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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey,
I understand that it’s rare to come across someone of my age on this site. I’m just wondering if anyone similar is out there (both male and female) and how you juggle studying around swinging?
Although it is exam season, the temptation is too much to handle and I’ve already had to give in three times in my planned 5 week break.
Lucie |
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There are a few guys your age but (I think) fewer women.
Fitting meets round studying is probably similar to fitting it around work. You will have a certain amount of flexibility as I imagine you don't have to attend lectures while exams are going on. Frequent rest breaks are recommended while studying anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on here whilst in my second year and it was great fun  admittedly, my mind strayed away from my revision to meets sometimes lol.
Tbh it was no different than now; you juggle it around your life so you can be satisfied the most without comprising your social/work life |
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A friend of ours is on here and is a student. She had the same concerns about 'giving in' to her urges to meet whilst studying. The advice we gave her was to not ban herself from meeting.
Instead we suggested she build it into her study planner just the same as any other relaxing thing like going for a run or hanging out with friends.
She now allows herself two meets a week but only if she's reached her study goals by that point. The meets have to be over by around 11 so she doesn't get too tired the next day. It motivates her to study and let's her blow off some steam. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A friend of ours is on here and is a student. She had the same concerns about 'giving in' to her urges to meet whilst studying. The advice we gave her was to not ban herself from meeting.
Instead we suggested she build it into her study planner just the same as any other relaxing thing like going for a run or hanging out with friends.
She now allows herself two meets a week but only if she's reached her study goals by that point. The meets have to be over by around 11 so she doesn't get too tired the next day. It motivates her to study and let's her blow off some steam. "
Awesome idea thank you!
I’ve always been concerned about the tiredness factor afterwards I think so it’s made me try to avoid meets but that’s too extreme for me I think |
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If it's something that you know
You're going to be pining for anyway then it makes no sense to try and just go cold turkey. If you can't do 'bedtime' meets, maybe look to just meet on weekends? Or when you know you can have an easy morning?
Another tip could be to just meet guys you know you get on well with? So you don't have any post-meet drama buzzing around your head?
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By *lowhands7Man
over a year ago
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"Hey,
I understand that it’s rare to come across someone of my age on this site. I’m just wondering if anyone similar is out there (both male and female) and how you juggle studying around swinging?
Although it is exam season, the temptation is too much to handle and I’ve already had to give in three times in my planned 5 week break.
Lucie "
I love the fact you are revising the subject x |
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"Hey,
I understand that it’s rare to come across someone of my age on this site. I’m just wondering if anyone similar is out there (both male and female) and how you juggle studying around swinging?
Although it is exam season, the temptation is too much to handle and I’ve already had to give in three times in my planned 5 week break.
Lucie "
We met a few student swingingers from university close to us .. but some of them lacked patience
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A friend of ours is on here and is a student. She had the same concerns about 'giving in' to her urges to meet whilst studying. The advice we gave her was to not ban herself from meeting.
Instead we suggested she build it into her study planner just the same as any other relaxing thing like going for a run or hanging out with friends.
She now allows herself two meets a week but only if she's reached her study goals by that point. The meets have to be over by around 11 so she doesn't get too tired the next day. It motivates her to study and let's her blow off some steam. "
I love you guys. You’re like the swinging gurus 
I managebeing a mature student, a family and nursing placements with my desire to swing. It’s all about balance you can do this! Just make sure you build in enough time to rest and you’ll be absolutely fine xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a mature student i have managed to balance 6 yrs of studying with the OU with being on here..
Granted its been from home rather than a brick uni so has been easier for me as i can only do daytime meets... i will be graduating this year though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a mature student i have managed to balance 6 yrs of studying with the OU with being on here..
Granted its been from home rather than a brick uni so has been easier for me as i can only do daytime meets... i will be graduating this year though "
Congrats!!!
Unfortunately I’m about to start my degree but I’m still living at home and don’t drive which makes things 10x harder. Trying to fit things into my routine sometimes isn’t possible |
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Ah there are plenty of horny teenagers around, although a lot of them tend to get scared off fairly quickly by the deluge of messages from single guys.
