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I kissed a girl and she didn't like it
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Well that was an awkward moment last night. Id attended a regular house party I go to. There was a female/TV couple here, whom I hadn't met before. So I was having some bj fun with TV half. Female was sat next to us as we were playing, and was joining in to a degree. We kissed and it was really nice. Went to kiss her again and she said no, and pushed me away. Couple of minutes after that and they left. I'm not sure what the situation was but it left me feeling pretty empty.
I'm sure I did nothing wrong. Just wondered if anyone else has had a similar experience?
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It reminds me of the old Jasper Carrot sketch where said he’d been to a party and done all the right things including smiling, only when he looked in a mirror later did he see a piece of spinach stuck in his teeth.  |
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"It reminds me of the old Jasper Carrot sketch where said he’d been to a party and done all the right things including smiling, only when he looked in a mirror later did he see a piece of spinach stuck in his teeth. "
No I definately cleaned my gnashers
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"Wasn’t their first party by any chance was it?
I once went to one and one girl left in floods of tears "
They came with someone else who regularly attends. Apparently they did used to be on here. Not sure if they had any meets before though. |
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"Maybe the couple had a no kissing others rule, she might have got carried away in the heat of the moment!?
I'd been kissing the TV half for quite a while before.
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It’s sometimes great to meet newbies , and sometimes it isn’t . This was clearly the latter .
It’s not your problem , so forget it and don’t think any more of it .
Some folk are just not cut out for this lifestyle . |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Not meaning to hijack your post but something similar happened to - just don't let it bother you, people have complex reasons to react to things and it's impossible to be a mind reader.
Sometime last year was at a house party and I was blowing a bloke who was pretty hot and his wife was there too apparently and she was also playing with other men. I mounted him to ride his cock and for the first time we came face to face and I kissed him (love to kiss) and he kissed me back. As he fucked me we kept kissing and our lips must have been joined for a good 15 minutes. All of a sudden this woman comes in the middle of us pushes me off him and she sternly tells him "Steve, lets go" or something to that effect. I'm pretty sure they had some sort of pact to not kiss or show passion or who the hell knows and maybe he broke it or maybe she felt he was too into things.
Anyhow, I just shrugged and moved on but got me thinking why people come to sex parties with a bunch of unrealistic boundaries. Swinging sex is all about the passion isn't it? |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"Their shit not yours. Don't let it affect you xcc"
This.....you carry on being you and let them sort out their problems - life is too short to worry about stuff like that  |
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Dont take it personally OP ... I guess some folk think about trying things ... then when they actually try it ....it doesnt feel comfortable ....if you do ever bump into them just say HI and smile ... |
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Thank you to everyone who’s relplied to this. There was a silver lining to this. As they left I turned round to see a guy had turned up. Who I love spending time with. He’s great company in and out of bed. Just snuggled straight up to him and said “ I really need a hug. “. Woke up his arms this morning. Certainly won’t let it bother me. My only concern was I’d do e something wrong. Everyone who was there last night said, I was really respectful to her. One for the swinging stories of meets gone wrong. 
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"Well that was an awkward moment last night. Id attended a regular house party I go to. There was a female/TV couple here, whom I hadn't met before. So I was having some bj fun with TV half. Female was sat next to us as we were playing, and was joining in to a degree. We kissed and it was really nice. Went to kiss her again and she said no, and pushed me away. Couple of minutes after that and they left. I'm not sure what the situation was but it left me feeling pretty empty.
I'm sure I did nothing wrong. Just wondered if anyone else has had a similar experience?
XX"
Her fb was probably giving her the evils over your shoulder |
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"It reminds me of the old Jasper Carrot sketch where said he’d been to a party and done all the right things including smiling, only when he looked in a mirror later did he see a piece of spinach stuck in his teeth. "
Shelley Birdman did that sketch as well on an LP |
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"Sounds like you had dick on your breath? It happens to the best of us after you've been giving oral
Dick doesn't taste of anything to me.
Me neither
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I can make mine smell like cheese"
Not a bellend brie fan, thanks. 
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Hugs OP
We all spend too much time worrying about other people - when most of the time we will never know why they react a certain way.
As they will never know what we are really feeling.
Try not to take it on board x
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