FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Would you be hurt by a guy who didn't want to have sex when he met you in hotel room?
Would you be hurt by a guy who didn't want to have sex when he met you in hotel room?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
After arranging to meet a guy and us three splitting cost we turned up to the room (after a previous successful social) only for the guy to say he didn't want any penetrative sex - only mutual oral?
He simply said it wasn't his thing when we asked him but was happy to share a drink with us! In the ended we just had drinks and he left fairly happy.
Anyone had this before? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ita7Man
over a year ago
Kettering |
Had a cpl turn up for a meet in a barn. Three of us waited an hour after the agreed time until.they turned up. She got out of car took one look at the place & announced she didn't like it. We would have gone through with meet but we all breathed a such of relief because she wasn't the most attractive of women. Nothing like her profile pics. Maybe she thought it should have been an expensive barn conversion!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I presume he never discussed this with you prior to the social or play meet?
I don't think it's on if its not been agreed previously .He met you socially so if there was no attraction,surely he wouldn't have met you for more? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
strange one ........
unusual for a fella to decline
maybe he had erection issues , wife texted him , or nerves ,or bottle went , or saw someone he knew , or had another meet , or .............
i wouldnt take it personally for sure , |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago
Southend |
I guess he just likes soft swing then? Wouldn't have said it was anything to get upset about but if penetrative sex is that important to you then probably better to mention it upfront just in case? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
were you dressed to please , ie similar to the social
stockings etc ?
i had a meet once , social she wore a dress and stockings , when we met for fun , she wore jeans and a t shirt .....i wasnt anywhere as near excited for the meet as i was at the social |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"strange one ........
unusual for a fella to decline
maybe he had erection issues , wife texted him , or nerves ,or bottle went , or saw someone he knew , or had another meet , or .............
i wouldnt take it personally for sure ,"
All these scenarios crossed our minds but we ended up having a great night anyway. We reckoned the guy was just too nervous! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
