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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have had this happen to me at a couple of meets. When the lady doesn't like to kiss at a meet but just wants sex. Im quite passionate so i enjoy the kissing eliment as much as the sex so it's extremely difficult to have one without the other. I wonder if others have experienced this too??. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the person.
I love kissing but I don't mind not kissing if I am only physically attracted to that person.
However, if I am facially and intellectually attracted by that person, I would love to be able to kiss her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tried that rule.
First meet upon setting the rule and Mrs MP broke it so scrapped it.
In fairness it's part of the fun.
To us without it, it all just seems clinical. |
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We have on our profile that neither of us kiss our casual partners passionately. It makes us easy to avoid. Neither of us is cold, clinical, passionless, like a prostitute, afraid of intimacy, jealous or any of the other things we've been called over the years by people who've never met us  |
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Kissing is a very important part of sex for me personally, but I've never had the shoe on the other foot (ie: been in a swinging couple) but I can understand people wanting to "save" something for themselves, and I don't see the idea of letting someone perform oral on you but not kiss you as ironic either like some folks seem to.
I dont imagine its an intimacy issue, as having someone inside you is pretty intimate! |
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"I can play without kissing..... I’m more into kink then sensuality..."
Yes I think that is a big factor with us. Although a tender kiss on the neck can be very erotic when you're completely helpless. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Women's point of view..
I personally can't have sex with someone if kissing isn't involved. Very passionate women and find kissing such a turn on... "
I'm a very passionate woman but I reserve the right to kiss who I want to kiss and when I want to kiss them. I swing to fulfill my fantasies, and kissing doesn't loom large in those fantasies. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Whilst I absolutely respect everyone's right to their preferences and even understand why some people prefer not to kiss - it's not for me, happened with the first couple we played with and felt distinctly odd - but then I absolutely adore kissing with the right person and get incredibly turned on by it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get claustrophobic so hate the idea of a stranger trying to eat my face but if it's someone I've got to know and I get a good feeling about them I'm not adverse to kissing....and sometimes it's the only way to get someone to shut the f*ck up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mixed feelings about this. Kissing to me, as in full on snogging, is way more intimate than sex. Weird as that might sound. I have to fancy someone a lot more to snog them than I do to have sex with them. Also I need to feel much more safe and relaxed, as it has a vulnerability all of its own.
I love kissing when it feels right, but I wouldn't turn down a "no kissing" meet and as a rule I'm indifferent to it.
Also as mentioned earlier, snogging a man is often a very different experience compared to a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we meet guys i prefer not to kiss them and i definetely dont want the guys to kiss each other (thank goodness g agrees with this).
We only do soft swing anyway so full sex and kissing is saved to be between g and i |
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"I have had this happen to me at a couple of meets. When the lady doesn't like to kiss at a meet but just wants sex. Im quite passionate so i enjoy the kissing eliment as much as the sex so it's extremely difficult to have one without the other. I wonder if others have experienced this too??."
We won’t meet people who don’t kiss |
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