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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts."
I personally wouldn't go to someones house without several meetings/socials and then only after playing with them at hotels and clubs too. Obviously only then after knowing a lot about them via text/phone calls as well.
I was messagin someone on here a few months ago and my spidey senses where tingling that she was fake/bloke. She wouldn't do a social first and wanted me to go round to her house. I declined. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Definitely not. I don't accommodate anymore either due to previous problems with guys on fab. Always a social in a public place first, if they won't do that, I won't meet them for anything else. |
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We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones. |
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"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones. "
I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty  |
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"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.
I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty "
It wasn't the chimp that was the problem... |
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"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.
I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty
It wasn't the chimp that was the problem..."
Ffs, you're not still going on about the blood on the walls are you  |
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"We always have a social first but that's because I prefer it that way not for reasons of security. We have often met in people's houses and have had a couple of hair raising experiences and a lot of very good ones.
I thought we pre-warned you about our pet chimp... he's going through puberty
It wasn't the chimp that was the problem...
Ffs, you're not still going on about the blood on the walls are you "
All I will say is don't remove your next vict...er I mean meets blindfold. They won't see it then. |
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"If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts."
First of all I would want a copy of their passport, their birth certificate, their driving license, proof of residency I.e. council tax bills and a list of their last big food shop just to see if we are compatible as I may fancy some snacks when I visit. Only after sighting all this will I visit them at their house.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If invited, would you meet in a person's house straight away or do you need to go out and build chemistry through drinks and so on. A part of me thinks that going to a strangers house is nuts.
First of all I would want a copy of their passport, their birth certificate, their driving license, proof of residency I.e. council tax bills and a list of their last big food shop just to see if we are compatible as I may fancy some snacks when I visit. Only after sighting all this will I visit them at their house.
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I'll accept a portion of chips |
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You are simply amazing. Love your pix, sorry just had to tell you that.
P.s - you would make a gorgeous Lampshade... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it funny men are scared to meet a couple or female at their house... Just leave your wallet in the car and don’t except any drinks....
You will be fine....
I was never afraid a person would do anything nefarious to me in their home.
I was more worried about if their house was clean... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive met in strangers houses
just use your judgement , all mine were fine"
Exactly, we’ve had no problems at all so far. Although we always have a social meet in public first. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I have done. But I never rush into a meet and I don't do socials. I implicitly trust my instincts."
This - if I don’t like the feel of someone I wouldn’t arrange a meet, by the time I meet I already know I like them and it’s always worked out great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it a couple of times and it's been really very good.
I've also invited people to my place and that was fine too.
I trust my instincts, and it's worked out well so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We as a couple prefer to meet at our home ..we have been swingers for many years and never had one single problem from it..we have visited other people's homes and the same too, never had any problems |
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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago
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I have met at peoples houses, and had mine at meets, but I do tend to read every very then read the profiles of those they have met and make an informed judgement, had one that was awkward, made my excuse and left. |
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Do prefer a social first but will do after chats and phone calls.
Even so, have had one when she invited me back to hers after a couple of car meets but the state of the house was an eye opener and unexpected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only ever worry if the house will be clean, and if it’s not, I’d have no worry of turning around and walking out... happened once!
I always say it will start with a chat and see if the connection is there in person, if not then we are both grown ups and we will go our separate ways. We would have spoken for a good while before it even got to me being in their home and if I were there, there must have been a strong connection in the first place.
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