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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
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not a lot to choose between them but I think the "I know i am not what your looking for" one just edges it lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You say you're adventurous, exceptions will be made and you don't take things seriously. Sounds like youre open to most things, including triers. What am I missing when reading your profile? |
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"You say you're adventurous, exceptions will be made and you don't take things seriously. Sounds like youre open to most things, including triers. What am I missing when reading your profile?"
The 'looking for black or heavily tattooed guys' bit... |
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"I know I'm outside your age range but..."
"I know you're not looking for guys with beards but..."
"I know you don't meet smokers but..."
"I know I'm not the type you're looking for but..."
Just a selection of the message openers we regularly receive. Why they bother we don't know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those that don't read our profile. If they did then their time wouldn't be wasted by them messaging with 'I know I'm out of your age range' or guys who have a little weight on them. We're looking for a certain type. |
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""I know I'm outside your age range but..."
"I know you're not looking for guys with beards but..."
"I know you don't meet smokers but..."
"I know I'm not the type you're looking for but..."
Just a selection of the message openers we regularly receive. Why they bother we don't know."
Haha yep. My favourite is 'I know I'm not black or tattooed but I've got an 8" dick...' complete with a picture of a 6 incher at best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people get so upset when the profile hasn’t been read?
I never open profiles, never mind read them. Everyone I’ve ever spoke to has ever asked if I’ve read there profile. ... I sure as hell know they didn’t read mine and I don’t throw a fit over it.
If your judging them for not reading your page, I can judge those that throw their dummies around over it. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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It doesn't bother me if they read it or not, if they blatantly don't I'd just delete the message. Sometimes I can't be bothered reading profiles either and just look at the pretty pictures |
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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
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The latter.
It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....
So we upped it to 40 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you. "
If I read all the text on a women’s profile, ... I’d need a personal assistant.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
The latter.
It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....
So we upped it to 40 "
That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you.
If I read all the text on a women’s profile, ... I’d need a personal assistant. "
It’s all ‘blah blah blah. Me, me me.’
Well I’ve got news lady, I ain’t reading it and I’m sending a message and I’m gonna guess what title I’ve got to put in the box! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who don't read our profile.
And people that ask "what are you looking for then?"
When we've polity said no thanks. 
Boils my piss, just accept it ain't you.. and move on.
Adam  |
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""I know I'm outside your age range but..."
"I know you're not looking for guys with beards but..."
"I know you don't meet smokers but..."
"I know I'm not the type you're looking for but..."
Just a selection of the message openers we regularly receive. Why they bother we don't know."
Totally agree, we've had this from so many that we are completely no match to, ask questions that are answered in first few lines of profile never mind rest. Clearly just look at pics & the male runs profile is our guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life’s to short to be reading profiles, who wants to be doing that shit. To much like work, this is supposed to fun people, fun I tell you.
If I read all the text on a women’s profile, ... I’d need a personal assistant.
It’s all ‘blah blah blah. Me, me me.’
Well I’ve got news lady, I ain’t reading it and I’m sending a message and I’m gonna guess what title I’ve got to put in the box! "
When did, hi, how are you doing? Become such a f’kin insulting start to a conversation. I blame the internet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
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Both are equally as bad and both gets the same response which is the delete button. |
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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
The latter.
It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....
So we upped it to 40
That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast. "
What's a podcast?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
The latter.
It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....
So we upped it to 40
That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast.
What's a podcast?
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Haha. It’s like listening to radio 4. |
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"People who don't read your profile at all, or people who do and start their messages with something like 'I know you're not looking for 'X' but hope you'll make an exception...'
The latter.
It's usually younger guys who used to say, I know your lower age limit says 38.....
So we upped it to 40
That’s right. 40yrs plus’s read, ... under that age and they expect a podcast.
What's a podcast?
Haha. It’s like listening to radio 4. "
We have heard of it and it's like a video blog we guess??
Not into social.media or anything related other than on here.
We don't even have a website for our company. |
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By *G999Man
over a year ago
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I read the whole profile of the OP. It is absolutely riddled with such words as: adventurous, perhaps, likely, rarely, sometimes, all of which indicate a person who is open to negotiation.
I find it difficult to empathise with someone who is getting upset with the responses their profile narrative is generating when the language used doesn't match the members actual wishes and is less than specific in nature.
Perhaps a more definitive statement of your intention would benefit?
But to be honest, they probably wouldn't read it. |
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"I read the whole profile of the OP. It is absolutely riddled with such words as: adventurous, perhaps, likely, rarely, sometimes, all of which indicate a person who is open to negotiation.
I find it difficult to empathise with someone who is getting upset with the responses their profile narrative is generating when the language used doesn't match the members actual wishes and is less than specific in nature.
Perhaps a more definitive statement of your intention would benefit?
But to be honest, they probably wouldn't read it. "
It also says very specifically the type of guy I'm looking for which, despite your 'thorough' read, you've managed to miss. Another selectivity blind fabber I think... |
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By *G999Man
over a year ago
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No it doesn't, it says, and I'm paraphrasing now; "I like black men, but if you're big and have a beard (Or something like that) then I could be persuaded" I might be as you say 'selectively blind' but that's cleary ambiguous? |
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"No it doesn't, it says, and I'm paraphrasing now; "I like black men, but if you're big and have a beard (Or something like that) then I could be persuaded" I might be as you say 'selectively blind' but that's cleary ambiguous? "
Reading comprehension fail! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus the ones that have to tell you they are clean p me off . "
This, we would bloody hope they are and shouldn't have to tell you.
But pretty much everything mentioned above. |
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Rant over 
. Some people need to get a bloody life and lighten up 