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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Went out to a pub tonight which I dont often do and realised how easy it is to meet women who actually want to have sex, as opposed to the amazing amount of time wasted on here trying to engage women without much result. So what I have realised is I need to find a guy or guys on here in the same boat as me, and go out together and start winning (cant do this with my usual friends for obvious reasons). Anybody other "single" guys come to this conclusion?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just out of curiosity, why do you persist with fab' if you're drowning in pussy out there in the real world?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

No wrong idea, not drowning in pussy, at least not yet. What I said is, that I would probably be better off finding a like minded man on here and getting out into the real world to hook up with the women who are actually out there and looking too, in a much more equal environment. I have had quite a lot of meets on fab over the years, but it seems to be getting more and more difficult.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Quite a few men say this. I can't see a problem with trying to meet women in the "real" world and through fab. The wider you cast your net the more likely you are to catch a fish .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've been telling guys who message me that for years haha and I'm not a guy. Only now you've had the epiphany?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Didnt realise quite how easy it was

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why can't you go out with your mates on the pull though? It's not like they need to know about fab, as it's not like you'd be meeting off here, by going out.... Or is there another reason you can't?....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why can't you go out with your mates on the pull though? It's not like they need to know about fab, as it's not like you'd be meeting off here, by going out.... Or is there another reason you can't?.... "

lol, yes.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Guys have been meeting women in pubs and bars for centuries.

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots

I found paul in a coffee shop.....nothing wrong with the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just goes to show how hung up we have all become on the internet as a place to meet. There is a real world out there! The old-fashioned ways of meeting are often the best.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fab is a great place for being upfront about kinks etc. I never quite got why people used it as a find a fuck site....

Have fun OP !

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales


"Went out to a pub tonight which I dont often do and realised how easy it is to meet women who actually want to have sex, as opposed to the amazing amount of time wasted on here trying to engage women without much result. So what I have realised is I need to find a guy or guys on here in the same boat as me, and go out together and start winning (cant do this with my usual friends for obvious reasons). Anybody other "single" guys come to this conclusion?"

Of course you can. It's much easier in real life because people get to see and meet all of you.

Compare that to what most single blokes have on here - A couple of photos (usually no face) and a bit of blurb.

For single guys especially Fab is essentially tens of thousands of them trying to attract women through the hardest channel possible. An analogy would be a pub full of men wearing hoods with their cocks out trying to compete over 5 single women.

If you are a bit of a charmer, and are good looking and with a twinkle in your eye, the real world is easily going to deliver better results.

Not so much if you're a fuggly or have zero personality. But guys like that are knackered on here as well.

If you can pull in the real world I'd use Fab just as a way to try and explore your naughtier fantasies anonymously.

Single blokes using Fab as their only lifeline really are doing it the hardest way possible.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Single blokes using Fab as their only lifeline really are doing it the hardest way possible."

Ain't that the truth. It doesn't take a Maths PhD to work out that going somewhere where the guys outnumber the girls like 15 to 1 or whatever the ratio is, probably isn't going to work if all you want is to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread is as someone suggested earlier very true to modern day life.

Interaction between humans has swung towards a virtual world where it’s harder to gage a persons characteristics, a cheeky smile or just that little something that can’t be seen in a couple of pictures and a few lines of words.

But for some reason we still hide behind a screen. Probably down to laziness and ease but there’s nothing quite like getting dressed up and going out into the “real world” and meeting people. I wonder in the future if this will die out completely.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lucky you !That's you sorted ! Why you want to take more guys ? More competition!

I honestly only chatted with people in pubs . When I go out is too dance ! And to observe all this d*unken peeps making fool of themselves!

If you have pussy at your description get yourself out more !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread is as someone suggested earlier very true to modern day life.

Interaction between humans has swung towards a virtual world where it’s harder to gage a persons characteristics, a cheeky smile or just that little something that can’t be seen in a couple of pictures and a few lines of words.

But for some reason we still hide behind a screen. Probably down to laziness and ease but there’s nothing quite like getting dressed up and going out into the “real world” and meeting people. I wonder in the future if this will die out completely. "

God I sincerely hope not! I am waiting for a "real life" backlash against the virtual world

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

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"This thread is as someone suggested earlier very true to modern day life.

Interaction between humans has swung towards a virtual world where it’s harder to gage a persons characteristics, a cheeky smile or just that little something that can’t be seen in a couple of pictures and a few lines of words.

But for some reason we still hide behind a screen. Probably down to laziness and ease but there’s nothing quite like getting dressed up and going out into the “real world” and meeting people. I wonder in the future if this will die out completely.

