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Yes. I dated a former model who was working as an escort to pay her way though university. I didn't know she was at the time. She lived about 150 miles from me so saw her infrequently for about three months. I was 24 at the time and dropped her like a hot potato when i found out - a decision that still embarasses me to this day  |
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"Yes. I dated a former model who was working as an escort to pay her way though university. I didn't know she was at the time. She lived about 150 miles from me so saw her infrequently for about three months. I was 24 at the time and dropped her like a hot potato when i found out - a decision that still embarasses me to this day "
Not sure why it embarrasses you. Most people would think a girlfriend is obligated to tell a boyfriend if she is having sex with other men. |
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Not a hooker. I dated a lap dancer years ago who did erotic modeling on the side. She was looking at setting up a website so she did various photo shoots, mostly lesbian but not exclusively.
She also did some porn movies.
So yes she was getting paid to fuck strangers. All be it in front of a camera.
I have to be honest and admit I found it a huge turn on. |
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over a year ago
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"Not a hooker. I dated a lap dancer years ago who did erotic modeling on the side. She was looking at setting up a website so she did various photo shoots, mostly lesbian but not exclusively.
She also did some porn movies.
So yes she was getting paid to fuck strangers. All be it in front of a camera.
I have to be honest and admit I found it a huge turn on."
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I basically got quite upset and told her to fuck off. You're right, of course, she should have told me but I threw my toys out of the pram and that was that. She was a lovely girl, and exceptional shag, but think now that she at least deserved the opportunity to explain her reasons. |
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"I basically got quite upset and told her to fuck off. You're right, of course, she should have told me but I threw my toys out of the pram and that was that. She was a lovely girl, and exceptional shag, but think now that she at least deserved the opportunity to explain her reasons."
In my experience, you wouldn't want to listen to it. People aren't necessarily aware of their real reasons. But the most honest is usually that they like making a lot of money, quickly, without needing qualifications/ experience. |
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Do you mean hire a.few times and then ask out?
"Is it better to be with someone and nurture and support their fantasy of being an escort, or is it best to date someone who is already? If the latter, where do I look?
AW!"
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"Do you mean hire a.few times and then ask out?
Is it better to be with someone and nurture and support their fantasy of being an escort, or is it best to date someone who is already? If the latter, where do I look?
AW!"
That would be my plan if i wanted to date one. I'm not sure of a better way to meet escorts. |
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"I basically got quite upset and told her to fuck off. You're right, of course, she should have told me but I threw my toys out of the pram and that was that. She was a lovely girl, and exceptional shag, but think now that she at least deserved the opportunity to explain her reasons.
In my experience, you wouldn't want to listen to it. People aren't necessarily aware of their real reasons. But the most honest is usually that they like making a lot of money, quickly, without needing qualifications/ experience. "
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
I dated a female escort for about 8 months. It was no different to dating any other woman it was just a job.
There no emotional attachment to any of her clients and the majority just wanted vanilla sex
She was a lovely sweet girl actually and nothing kinky or seedy about her |
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"I dated a female escort for about 8 months. It was no different to dating any other woman it was just a job.
There no emotional attachment to any of her clients and the majority just wanted vanilla sex
She was a lovely sweet girl actually and nothing kinky or seedy about her"
I don't think it's objective to say 'it's no different to any dating anyone else'. I wouldn't say that swinging is a hobby just like any other. They are both major social taboos and you can't pretend that leaves no impact on a person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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The lady I dated loved the cash and the sex . So it was a win win and I found it horny . Happy days . "So why did it end?" I hear you ask . And a very good question indeed . She wanted more from the relationship than I was ever going to give . Thats the honest answer . |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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I had 3 long term partners while I was working.
Obviously since then I've had (and have) several more, including a husband, who know all about my past.
It was a job. It was boring and monotonous, I had very few clients I actively looked forward to seeing. It had little to no impact on my relationships other then I didn't tolerate shit sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We know a lady who retired, at around 45 years old from her 'day job' working for a train operator, to start a new career as an escort.
Her husband knew of and supported her in her new venture. And though she's still in the escort business they're still together and are a very happy loving couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have . "
Unwittingly yes..
I had a meet from here and afterwards I found out she was a full-time hooker with the line "your first one is free".
She is quite open about the fact she uses Fab to generate business and I have reported her numerous times but she is still here. |
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"I have .
Unwittingly yes..
I had a meet from here and afterwards I found out she was a full-time hooker with the line "your first one is free".
She is quite open about the fact she uses Fab to generate business and I have reported her numerous times but she is still here."
That's more a sales technique for soft drinks than a good one for sex!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have .
Unwittingly yes..
I had a meet from here and afterwards I found out she was a full-time hooker with the line "your first one is free".
She is quite open about the fact she uses Fab to generate business and I have reported her numerous times but she is still here."
Why would they kick her off Fab?
We all know sex workers have a life away from working and they need to date also....
Besides if she is giving away freebies, no one is going to put up a fuss...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have .
Unwittingly yes..
I had a meet from here and afterwards I found out she was a full-time hooker with the line "your first one is free".
She is quite open about the fact she uses Fab to generate business and I have reported her numerous times but she is still here.
Why would they kick her off Fab?
We all know sex workers have a life away from working and they need to date also....
Besides if she is giving away freebies, no one is going to put up a fuss...
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