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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Never understood why guys ask lady’s that are part of a couple to meet alone
The fun of swinging with another mans wife is that he has given you permission to play with her in front of him while he sits there watching you both , or comes and joins the two of you that’s so erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In your opinion. I'm quite happy to be alone with a lady. I don't need an audience, or a wingman... "
The OP was probably referring to men who are interested in swinging, not men who are looking for one-to-one meets with a single lady. Hopefully a man looking for the latter wouldn’t be wasting a couples time when he only wants the female alone.
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"In your opinion. I'm quite happy to be alone with a lady. I don't need an audience, or a wingman...
The OP was probably referring to men who are interested in swinging, not men who are looking for one-to-one meets with a single lady. Hopefully a man looking for the latter wouldn’t be wasting a couples time when he only wants the female alone.
Mrs"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never understood why guys ask lady’s that are part of a couple to meet alone
The fun of swinging with another mans wife is that he has given you permission to play with her in front of him while he sits there watching you both , or comes and joins the two of you that’s so erotic "
We all have our different views on what swinging is OP. I meet alone and does my husband and part of this is seeing him later and describing what a naughty minx I’ve been 
We also meet as a couple and at clubs so I really don’t think you can categorise so simply.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never understood why guys ask lady’s that are part of a couple to meet alone
The fun of swinging with another mans wife is that he has given you permission to play with her in front of him while he sits there watching you both , or comes and joins the two of you that’s so erotic
We all have our different views on what swinging is OP. I meet alone and does my husband and part of this is seeing him later and describing what a naughty minx I’ve been
We also meet as a couple and at clubs so I really don’t think you can categorise so simply.
MrsK "
I think the op is just aiming at couples who state they don't and won't meet alone.
Yes for some it's hot to go and meet alone and that's fine, for them....but alot, like ourselves don't choose to play that way but still get single guys constantly asking for alone meets (we've had things like "If your not free just you come alone and leave hubby look after the kids, I promise to look after you" to "but I'd feel uncomfortable being watched by your hubby") we state on our profile WE DO NOT MEET ALONE so why do some guys still think it's ok to push the issue?
Different strokes for different folks i agree but surely if it's stated they should either find a single fem or a couple who do play that way
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never understood why guys ask lady’s that are part of a couple to meet alone
The fun of swinging with another mans wife is that he has given you permission to play with her in front of him while he sits there watching you both , or comes and joins the two of you that’s so erotic
We all have our different views on what swinging is OP. I meet alone and does my husband and part of this is seeing him later and describing what a naughty minx I’ve been
We also meet as a couple and at clubs so I really don’t think you can categorise so simply.
MrsK
I think the op is just aiming at couples who state they don't and won't meet alone.
Yes for some it's hot to go and meet alone and that's fine, for them....but alot, like ourselves don't choose to play that way but still get single guys constantly asking for alone meets (we've had things like "If your not free just you come alone and leave hubby look after the kids, I promise to look after you" to "but I'd feel uncomfortable being watched by your hubby") we state on our profile WE DO NOT MEET ALONE so why do some guys still think it's ok to push the issue?
Different strokes for different folks i agree but surely if it's stated they should either find a single fem or a couple who do play that way
Jane x"
I agree Jane if it’s clearly stated you don’t meet alone then it’s poor show to suggest it. They don’t seem to understand that there are no exceptions in that case.
The OP didn’t specifically say couples that state they don’t, just that he didn’t understand why guys would even ask any couple.
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Being part of a couple, having it on your profile does not stop them asking, I don’t mind them asking just to “make sure” (as a lot of profiles have little, or BIG, white lies on them) but they must accept the answer. Some unfortunatly don’t!
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By *oobs1Woman
over a year ago
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"Same reason why the male half of couples ask single females to meet them without their female partners, I guess x"
I have mail most days from men in a couple on here, whose partners clearly don’t realise what they are up too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to feel that if a man pursues a couples profile he must be interested in the three way dynamic from getting involved with a couple. In which case why would he then only want to meet one half of the couple? Sure there are couples who will play separately from their couples profile (us included) but it’s still a couples profile and should treated as such. Obviously the reality is that a large portion of single guys have no interest in getting involved with a couple, but will use the couple because they perceive it that there is an available female. Such guys should stick to single ladies if that is what they want.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In your opinion. I'm quite happy to be alone with a lady. I don't need an audience, or a wingman...
The OP was probably referring to men who are interested in swinging, not men who are looking for one-to-one meets with a single lady. Hopefully a man looking for the latter wouldn’t be wasting a couples time when he only wants the female alone.
Mrs"
Plenty of ladies who are part of a couple talk about meeting alone and then going back to their partner to share their adventures or whatever.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In your opinion. I'm quite happy to be alone with a lady. I don't need an audience, or a wingman...
The OP was probably referring to men who are interested in swinging, not men who are looking for one-to-one meets with a single lady. Hopefully a man looking for the latter wouldn’t be wasting a couples time when he only wants the female alone.
Mrs
Plenty of ladies who are part of a couple talk about meeting alone and then going back to their partner to share their adventures or whatever.."
Well I know that - I’m one of those ladies  |
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