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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If married people are honest about why they are here and the fact they are playing away then that gives others an informed opinion of whether they would meet or not...
But i wouldn't go there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think "
no just to escape like everyone . |
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Bugger me, we didn't think this was a singles dating site, we always thought it was for swinging couples.
Guess what, most of the couples on here are married and not cheating on their partners, it's called good fun.
Why are most of the singles really married and cheating on their partners? hence the reason they can't meet up half the time and can't accommodate.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re both married to each that is ,but we won’t meet others cheating on there partners behind there backs as we wouldn’t like to be treated that way by one another |
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We used to think most swingers were married couples (we certainly are), though a surprising number of "single" men on here are cheating on their wives, but that's for their conscience to deal with, not ours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I suggested to my wife we try this site out and to meet others. Her honest answer was "wait until we are married it will be naughtier"  "
She's hot x |
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If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that things are never black and white. If someone was married, I don’t think it can ever be as simple as condemning them for being on here without knowing more, or walking the proverbial mike in their shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that things are never black and white. If someone was married, I don’t think it can ever be as simple as condemning them for being on here without knowing more, or walking the proverbial mike in their shoes."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that things are never black and white. If someone was married, I don’t think it can ever be as simple as condemning them for being on here without knowing more, or walking the proverbial mike in their shoes."
That sounds painful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married and playing on here together or under singles profiles, crack on....
Married and fucking about behind their partner's back? Spoke to plenty and some have legitimate reasons (they feel) for doing so, I try not to judge. But I wouldn't get physically involved with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??"
See my response ^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Married and playing on here together or under singles profiles, crack on....
Married and fucking about behind their partner's back? Spoke to plenty and some have legitimate reasons (they feel) for doing so, I try not to judge. But I wouldn't get physically involved with them."
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Errr it's a swinging site dude "
That’s what my initial thought was. And then I saw it was a cleverly disguised cheating thread.....probably having a go at their grammar to,....whilst doing bareback. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If married people are honest about why they are here and the fact they are playing away then that gives others an informed opinion of whether they would meet or not...
But i wouldn't go there"
I agree with what you say, honesty is the main thing and let the person who you are chatting to make the decision for themselves.
Some people have genuine reasons for it tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??"
Nice look at me thread OP 
You will get the same answers this thread produces every time it's posted with the same range of opinions.
Are the opinions of others always what determine how you live your own life? |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think "
Some do, some don't.
If you don't like it, then maybe move along. Their reasons are their business, not yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are married.. very happily married. Our sex life is great and we consider ourselves to be soul mates.
We are completely open and honest with each other. We enjoy sex in many forms and fab is an extra to our sex life.
We won't meet married people who are cheating. Just our preference. We would hope people are honest enough to not meet us if they are here dishonestly.
Eve. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
Nice look at me thread OP
You will get the same answers this thread produces every time it's posted with the same range of opinions.
Thanks for your reply, I have not really been on the forums so I have not seen these threads but I imagine it has been asked a number of times, I just wanted honest opinions that’s all.
Cheers
Are the opinions of others always what determine how you live your own life?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some are married couple Swingers.
Yeah I understand that I’m more on about the people who are on here without consent"
Oh there's loads of those. Even some swinging couples cheat on each other.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are married.. very happily married. Our sex life is great and we consider ourselves to be soul mates.
We are completely open and honest with each other. We enjoy sex in many forms and fab is an extra to our sex life.
We won't meet married people who are cheating. Just our preference. We would hope people are honest enough to not meet us if they are here dishonestly.
Eve. x"
Thank you, that’s why I would always be honest before even chatting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some are married couple Swingers.
Yeah I understand that I’m more on about the people who are on here without consent
Oh there's loads of those. Even some swinging couples cheat on each other. "
I see what your saying and I suppose it does happen all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If married people are honest about why they are here and the fact they are playing away then that gives others an informed opinion of whether they would meet or not...
But i wouldn't go there
I agree with what you say, honesty is the main thing and let the person who you are chatting to make the decision for themselves.
Some people have genuine reasons for it tho "
What genuine reasons? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think
Some do, some don't.
If you don't like it, then maybe move along. Their reasons are their business, not yours."
Yes that’s true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My thoughts are it's not really my business, but all else being equal I'd choose a single guy over a married cheat every time,for many reasons. "
Understudy that’s always the best option but maybe the person who is doing the cheating has a perfect reason for it and who knows what could build from it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some are married couple Swingers.
Yeah I understand that I’m more on about the people who are on here without consent"
Will you promise to pop back and tell us what she thinks when she finds out please.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they say upfront then I’ll decide but if i go on a social then find out ill walk. "
Honesty is the main thing I would think, I can see that everyone would make there own opinions based on honesty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some are married couple Swingers.
Yeah I understand that I’m more on about the people who are on here without consent
Will you promise to pop back and tell us what she thinks when she finds out please.."
Always one!! |
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"If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that things are never black and white. If someone was married, I don’t think it can ever be as simple as condemning them for being on here without knowing more, or walking the proverbial mike in their shoes.
That sounds painful "
Flipping autocorrect! Proverbial mile in their shows.
And I know... you knew!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
Cheating c...."
What’s the c.... stand for then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do say on our profile, we do meet married or attached people..gives them the chance to be open and honest..let's face it, most married or attached guys will lie anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It doesn't bother me - if they are honest! If they lie and I find out then it's block! "
Honesty is the main thing isn’t it, people can make there own decisions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We do say on our profile, we do meet married or attached people..gives them the chance to be open and honest..let's face it, most married or attached guys will lie anyway "
Most would, I personally think honesty is the main thing isn’t it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that things are never black and white. If someone was married, I don’t think it can ever be as simple as condemning them for being on here without knowing more, or walking the proverbial mike in their shoes.
