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Embarrassing to be a swingers ?
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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago
Bournemouh |
"No. But I don't shout my business from the rooftops either. I'm a private person. "
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"Not embarrassed, just don't want every one knowing about our sex life!  "
This 
But I'm also not a swinger, I just like meeting/talking with like minded people, Oh and I'd also like to be having more sex then the average person on the street |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's to be embarrassed about?
While we don't shout about it, it's no ones business. We're not doing anything ilegal, may be frowned upon but sod em, we enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was ‘outed’ to my family and friends a few years ago, it was a shock but it made life simpler ultimately. I don’t shout about it but I’m not bothered.
I’m an adult and I couldn’t care less what people think of what I do in bed or wherever else, no doubt it’s far more fun than what they’re doing! |
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I didn't share details of my sex life before going to swinger clubs so don't feel the need to do so now. If I found a swinging woman as a partner and she was open about it that is an interesting dilemma to have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel embarrassed be a swingers. ?"
Not at all. In fact the opposite, my sex life is hugely more exciting than the humdrum shite that my vanilla chums have to grin and bear.
Each encounter I have is fresh and can differ wildly, and it's all down to this magnificent hobby of mine! So I'm not embarrassed in the slightest. Rather I'm having an absolute whale of a time and filling my boots! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But I'm also not a swinger, I just like meeting/talking with like minded people, Oh and I'd also like to be having more sex then the average person on the street "
How much sex does the average person on the street have? |
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But I'm also not a swinger, I just like meeting/talking with like minded people, Oh and I'd also like to be having more sex then the average person on the street
How much sex does the average person on the street have?"
Not much before they get arrested... |
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We aren’t embarrassed by it but we keep it separate, home life is also seperate from work life etc. We have bumped into people on here and in clubs, but we are all here for the same reason so it’s not a problem x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone actually asked me the other day if were swingers, having not been to a club for longer that I care to admit, I felt justified in saying no. However; I don't understand how people think they can ask such questions as I'd never dream of asking such intrusive questions about anyone's sex life.
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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I'm not embarrassed but it's not something I share widely. Only a few close friends know (the rest would snigger and smirk ). I don't tell at work (I've got my professional reputation to think of) and I don't tell at Church (they'd fall out of their pews  , and I don't want any tricky debates about adultery) |
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We are incredibly embarrassed to be swingers .
We would far rather not be swingers.
Every time we try to stop , we get dragged back into it as nothing comes close to swinging as far as a hobby we both enjoy goes .
So we will carry on being embarrassed enjoying it fir a while yet I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were outted by a couple at a party who knew a lot of our friends too. They told them we were swingers then the messages started to be sent to other friends as well. Even some customers off daves know but they just ask questions about it and that's it. We would of liked to of kept it quiet but shit happens.
But we are never embarrassed in what we do |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Not embarrassed by it but, as said in previous posts, don't go telling the world about it. We find it best not to flaunt it that's all.
We've never been ones to talk amongst friends about our sex life anyway, so we'll keep it to ourselves.
Some people will understand, some won't. Just like with any sexual preferences. Although not sure the masses are ready to accept it as a mainstream sexual choice (can't foresee there being any swinger pride marches just yet). |
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By *oman wantedCouple
over a year ago
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"We were outted by a couple at a party who knew a lot of our friends too. They told them we were swingers then the messages started to be sent to other friends as well. Even some customers off daves know but they just ask questions about it and that's it. We would of liked to of kept it quiet but shit happens.
That's disgusting treating you like that. Would they out a gay person whos closeted? Just need a time that maybe in 20 years we will be accepted xx
But we are never embarrassed in what we do "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope not embarrassed but I like that I have a secret life that no one knows about...
...it’s a sexy version of Narnia  "
THIS
However, have some very judgy family who would probably disown us if they knew |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
We are not embarrassed about being swingers, but as with sex between ourselves it is not something we normally mention to other people.
But if the subject came up we would not deny being swingers either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not embarrassed by it but, as said in previous posts, don't go telling the world about it. We find it best not to flaunt it that's all.
We've never been ones to talk amongst friends about our sex life anyway, so we'll keep it to ourselves.
Some people will understand, some won't. Just like with any sexual preferences. Although not sure the masses are ready to accept it as a mainstream sexual choice (can't foresee there being any swinger pride marches just yet)."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's to be embarrassed about?
While we don't shout about it, it's no ones business. We're not doing anything ilegal, may be frowned upon but sod em, we enjoy it. "
Totally agree with you on this |
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No I'm pretty open about. Not like rub it in people's faces but honest is asked. Some of the people close to me know and I think a fair few others who know me and my girl have a fair inkling we are. |
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