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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago
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I have asked many couples that I have met on the scene how they mutually got involved in swinging, and each response is different.
For a while I have had a 'fuck buddy' where over the years we have grown closer. Recently I have noticed a really adventurous side to her. Mostly in conversation about trying new things. I have never discussed swinging with her yet I suspect that she has looked into the scene. She speaks of holidaying together on the Cap D'agde and other places where I have looked into for fun getaways!
Would others think that now would be a good time to speak about swinging or should I respect the relationship we have already? |
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ffs i shes bringing up holidaying in the famous swinging resort the subject has been broached 
If you are fuck buddies you are already swinging...its about open honest nsa sex...maybe she already gets this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want to discuss swinging with her then just have a general discussion about it. Say 'what do you think about swinging'. She may say I love the thought of a club, shall we go. Or she may just offer her views on it.
Noone should ever try and persuade others to swing.
And maybe her suggestion of holidaying in Cap D'Age is an interest in naturism and naturist holidays. After all Cap D'Age is a naturist resort and not a swinging resort. |
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Probably a good idea to suggest it early on in a relationship. G suggested we went to a club, and R was willing to give it a try (and liked it!) which is how we got into swinging.
G suggested swinging to his ex after many years of marriage. She got offended that he'd gone off her and wanted other women. Best to start swinging early, in our opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you want to discuss swinging with her then just have a general discussion about it. Say 'what do you think about swinging'. She may say I love the thought of a club, shall we go. Or she may just offer her views on it.
Noone should ever try and persuade others to swing.
And maybe her suggestion of holidaying in Cap D'Age is an interest in naturism and naturist holidays. After all Cap D'Age is a naturist resort and not a swinging resort. "
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By *scottMan
over a year ago
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"I have asked many couples that I have met on the scene how they mutually got involved in swinging, and each response is different.
For a while I have had a 'fuck buddy' where over the years we have grown closer. Recently I have noticed a really adventurous side to her. Mostly in conversation about trying new things. I have never discussed swinging with her yet I suspect that she has looked into the scene. She speaks of holidaying together on the Cap D'agde and other places where I have looked into for fun getaways!
Would others think that now would be a good time to speak about swinging or should I respect the relationship we have already?"
Mention Cap D'agde is known for swingers after you looked it up on a website. Try to gauge her reaction and take it from there. |
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