i know this will be a little touchy for some, but, we have stopped counting phone and cam verified people as genuine, as it would seem most are just interested in just that, happy to have sex talk txt sex and cam sex, not for us, and some get upset when we tell them sorry phone does not verify a swinger and refuse to give 1, as we state we only want gen mmeets and refuse to chat on phone or cam  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A verification is to say that this person is genuine, and to me putting on a cam in a chatroom and seeing them is good enough till they get a meet under their belt.
I know many swingers who started out with a cam veri then removed it once they had an actual meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I sometimes cam..very rarely...but it is a tool that can be used to verify an identity at least...it means nothing for meets
phone veris hold even less appeal
but IN combination of the other verifications, cam,phone,meets on a profile are good for me...but phone,webcam,phone,webcam cont. are pish... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with being on cam, I do use it to verify myself in thr sense that I am who I say I am, but I have never given a cam veri and would never give one...... |
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To be perfectly honest I don't read anything into verifications whatsoever. I most likely won't know the person who left it, so how can I know whether I trust their judgement or not?
I find it much more fun to trust my own gut instincts. I've only got myself to blame then if something's not right. |
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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago
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MEET Veris are useful for one thing only - "they turned up". Everything else reported is subjective and may be different with you or anyone else other than the poster. And endless, social meet veris don't mean a great deal either. ("lovely peeps, shame we didn't get chance to play this time" blah blah. ) Cam and Phone veris mean nothing to us. We prefer the real deal - people who turn up as promised. We ALWAYS (except for some parties hosted by people we trust) meet for a brief coffee or beer with someone new - if they show up for that then you can check you click, and we've never had a no-show for play after one of these went well.
If they don't show for the social (no one ever has for us, touch wood!) then you've wasted an hour and had a coffee or beer. We tend not to go more than 30 mins away for the first meet either.
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but i agree phone doesnt verifiy you at all could be anybody on the phone? 