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Is sexual compatibility enough?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?! 
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking someone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?!  What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not enough, I was very sexually compatible with my former FWB but he complained about the dust on my stairs. I,m not sure why he complained about the dust, he was meant to be getting upstairs to take her trousers off at the time XXX |
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"It's not enough, I was very sexually compatible with my former FWB but he complained about the dust on my stairs. I,m not sure why he complained about the dust, he was meant to be getting upstairs to take her trousers off at the time XXX"
My LTP doesn't bat an eyelid when he walks into my bombsite of a house. The sex is absolutely perfect too, so I'm glad I don't have to deep clean before he comes. |
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking gsomeone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think? "
It depends what you want .
Me and my wife are totally compatible sexually , and have some very similar interests and hobbies . But she eats meat and I’m vegetarian, and she’s twenty years younger than I am .
I’m generally very lazy and have an old fashioned way about me . She’s non stop and will do anything to please me . Her happiness comes from making me happy .
She does the school run every morning and works , I don’t , I stay in bed till 11 and don’t work .
She does most of the cooking and cleaning , I don’t do much .
So as I say It depends what you want and what might make you happy  |
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking someone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think? "
I think everything you mentioned is secondary, or thirdary and fourthary to values. It's the unusual circumstances that test a relationship and how a person acts when they are outside their routine and comfort zone are largely determined by their values. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking gsomeone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
It depends what you want .
Me and my wife are totally compatible sexually , and have some very similar interests and hobbies . But she eats meat and I’m vegetarian, and she’s twenty years younger than I am .
I’m generally very lazy and have an old fashioned way about me . She’s non stop and will do anything to please me . Her happiness comes from making me happy .
She does the school run every morning and works , I don’t , I stay in bed till 11 and don’t work .
She does most of the cooking and cleaning , I don’t do much .
So as I say It depends what you want and what might make you happy "
Damn dude! You really lucked out didn't you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking someone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
I think everything you mentioned is secondary, or thirdary and fourthary to values. It's the unusual circumstances that test a relationship and how a person acts when they are outside their routine and comfort zone are largely determined by their values. "
Yes  There's a lovely kindness about her and a compassion (err are they different?  ). Well anyway. That's something more deeply attractive than all the other cultural artefacts. But still... being soooo different on so many levels from someone... I can't imagine it working out long term. I'd like to think we'll stay friends though |
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking someone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
I think everything you mentioned is secondary, or thirdary and fourthary to values. It's the unusual circumstances that test a relationship and how a person acts when they are outside their routine and comfort zone are largely determined by their values.
Yes There's a lovely kindness about her and a compassion (err are they different? ). Well anyway. That's something more deeply attractive than all the other cultural artefacts. But still... being soooo different on so many levels from someone... I can't imagine it working out long term. I'd like to think we'll stay friends though "
Just stick to pounding that vag |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking someone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
I think everything you mentioned is secondary, or thirdary and fourthary to values. It's the unusual circumstances that test a relationship and how a person acts when they are outside their routine and comfort zone are largely determined by their values.
Yes There's a lovely kindness about her and a compassion (err are they different? ). Well anyway. That's something more deeply attractive than all the other cultural artefacts. But still... being soooo different on so many levels from someone... I can't imagine it working out long term. I'd like to think we'll stay friends though
Just stick to pounding that vag "
It's a very very hungry pussy. I had to wake up to feed it 4 times last night  But she was smiling this morning |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think being sexually compatible is the main thing on my agenda now... looking back now I just enjoyed sex... but to have since experienced sex on a whole new level I wouldn’t settle now. It’s a great basis to build on... I think the question is what if you find that person who you have a connection.. spark and potential of the best sex ever with.. especially if timing isn’t great... do you just enjoy the sex as and when you can.. enjoy the ride have fun and see what happens.. do you keep looking and keep options open...see who comes into your life next? Who knows... answers on a self addressed enevelope please!! "
I think all you can say is "is it enough for me today?". If the answer is yes then there's no need to carry on looking. Stop and invest yourself perhaps. If not then carry on looking but keep checking back in with yourself in case your feelings change |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking someone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think? "
Perfect to start or base a sexual relationship on.
Its a good start for a marriage but there are also many other important things to consider in a marriage or partnership than just sex
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking gsomeone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
It depends what you want .
