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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

So I am married - happily - I have been with my wife a long time and actually haven’t cheated on her, there’s just one thing that has always made me more horny and enjoy sex more over the years and that’s been cheating. It continues to be a big fantasy of mine (I don’t know why just is)

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m with you! Same situation here! Everyone has fantasies and needs etc.

A lot of people do things which are considered wrong and keep them secret. Cheating isn’t much different!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I understand that discretion is key, but to be fair, there are many married men on here who have full profiles. Even public pictures.... Just ones that won't identify them.

As for the cheating (or the fantasy of it). That is your business. Not mine. We all have our own personal reasons for being on here. You are honest on your profile, which is great. It gives people the option to make a proper, informed decision on whether to meet you or not.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Do you intend cheating on her or is it just chat you're looking for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe you just don't excite your wife enough for her to be a hugely sexually motivated person.

I was in a long term relationship for almost eight years, our sex was very minimum. It was only after we parted ways and I started to explore more and found I enjoyed sex a lot more that I thought.

I also have met two cheating married men during my swinging years, the sex was dull and boring and they remained one hit wonders

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi,I've been married 36 years and never interested in going astray, until 3 years ago.Started seeing a woman at work and after that joined fab.I find it easier to meet women socially than on here.

Downside :I fell for the woman at work and when it stopped I was heartbroken, still speak to her every day.

My wife doesn't know and she likes sex more than me,I always do my duty lol.

Mark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m with you! Same situation here! Everyone has fantasies and needs etc.

A lot of people do things which are considered wrong and keep them secret. Cheating isn’t much different! "

True...everyone does have fantasies and needs but nobody else is obliged to meet them...

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By *ocketman20Man over a year ago

Douglas

My wife and I used to swing together, she stopped due to health reasons. She doesn’t know I still play but I can’t give it up. Absolutely nothing wrong with my sex life at home, it’s just that I love the scene too much.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some interesting comments here

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By *oxladMan over a year ago

WORKSOP

I'm married. I don't get much reaction from messages I send on here. I'm honest to.

I like women as friends, to chat with and have a laugh.

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

Marraige/long term sex used to bore me rigid. I lost interest big time. I don't meet marrieds or chat to them much. I am not interested in their storey. Cheating is not attractive for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Married men just arnt good meets in my opinion. You can spot them a mile off when they turn up. I also don’t agree with cheating. I think you will find your wife is just as bored as you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are very bravo op!! I hope you've got your amour on.

I'm not bothered by anyone's relationship status, it's none of my business.

I'm not here to judge anyone for being on here, live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some fantasies should remain as fantasies as can have disastrous consequences.

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By *ilNdoCouple over a year ago

Liverpool

We've met Married men just socially - not been able to take it further (guilt I don't know?) but to us, if they're cheating - it's their business. We make no connection to them if it goes tits up for them!

I wouldn't delve into their relationship more than I needed to!

But I agree with some women here.

The wife is probably bored rigid the same as them and hopefully getting amazing sex elsewhere!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I judge all married people that fuck around.

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By *iger.10Man over a year ago

Llantrisant

"Maybe you just don't excite your wife enough for her to be a hugely sexually motivated person.

I was in a long term relationship for almost eight years, our sex was very minimum. It was only after we parted ways and I started to explore more and found I enjoyed sex a lot more that I thought.

I also have met two cheating married men during my swinging years, the sex was dull and boring and they remained one hit wonders

Does that also explain the reason there's so many married women on here too...

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Love fucking the wives of cheating men. Better still is in the time after they have been caught and the husband is not getting any. But I find out what they would NEVER do with their husband and do that. Get them to swallow for the first time, a facial or anal. Just love seeing them go back to that cucold husband happy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Haha I wish she was getting great sex from elsewhere we have talked about swinging she’s just not interested at the moment said maybe in years to come...

I wouldn’t say I was bored rigid, the sex is good just not like it’s been for me in the past (I have experience with several partners before her, she only one before me)

I’m not fussed over being judged on this, everyone has their opinion it’s been interesting to read for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP your status won’t suit everyone, but then nobody appeals to everyone on here, so really you’re no different from anyone else

If you’re meeting one on one then I think it’s fair to that person to let them know of your situation so they can make their own decision to meet or not based on the facts. If you venture into clubs people are less likely to be concerned, in my opinion.

