like talking to people.
If she flirted back, then the wedding ring wouldn’t bother me or hold me back.
Is my honest, and probably unpopular answer |
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