Hi everyone, we came into this lifestyle a few years ago. We said from the start that we just wanted to watch and be watched and we wouldnt ever do anything with anyone else, It didnt happen like that though haha
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over a year ago
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When I came on here I was looking for one thing from a crowd of people willing to do anything. I now realise I'm willing to do anything but looking at a crowd of people who don't want to do even one thing with me  |
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We started off with a huge list of no no’s , which gradually ( well not so gradually ) got smaller and smaller .
Now there’s just two things we won’t do and that’s bareback and anal . Pretty much anything else is a possibility or something we’ve done and would do again . |
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Think when new people come on here, they are looking for their unicorns. You have an idea of how they will look, their physique, their spelling habits.. (sorry in advance) their preferences, and their attitudes.
Then over time they either leave disappointed, or realise that they set some unrealistic standards.
Turning down someone that meets 7/10 of their want lists, yet maybe stumbling accross a 4/10 that happened to click and turned into one of their best meets.
You can stumble across someone, in say a pub. Initially you think - hmm ok, not great but not bad. Within half an hour you are - we need to get a room somewhere. There is just a connection.
I think online, you are more likely to want everything in place before a meet, and apart from takig out the spontaneity of a meet, it also can set it up for a bigger fall if it doesn't meet woth expectations..
I've forgotten what the question was now...
Ohh, and a good memory helps as well... |
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I was like a kid in a candy shop, when i initially joined, 5 years ago. Private Parties, swinging clubs, threesomes etc. Now I'm a boring old fart who rarely meets  |
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We didn't so much have rules, more that we wouldn't do things that we hadn't discussed in a lot of detail first. We're still not exactly throwing caution to the wind but we will try things out on the spur of the moment.
I think we've built up enough trust together that we know the other can call a stop to things if it gets uncomfortable.
I suppose one rule we've broken is that we were never interested in single guys. Now they seem to feature in our club visits as much as couples  I don't think we'll venture all the way to full swap territory but soft play is proving to be a lot of fun Watching Steph wanking two cocks is quite the sight to behold |
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thats meant as a compliment by the way haha