As another poster has already said too, you can add more to your profile and perhaps have more luck engaging with people without giving away your identity. That might be a good place to start.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

You will get mixed views on this

I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me.

I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

BTW you don't have to justify why you are here to people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? "

thank you haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage?

thank you haha "

You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are going to be people on here who don’t mind that but lots that do. Guys have a hardish time meeting women on here when they are single so I’m afraid it’s likely your search will take time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lies and cheating can cause such heart ache.

In my opinion it just isn't worth it.

I doubt if the tables were turned and it was your other half doing the same to you behind your back, that you'd feel ok with it.

You'd feel betrayed and hurt.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi op

You will get mixed views on this

I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me.

I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm. "

Is that a small penis?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BTW you don't have to justify why you are here to people

But if you want to, do so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage? "

He's giving an opinion. The Op asked for opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage?

thank you haha

You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. "

It's the emotional part of the deception that is harder for some people to get over - ie the act is forgivable but context isn't.

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Hi op

You will get mixed views on this

I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me.

I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm.

Is that a small penis?

Ha ha typo!

No pics so can't comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi op

You will get mixed views on this

I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me.

I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm.

Is that a small penis?

Ha ha typo!

No pics so can't comment"

Now now let’s not go starting vicious rumours haha I’m all good

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By *lyreelMan over a year ago

King's lynn

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage?

thank you haha

You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating. "

Heard it all now!! We are on a swingers site, meant to be a bit more chilled and easy going and we have this comment!!! Lol. Best you lock me up cos when somebody nearly takes me out with bad driving I could kill them, I am not a murderer though, and when a pretty lady walks past and I turn round to appreciate her bottom in a subtle fashion does not make me anything else apart from someone who appreciates a nice arse!!

Emotions are entirely different to actually doing the deed, I believe.

Glad we are all different though.

OP, do what you want, when you want, with whomever agrees and shares and try to avoid hurting anyone, one life, live it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lies and cheating can cause such heart ache.

In my opinion it just isn't worth it.

I doubt if the tables were turned and it was your other half doing the same to you behind your back, that you'd feel ok with it.

You'd feel betrayed and hurt. "

Fuck, I want you

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By *hunderstruckMan over a year ago

Northampton

People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

That’s not the same lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

What a load of tosh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some fantasies should remain as fantasies as can have disastrous consequences."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi op

You will get mixed views on this

I wouldnt meet someone playing without permission,as I'd hate it done to me.

I can't give profile advice as you haven't specifically asked,but to appeal to people it needs worm.

Is that a small penis?

Ha ha typo!

No pics so can't comment

Now now let’s not go starting vicious rumours haha I’m all good "

If i ever ask a guy his size (normally to even the playing field as I get asked boobage

) - the smaller guys tend to say " dunno, haven't measured, but get no complaints" - my response is that ladies are too polite to complain

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

Some people really do come out with such drivel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

And this logic comes from what planet? You're not cheating on any of those people. Are you deceiving them? Only if they have a right to know about your sexlife, WHICH THEY DON'T!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

Some people really do come out with such drivel

You have to wonder if the guy is trying to justify something... I don't care either way but it does seem like "offence is the best type of defence" kind of stuff.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health.

Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to.

Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you.

A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection.

If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different form of protection with her life partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health.

Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to.

Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you.

A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection.

If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different life partner.

I couldn't resist

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health.

Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to.

Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you.

A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection.

If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different life partner.

I couldn't resist

Its an option.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

In very simple terms I have no intention of having sex with any of those people so they have no requirement to understand my sexual health.

Even if you kick out all morality, the cheated partner is being made to expose themselves to std's that they otherwise would not be exposed to.

Would you find it fair for a sexual partner to hide clear sexual risks from you.

A life partner makes choices such as not using condoms with the one they love as they understand there to be no risk of infection.

If she knew he was having sex with others, even safer sex, she may opt to choose a different life partner.

I couldn't resist

Its an option.

Depends on Op's ego and ambivalence to potential consequences.