That sounds painful
Flipping autocorrect! Proverbial mile in their shows.
And I know... you knew! "
It has a habit of doing that to people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If married people are honest about why they are here and the fact they are playing away then that gives others an informed opinion of whether they would meet or not...
But i wouldn't go there
I agree with what you say, honesty is the main thing and let the person who you are chatting to make the decision for themselves.
Some people have genuine reasons for it tho
What genuine reasons? "
Not really something I would descuss until I was face to face with someone who was understanding if you get me. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"My thoughts are it's not really my business, but all else being equal I'd choose a single guy over a married cheat every time,for many reasons.
Understudy that’s always the best option but maybe the person who is doing the cheating has a perfect reason for it and who knows what could build from it?"
I don't care what people's "perfect reason" is. Nothing can build from it that I can't get from a single man. And with him I don't need to worry about an angry wife finding out, scheduling not just meets but even messaging around his secrecy, and having to be careful not to scratch, bite, wear too much perfume. |
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
Cheating c....
What’s the c.... stand for then?"
Cunt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think married people and unmarried people have a myriad of reasons between them for being here. Judge not until you have walked a mile in their shoes.
Conduct yourself as you wish and in a way that you are comfortable with. Allow others to do the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My thoughts are it's not really my business, but all else being equal I'd choose a single guy over a married cheat every time,for many reasons.
Understudy that’s always the best option but maybe the person who is doing the cheating has a perfect reason for it and who knows what could build from it?
I don't care what people's "perfect reason" is. Nothing can build from it that I can't get from a single man. And with him I don't need to worry about an angry wife finding out, scheduling not just meets but even messaging around his secrecy, and having to be careful not to scratch, bite, wear too much perfume. "
Thank you for your honesty |
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Why are people concerned about what others are here for and why does it matter how or where we spend our social or downtime.
Im married, I dont want to meet anyone other than socials. I know people here and the Forums make me laugh.
I pay my way unlike many..
At my age I answer to no one.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think married people and unmarried people have a myriad of reasons between them for being here. Judge not until you have walked a mile in their shoes.
Conduct yourself as you wish and in a way that you are comfortable with. Allow others to do the same. "
Thank you for that honest response x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are people concerned about what others are here for and why does it matter how or where we spend our social or downtime.
Im married, I dont want to meet anyone other than socials. I know people here and the Forums make me laugh.
I pay my way unlike many..
At my age I answer to no one. "
Good answer, honest x |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??"
I know what you meant, tell you are single and they are really playing away, I get a bit fed up with it to be honest! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
Cheating c....
What’s the c.... stand for then?
Cunt."
Thought so haha, nice word for a woman to say but never mind!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
I know what you meant, tell you are single and they are really playing away, I get a bit fed up with it to be honest!"
That’s why I asked the question to be honest, I just wanted to see if people would meet with people if they knew they was married and playing without consent, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not my business. The only thing I'd expect, is for them to be honest about their marital status, upon messaging with a view to meeting, so I can make an informed decision as to whether I'd want to meet them or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think "
A) Your question is not clear.
B) Noone knows what goes on in each others head.
C) The most interesting question is why do you care? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care.
I personally like fucking married women that are here though and the fellas don't know. Fuck then send them home to kiss the fella with a mouth full of my sperm. |
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
Cheating c....
What’s the c.... stand for then?
Cunt.
Thought so haha, nice word for a woman to say but never mind!!!"
I wasn't calling you a cheating cunt as I don't know whether you are cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
I know what you meant, tell you are single and they are really playing away, I get a bit fed up with it to be honest!
That’s why I asked the question to be honest, I just wanted to see if people would meet with people if they knew they was married and playing without consent, thank you "
I do. They're really keen when they're getting crap sex at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are people concerned about what others are here for and why does it matter how or where we spend our social or downtime.
Im married, I dont want to meet anyone other than socials. I know people here and the Forums make me laugh.
I pay my way unlike many..
At my age I answer to no one. "
Would you go to a social flashing your boobs and showing your ass? Why the sexy photos if sex is not your intention? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
Cheating c....
What’s the c.... stand for then?
Cunt.
Thought so haha, nice word for a woman to say but never mind!!!
I wasn't calling you a cheating cunt as I don't know whether you are cheating. "
Oh right, very sorry, my apologies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe I’ve explained my question wrong, I’m on any married people who are on this site ready to meet with others without consent from your partner??
I know what you meant, tell you are single and they are really playing away, I get a bit fed up with it to be honest!
That’s why I asked the question to be honest, I just wanted to see if people would meet with people if they knew they was married and playing without consent, thank you
I do. They're really keen when they're getting crap sex at home. "
I bet they are lol, thanks for your honesty x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not my business. The only thing I'd expect, is for them to be honest about their marital status, upon messaging with a view to meeting, so I can make an informed decision as to whether I'd want to meet them or not. "
Thank you for being honest |
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think "
Some one obviously does not know what swinging is all about |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think
Some one obviously does not know what swinging is all about "
I asked for an opinion not to be insulted!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It doesn't bother me - if they are honest! If they lie and I find out then it's block!
Honesty is the main thing isn’t it, people can make there own decisions "
Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What’s everyone’s honest opinion about people who are married and using this site?
Do married people come on here to cheat or is there a reason around it?
What does everyone honestly think
Some one obviously does not know what swinging is all about "
Why label swinging as this or that, if they are happy let them be.
No drama |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’re both married to each that is ,but we won’t meet others cheating on there partners behind there backs as we wouldn’t like to be treated that way by one another "
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