I'm currently meeting a uni student on a semi-regular basis and through exam season she just restricts herself to a couple of short and sweet meets a week. She can get the train to my place, or I book a room near her, and we have no more than an hour of great sex. It's a couple of hours max out of her day and she feels relaxed and ready to concentrate again.
As everyone else has said, if you are disciplined you should be able to plan some down-time in to your revision schedule. Just don't get carried away
Good luck with your exams! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be on here under a different profile when I was a student. It’s fair to say I didn’t juggle it well at all as I dropped a classification lol.
I wonder sometimes if I hadn’t joined and achieved the first I was on track for, would that have made a difference in my life/career. Not a lot I think so I have no regrets, I met great people and had an amazing time. ))
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Tried doing an exam and then followed wed by a celebratory fuck with three guys today.
My advice is, if you know that after exams you need to rest, do this rather than rewarding yourself with a fuck. You’ll only come away disappointed that you didn’t live up to your usual standards
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was a student when I joined, i’ve Just finished all my exams luckily. But I found time to get a 1-2 meets. That’s all though so far. Hopefully more to come now I’ve finished! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was a student when I joined, i’ve Just finished all my exams luckily. But I found time to get a 1-2 meets. That’s all though so far. Hopefully more to come now I’ve finished! "
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We're both students and love swinging
Studies has to come first though, which can lead to annoyances. If one of us has some deadline coming up they might be unable to meet for a week and this can annoy some people on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're both students and love swinging
Studies has to come first though, which can lead to annoyances. If one of us has some deadline coming up they might be unable to meet for a week and this can annoy some people on here."
I’ve had the same thing.
Because it seems that most are from an older age demographic, there’s a lack of understanding of when we can be free to meet around studies. For some, it doesn’t sink in and they’ll keep coming back to pester and won’t take no for an answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're both students and love swinging
Studies has to come first though, which can lead to annoyances. If one of us has some deadline coming up they might be unable to meet for a week and this can annoy some people on here.
I’ve had the same thing.
Because it seems that most are from an older age demographic, there’s a lack of understanding of when we can be free to meet around studies. For some, it doesn’t sink in and they’ll keep coming back to pester and won’t take no for an answer"
I’m guessing this has nothing to do with a lack of understanding about studies. Just a lack of understanding about life.
Have a job ? People still want day meets
Have kids? People still want last minute meets.
Can’t travel ? People still message you from 300 miles away
It’s as though a lot of people (*cough, men*) are daft as a brush/ignorant/a bit creepy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I’m guessing this has nothing to do with a lack of understanding about studies. Just a lack of understanding about life.
Have a job ? People still want day meets
Have kids? People still want last minute meets.
Can’t travel ? People still message you from 300 miles away
It’s as though a lot of people (*cough, men*) are daft as a brush/ignorant/a bit creepy
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I guess it could apply to all situations but for me I meant exams. I’ve had so many messages that I decided to try and cut them by putting I couldn’t meet due to exams on my status yet so many continued to prod to get a meet out of me |
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"We're both students and love swinging
Studies has to come first though, which can lead to annoyances. If one of us has some deadline coming up they might be unable to meet for a week and this can annoy some people on here.
I’ve had the same thing.
Because it seems that most are from an older age demographic, there’s a lack of understanding of when we can be free to meet around studies. For some, it doesn’t sink in and they’ll keep coming back to pester and won’t take no for an answer"
You're eighteen and interested in fucking older men.
You're like gold dust on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I’m guessing this has nothing to do with a lack of understanding about studies. Just a lack of understanding about life.
Have a job ? People still want day meets
Have kids? People still want last minute meets.
Can’t travel ? People still message you from 300 miles away
It’s as though a lot of people (*cough, men*) are daft as a brush/ignorant/a bit creepy
I guess it could apply to all situations but for me I meant exams. I’ve had so many messages that I decided to try and cut them by putting I couldn’t meet due to exams on my status yet so many continued to prod to get a meet out of me"
It’s annoying, eh ? I suspect even if you put it on a picture (because let’s face it, most men only get that far) you’d still get messaged as we all think we’re the exception you will break your rule for !
If you really wanna reduce the messages during exam period which up your message filters.
Actually as an 18yo here you’re as rare as dicks teeth. May be worthwhile doing that anyway ! |
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