God I sincerely hope not! I am waiting for a "real life" backlash against the virtual world "

Me too....i am starting to see small changes in people supporting local businesses and it's certainly busy when we go out but there needs to be a massive change to get people, especially younger folk, off the web and into the real world.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Lucky you !That's you sorted ! Why you want to take more guys ? More competition!

I honestly only chatted with people in pubs . When I go out is too dance ! And to observe all this d*unken peeps making fool of themselves!

If you have pussy at your description get yourself out more !!!!"

Its much easier going out with another person, especially if they are of like mind. But I was pleasantly surprised how easy it was to meet and chat to strangers

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By *lik and PaulCouple  over a year ago

cahoots


"Lucky you !That's you sorted ! Why you want to take more guys ? More competition!

I honestly only chatted with people in pubs . When I go out is too dance ! And to observe all this d*unken peeps making fool of themselves!

If you have pussy at your description get yourself out more !!!!

Its much easier going out with another person, especially if they are of like mind. But I was pleasantly surprised how easy it was to meet and chat to strangers"

Seriously???....people talk to each other all the time....am I missing something here or do people not communicate with others when they go out...surely not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Lucky you !That's you sorted ! Why you want to take more guys ? More competition!

I honestly only chatted with people in pubs . When I go out is too dance ! And to observe all this d*unken peeps making fool of themselves!

If you have pussy at your description get yourself out more !!!!

Its much easier going out with another person, especially if they are of like mind. But I was pleasantly surprised how easy it was to meet and chat to strangers

Seriously???....people talk to each other all the time....am I missing something here or do people not communicate with others when they go out...surely not."

Just much easier than I remember from when I was younger

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Lucky you !That's you sorted ! Why you want to take more guys ? More competition!

I honestly only chatted with people in pubs . When I go out is too dance ! And to observe all this d*unken peeps making fool of themselves!

If you have pussy at your description get yourself out more !!!!

Its much easier going out with another person, especially if they are of like mind. But I was pleasantly surprised how easy it was to meet and chat to strangers

Seriously???....people talk to each other all the time....am I missing something here or do people not communicate with others when they go out...surely not.

Just much easier than I remember from when I was younger"

It is much easier now because it’s not the be all and end all that it would have been 25 - 30 years ago mate . Add to this the fact that you have all those miles under your belt now , which will no doubt have taught you a whole lot about life , and it’s bound to be easier .

We often go to a busy pub and my wife will invariably pull after chatting with a few people over the evening . It’s actually not that uncommon for me to get some attention too ( there’s hope for you all ! ) .

I think this is a great post to open people’s eyes to the fact that fab is by no means the be all and end all for anyone if they open up to other avenues

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread is as someone suggested earlier very true to modern day life.

Interaction between humans has swung towards a virtual world where it’s harder to gage a persons characteristics, a cheeky smile or just that little something that can’t be seen in a couple of pictures and a few lines of words.

But for some reason we still hide behind a screen. Probably down to laziness and ease but there’s nothing quite like getting dressed up and going out into the “real world” and meeting people. I wonder in the future if this will die out completely.

God I sincerely hope not! I am waiting for a "real life" backlash against the virtual world "

I am like most of us guilty for over using the web just to pass time. It’s become a habit due to living by myself and having a group of friends that are all paired up, but last week I was on a stag do abroad and didn’t have my phone the whole time I was there. Can’t remember the last time I laughed and joked around as much.

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By *olliPineCouple  over a year ago

swingers clubs


"Went out to a pub tonight which I dont often do and realised how easy it is to meet women who actually want to have sex, as opposed to the amazing amount of time wasted on here trying to engage women without much result. So what I have realised is I need to find a guy or guys on here in the same boat as me, and go out together and start winning (cant do this with my usual friends for obvious reasons). Anybody other "single" guys come to this conclusion?"

Yep, this is why we don't try to arrange meets on here. We simply advertise our attendance at swingers clubs to meet and fuck there

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan  over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"Lucky you !That's you sorted ! Why you want to take more guys ? More competition!

I honestly only chatted with people in pubs . When I go out is too dance ! And to observe all this d*unken peeps making fool of themselves!

If you have pussy at your description get yourself out more !!!!"

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Quite a few men say this. I can't see a problem with trying to meet women in the "real" world and through fab. The wider you cast your net the more likely you are to catch a fish .

"

Good point, fishing in more than one place like; ponds, rivers, streams, lakes and when you've exhausted those options, there's still Plenty Of Fish... in the sea

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