Me and my wife are totally compatible sexually , and have some very similar interests and hobbies . But she eats meat and I’m vegetarian, and she’s twenty years younger than I am .
I’m generally very lazy and have an old fashioned way about me . She’s non stop and will do anything to please me . Her happiness comes from making me happy .
She does the school run every morning and works , I don’t , I stay in bed till 11 and don’t work .
She does most of the cooking and cleaning , I don’t do much .
So as I say It depends what you want and what might make you happy "
That annoyed me reading that x |
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking gsomeone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
It depends what you want .
Me and my wife are totally compatible sexually , and have some very similar interests and hobbies . But she eats meat and I’m vegetarian, and she’s twenty years younger than I am .
I’m generally very lazy and have an old fashioned way about me . She’s non stop and will do anything to please me . Her happiness comes from making me happy .
She does the school run every morning and works , I don’t , I stay in bed till 11 and don’t work .
She does most of the cooking and cleaning , I don’t do much .
So as I say It depends what you want and what might make you happy
That annoyed me reading that x"
Why ? |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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For me for a relationship to ever work I firstly need a sexual attraction without this its a non starter.
If the sex is great and he makes my heart miss a beat if we have some interest in common (think its important to have hobbies outside each other also) then yes it could work.
Just an attraction I would say no as that relationship normally has no longevity for me as I would get bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a FB for a year. We had really good sex but that was it. He was not at all attractive to me in a romantic sense and we would have ended up killing each other had we dated.
So as a basis then no, it's not enough. I want so much more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and...
Oi! I’m a special kind of weird, not single woman weird.
You’re allowed to be as you look good naked
Ta. "
Glad to see this has been resolved.  I took my little boy to a monkey sanctuary the other day. About half way through I suddenly realised that the monkeys were much more normal than the people visiting Cripes us brits can be like one huge Jeremy Kyle show
My last date tried to convert me to Jesus as well as warning me of demonic possession if I did Yoga. I just had to take a break after that. There's only so much nuts a man can take in any given day. And the fab forums usually fill my daily quota |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking gsomeone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
It depends what you want .
Me and my wife are totally compatible sexually , and have some very similar interests and hobbies . But she eats meat and I’m vegetarian, and she’s twenty years younger than I am .
I’m generally very lazy and have an old fashioned way about me . She’s non stop and will do anything to please me . Her happiness comes from making me happy .
She does the school run every morning and works , I don’t , I stay in bed till 11 and don’t work .
She does most of the cooking and cleaning , I don’t do much .
So as I say It depends what you want and what might make you happy
That annoyed me reading that x
Why ? "
Dunno....just the blazey wife does everything to please me....I do hee haw with a big smug smiley face at the end lol x |
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"I've taken a break from dating because A) single women are a bunch of weirdos and B) one of the women I dated likes fucking me silly. She's moving away in a few weeks time. So I decided to cancel all my dating apps and just enjoy her for as long as I've got.
I'm sitting here smiling after yet another all night sexathon. There is no doubt... we fuck well. We are, as the headline says, "sexually compatible". We're also, of course, compatible personality wise. So we like each other. But beyond that I'm scratching my head to think about what we have in common. I mean we even disagree on food?!
I often read on Fab about people who are seeking gsomeone sexually compatible and that this is either a good starting point for a relationship or is enough to base a relationship off. Really?! What do you think?
It depends what you want .
Me and my wife are totally compatible sexually , and have some very similar interests and hobbies . But she eats meat and I’m vegetarian, and she’s twenty years younger than I am .
I’m generally very lazy and have an old fashioned way about me . She’s non stop and will do anything to please me . Her happiness comes from making me happy .
She does the school run every morning and works , I don’t , I stay in bed till 11 and don’t work .
She does most of the cooking and cleaning , I don’t do much .
So as I say It depends what you want and what might make you happy
That annoyed me reading that x
Why ?
Dunno....just the blazey wife does everything to please me....I do hee haw with a big smug smiley face at the end lol x"
It wasn’t meant to be smug , just happy . And I am , so is my wife .
I was poorly in January ( a heart attack ) ,and haven’t been able to do anywhere near as much as I did . I don’t work now because I don’t need to , but I may go back at some point .
My point was that we are happy and the sex was what started our journey eight years ago . Everything else , including our differences , has just slotted into place . |
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