The amount of married men who cannot contemplate this is astounding, or that the bored wife is playing away.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Neither of us will knowingly meet married people without their partner. Since we don't know what goes on behind closed doors we don't form negative or positive opinions.

However I find it hugely distasteful and very sad that people discuss their unwitting partner with strangers when that partner has no right of reply. Basically they're saying if she and less frequently he was somehow different I wouldn't need to be here. The responsibility for ones actions rests solely with one and I'd have more respect for those who acknowledged that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage?

thank you haha

You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating.

Emotions are entirely different to actually doing the deed, I believe.

Glad we are all different though.

OP, do what you want, when you want, with whomever agrees and shares and try to avoid hurting anyone, one life, live it.

This is exactly the incorrect idea that most men seem to have about swinging. They just think it's fucking around but it isn't. No emotions? Married men.. I have no words...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So I’m aware that meeting a married man on here is far from every woman’s cup of tea - let me explain myself further..

Me and my wife have an ok sex life, she isn’t a hugely sexually motivated person and never has been.

So it’s a fantasy of mine - but I struggle to get any response from women here to even just chat (I’m aware there’s not much to my profile, obviously discretion is key for me)

Basically I’d just like to hear a wider and differing opinion from the people

If you cared about your wife’s feelings you wouldn’t be on here. Happily married yet you’d do that to her.

Why don’t you put your pitchfork down, pull up a seat and tell us all the ins and outs of this guys marriage?

thank you haha

You claim you haven't cheated on her but you already have by having a profile on a sex site and discussing your sex life with her behind her back. Emotional cheating is still cheating.

Emotions are entirely different to actually doing the deed, I believe.

Glad we are all different though.

OP, do what you want, when you want, with whomever agrees and shares and try to avoid hurting anyone, one life, live it.

This is exactly the incorrect idea that most men seem to have about swinging. They just think it's fucking around but it isn't. No emotions? Married men.. I have no words..."

Lack of emotional intelligence sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've met married men socially. I don't think it's gone as far as playing for the simple fact they can't get out at the times we meet to play.

A guys marital status as far as we're concerned is between them and there conciounce.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

My father knows, my daughter knows an my friends know. They all said the same thing, thought you had to be married to swing lol

An it’s not cheating not telling them. I don’t share a bed with them. When you share a bed with someone an cheat on them an don’t use protection. You’re putting the other person at risk with out their consent. I don’t need my family’s consent to be here!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only issue we have with married men is if there wife doesn't know and then finds out we don't want our names being dragged into but as long your upfront and honest and that goes with anyone it shouldn't be an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

All my friends and family know what I’m into, I still won’t meet a cheater.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

The crayons are sharpened, the crash helmet is polished and the bus is on its way...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its their drama not mine

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"People who criticise married men or women who cheat are you hypocrites?

Do you tell your mum or dad you swing or fuck multiple partners

Do yoy tell your kids or siblings ?

Maybe your best friends or work colleagues?

Are you cheating on them too .

You’re happy to say I won’t meet or sleep with cheaters but unless you tell all your friends and family you swing your just the same .

Come on let’s hear it

Oh my, you’re pretty special, aren’t you? Do you think it’s normal to discuss the specifics of your sex life with these people? Am I cheating on my mum if I don’t text her to let her know I’m having a wee wank? Or, would that just be fucking weird? (Hint; I know the right answer here, but it’s unclear if you do.)

Some of my colleagues don’t know how many Lego sets I own. My brother doesn’t know all of the magazines I read. I haven’t told my employer whether or not I enjoy transsexual pornography. Am I cheating on all of them?

I have actually met women who have been open about their marriage, although only when it’s apparent that the relationship is over and the only thing preventing a divorce is finances or circumstance. But I would never meet a woman who told me I was cheating on my next door neighbour because I didn’t tell them I’d be having someone I met on the internet around for kissy kissy bedroom fun times, for the simple fact that I don’t meet dribbling morons.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'll meet a married guy if he ticked my boxes, after all we'd be in the same boat so to speak.

I do, however, feel it's a shame when people in a relatively new relationship still feel the need to look for extra marital sex on sites like this.

A guy contacted me once to arrange to meet up when he was back from his honeymoon!!

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